howshereallydoesit.com

  • About
  • Podcast
  • Work With Koren
  • Dare to Lead™
  • Shop
  • Workshops
  • Blog

Maybe this is as good as it gets?

Posted on January 24, 2023

Do you remember the 1997 movie As Good as It Gets? Jack Nicholson and Helen Hunt playing people who were settling for a good-enough life. I hated that movie.  Because it was my life and I didn’t want to accept it. Even back then, I knew I was climbing the wrong career ladder. I was […]

The cost of complaining

The cost of complaining

Posted on January 17, 2023

There’s an internal rumbling. It’s uncomfortable. It’s painful. All you want to do is get rid of it. You do that by complaining. You find short-term relief by letting it out. By complaining, you’re offloading your pain onto someone else. It feels good  … kind of like throwing up after a big ole’ tummy ache. […]

Stop saying THIS sentence

Posted on November 17, 2020

There’s one thing that’s getting in the way of your confidence. You believe it’s either:  Your lack of achieving your goals + desires. All the demands placed on your life + schedule. Your lot in life. Actually it’s not any of those life circumstances. It’s what you believe. It’s your thought. It’s a sentence in […]

How to act with confidence when you hate yourself

Posted on November 10, 2020

You can’t act with confidence when you hate yourself. That would not be confidence, it would be a lie. Let’s look at the definition of confidence: the state of feeling certain about the truth of something. a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities. the feeling or belief that […]

Loving yourself is the gift you can give others.

Posted on November 3, 2020

Start with LOVE. Love leads to more LOVE. It’s not selfish or being self absorbed to love yourself. Loving yourself is to your ability to love others. Love yourself first and then you have the ability to extend that love to others in every encounter. When you love yourself, you are filled with LOVE. When […]

Bye bye vampire

Posted on October 27, 2020

I used to be an energy vampire. I was not nice to me. In fact, I was filled with quite a bit of self-hatred and shame. Not great energy to have. My solution was to get other people’s energy to fuel myself. I found nice friends. In fact, I had a collection of nice people […]

OMG! Exciting News

Posted on October 20, 2020

OMG! Exciting news! Recently I celebrated a significant event in my life (keep reading so you can see how that affects you). 14 years of my show. More importantly….what I am really celebrating was by starting this show in 2006, I finally listened to that voice in the back of my head. “Koren, there’s a […]

What are you hiding from us?

Posted on October 13, 2020

You have spent your life being who you thought you were supposed to be. You said what you believed others wanted to hear. You have been hiding your true self from us. Here’s the thing, I want to know what you have to say. I want to know who you are inside. Please stop hiding. […]

Blog image "Sick and tired of your life? Read this."

Sick and Tired of Your Life? Read This.

Posted on October 6, 2020

I’m always talking about you becoming the LEADER of YOUR LIFE. WHY? Because most of our lives — especially if you are female — you’ve been culturally programmed to fit in to be accepted, to have a place in society. I get it … back in the day this was important to ensure one’s safety […]

Her own opinion mattered more to her

Posted on September 29, 2020

My client was going out with her husband to celebrate their anniversary. She picked a hat to wear with her outfit. She was so excited about this hat because she loved the way it looked on her. Then … She got worried. What if her husband didn’t like it? What if he thought she was […]

  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • …
  • 15
  • Next Page »

Gratitude Cards

Discover 10 Ways to Practice Gratitude

About Koren

Hello, I am Koren. I am a real person just like you.  I practice living my life in alignment with who I am, even if that means I am different. I show up and do the work too! I am okay and so are you. I am a mother, wife, family member, friend, entrepreneur and community builder ... learn more

Follow

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • RSS
  • Twitter

Join the List

Get your inspiration + possibility delivered weekly with a smile!

koren cta


Listener Favorites

  • Vulnerability, Shame + Daring Greatly

  • Stepping into Your Own Power with Martha Beck

  • Start With Why with Simon Sinek

Inspiring stories, tips, & takeaways delivered weekly with a smile.

  • About
  • Podcast
  • Enough
  • Blog
  • Resources
  • Contact

Koren Motekaitis

@ 2006-2023 Koren Motekaitis. All Rights Reserved. Terms & Conditions - Privacy Policy - Disclaimer

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • RSS
  • Twitter