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Confidence before achievement

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Often my clients struggle with self-confidence in either their professional or personal lives. They find themselves confident in one part of their life but not in others. They believe the solution is to work harder to become more confident in the other parts. They’ve followed the promise of achieving X and the result will be […]

How does this serve you?

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I’m not appreciated. I often hear this from clients when they are verbal vomiting the painful stories in their head about an area they are struggling with. A magic trick I have to stop the vomit is to ask “how does it serve you to believe you are not appreciated.” The immediate answer, It doesn’t […]

Don’t let other people’s judgements stop you.

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People have opinions. In fact, they have lots of opinions. And don’t worry, their opinions include judgements about what you should and shouldn’t do. Don’t let their judgements stop you. Instead you must listen to the inside of you. Give your opinion more weight than you do other people’s judgement. Last fall, I was helping […]

Stop saying THIS sentence

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There’s one thing that’s getting in the way of your confidence. You believe it’s either:  Your lack of achieving your goals + desires. All the demands placed on your life + schedule. Your lot in life. Actually it’s not any of those life circumstances. It’s what you believe. It’s your thought. It’s a sentence in […]

Bye bye vampire

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I used to be an energy vampire. I was not nice to me. In fact, I was filled with quite a bit of self-hatred and shame. Not great energy to have. My solution was to get other people’s energy to fuel myself. I found nice friends. In fact, I had a collection of nice people […]

OMG! Exciting News

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OMG! Exciting news! Recently I celebrated a significant event in my life (keep reading so you can see how that affects you). 14 years of my show. More importantly….what I am really celebrating was by starting this show in 2006, I finally listened to that voice in the back of my head. “Koren, there’s a […]

What are you hiding from us?

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You have spent your life being who you thought you were supposed to be. You said what you believed others wanted to hear. You have been hiding your true self from us. Here’s the thing, I want to know what you have to say. I want to know who you are inside. Please stop hiding. […]

Sick and Tired of Your Life? Read This.

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I’m always talking about you becoming the LEADER of YOUR LIFE. WHY? Because most of our lives — especially if you are female — you’ve been culturally programmed to fit in to be accepted, to have a place in society. I get it … back in the day this was important to ensure one’s safety […]

Her own opinion mattered more to her

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My client was going out with her husband to celebrate their anniversary. She picked a hat to wear with her outfit. She was so excited about this hat because she loved the way it looked on her. Then … She got worried. What if her husband didn’t like it? What if he thought she was […]

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