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Making mistakes DOES NOT make you a failure

Posted on June 6, 2023

You need to stop believing that making mistakes makes you a failure. I realize we have been taught that mistakes equal an “F” in school … however, my friend, this is life, not the rules of school. Mistakes are lessons learned … and we all go through them (and even need them). Yes, all of […]

Rewriting your story - Koren Motekaitis

Rewriting your story

Posted on May 30, 2023

In my swimming world, I am faced with a lot of obstacles surrounding “the story of swim meets.” Years ago, Dan Pink and I had a discussion about swim meets. He did not like them, “you spent all day and if you weren’t paying attention, could miss your child’s 14 second race.” Unfortunately, while Dan […]

The answer you've been searching for your entire life - Koren Motekaitis

The answer you’ve been searching for your entire life

Posted on May 23, 2023

I had it all wrong. I thought I had to be better than I could possibly be. I thought I had to achieve great success. I thought I had to be perfect. Then, if I could achieve all of these things, I’d be loved. I would finally be worthy of love + belonging. The thing […]

How to show up when you feel like a fraud

How to show up in life when you feel like a fraud

Posted on May 16, 2023

You think you’re a fraud. You don’t know how to show up in your life because of this story. So you hide away.  You don’t show up.  You don’t speak out.  You don’t create what you want in your life. Let’s take a look at the definition of fraud: “A person or thing intended to […]

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Start giving yourself permission …

Posted on May 9, 2023

ALERT: You are an adult. You no longer need someone else’s permission. You can give yourself permission. Stop waiting for someone else to give you permission to DO, to BE, to HAVE what you want. As an adult you get to do that. Give yourself permission to: Ask for what you want. Make a mistake. […]

The stories that limit us

Posted on May 2, 2023

We are story making creatures. Our brain is neuro-biologically wired for stories. In the white space of not knowing … our brain creates a story. Usually the stories we tell ourselves create prison walls + keep us away from the possibilities for our lives. My client Natalie had one of those stories. She works in […]

Stop using “busy” to measure happiness

Posted on April 25, 2023

My client used busy as a status symbol for happiness. If she was busy, she thought, she could prove to others she was worthy … and therefore would be happy. Sure, busy fills up that vulnerable white space we covet, but are so afraid of because we are then alone with ourselves. If you don’t […]

"What causes people pain is the belief that obstacles shouldn't be happening." -Koren Motekaitis

Overcoming Obstacles

Posted on April 18, 2023

A couple of obstacles parents have told me about recently … “My daughter didn’t want to put on her new suit for swim practice.” “My teen wasn’t happy about getting out of bed for the swim meet.” What causes people pain is the belief that obstacles shouldn’t be happening. While the parent of a teen […]

Ready to quit? Hold on a minute…

Posted on April 11, 2023

You’re not sure. Whether to stay in your marriage, to stay in your job, rebuild that connection in your family, or to finally lose weight after so many failed attempts. Sure, you can quit. That would be fine. Get a divorce. Find a new job. Put up walls with your family and call them all […]

I grew up poor in an alcoholic home

Posted on April 4, 2023

I’m blown away at the life I’ve created for myself. If you don’t know my story, I was a girl who once believed “she was a loser born on loser street.” I grew up poor in an alcoholic home. My parents really loved us … however there was just a lot, a whole lot, of […]

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Hello, I am Koren. I am a real person just like you.  I practice living my life in alignment with who I am, even if that means I am different. I show up and do the work too! I am okay and so are you. I am a mother, wife, family member, friend, entrepreneur and community builder ... learn more

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