Have you noticed the voices in your heads often ask you crappy questions like: What’s wrong with me? Why is this happening to me? Why is my life so hard? When you ask those questions it does not take you out of shame but helps you further dive into this feeling you want nothing to […]
Perfectionism: The golden handcuffs of life. You believe that once you finally look perfect, act perfect, and always do perfect that you’ll get the results you want. STOP! This lie of perfectionism only creates more shame … more of those little voices in the back of your head that tell you… “See, you’re really not […]
I’m not enough. I’m a fraud. I don’t know everything. I am too much. I am bad. Sound familiar? They are like those damn junior high friends who always had something not so nice to say in the back of your head. My work with my clients is about becoming shame resilient. This does not […]
In my own life, since I didn’t believe in myself, I leaned HARD on those who did believe in me. Over time, I exhausted them. I could not accept their belief in me, and would discount and ignore them, and yet keep going back for more validation. I just wanted to be able to see […]