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How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | It’s an invitation, not an obligationHow She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | It’s an invitation, not an obligation

It’s an invitation, not an obligation [DEEP DIVE]

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[podcast_episode episode="22271" ]After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Emotional healthHow She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Emotional health

Emotional health [DEEP DIVE]

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[podcast_episode episode="22255" ]There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Compartmentalizing: stop surviving and start thrivingHow She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Compartmentalizing: stop surviving and start thriving

Compartmentalizing: stop surviving and start thriving [DEEP DIVE]

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[podcast_episode episode="22248" ]Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Being proud of yourselfHow She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Being proud of yourself

Being proud of yourself [DEEP DIVE]

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[podcast_episode episode="22241" ]I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | What you seek...is inside of youHow She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | What you seek...is inside of you

What you seek…is inside of you [DEEP DIVE]

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[podcast_episode episode="22236" ]We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Fierce Self-Compassion with Kristin NeffHow She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Fierce Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff

Fierce Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff

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[podcast_episode episode="22207" ]As women, we have been culturally programmed to believe that our worth is subordinate to other people’s and that we must prioritize everybody else’s needs and wants above our own. These messages have been used to disempower us, but the world is changing, and it’s time for a shift. Today’s guest is here to discuss […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Step-mom vs. bonus mom [DEEP DIVE]How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Step-mom vs. bonus mom [DEEP DIVE]

Step-mom vs. bonus mom [DEEP DIVE]

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[podcast_episode episode="22197" ]For the woman who never wanted to have children, I’ve been raising kids a pretty long time. Being a parent is challenging and vulnerable, and being a step-parent in some ways poses even more challenges. Cultural programming paints step-moms as evil, which only adds to the difficulties. For a long time, I would compare my […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Where do we go now?How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Where do we go now?

Where do we go now? [DEEP DIVE]

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[podcast_episode episode="22187" ]Have you ever noticed that when you go through something hard, you keep on going, then suddenly when there’s nothing that needs to be done urgently anymore, you fall apart? As though your mind or body just stops functioning? It happened to me recently after going through a particularly difficult time. I kept it together […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | So less alone: behind the scenes with Kate WoodHow She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | So less alone: behind the scenes with Kate Wood

So less alone: behind the scenes with Kate Wood

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[podcast_episode episode="22184" ]I know how much you love hearing client case studies and what happens in life coaching, and I truly believe we learn so much from peoples’ stories. So, I’m bringing my former client Kate onto the show this week to share her brave journey with you all. Faced with the prospect of losing something extremely […]
How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Death by a thousand cuts [DEEP DIVE]How She Really Does It with Koren Motekaitis | Death by a thousand cuts [DEEP DIVE]

Death by a thousand cuts [DEEP DIVE]

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[podcast_episode episode="22177" ]One of my favorite sayings in recent months is ‘death by a thousand cuts.’ It’s the concept of small cuts building up over time that can lead to the death of our souls. How we talk to ourselves can be a cut, and life is hard enough without cutting ourselves. How often do you show […]

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