You don’t like mess. You don’t like things to be messy. I am not talking about your physical space. I am talking about your relationships, communication, your work, families and friendships.
Maybe you’re afraid to have a difficult conversation with your friend because you’re worried it will end the friendship.
Maybe your marriage doesn’t look as loving or blissful as you had imagined. Or your relationship with your parents. Or your kids. Or your body. Or your bank account.
The mess is part of the journey and there is so much beauty that can grow out of messes if we allow for the messy and look for the beauty.
When we are willing to show up, authentically and wholeheartedly with an open heart, we can allow it to be messy as we know there will be growth. That is what the beauty in the mess is all about.
Now you don’t need to create a bunch of messes. No need to go looking for them. They will be there. Just stop believing that messes shouldn’t happen. That is a painful belief. Instead look for the beauty in the mess. Remember this is part of the journey as you evolve to the next level of yourself. You can even say thank you as you are in the mess.
P.S. For more, check out this podcast episode: The Fairy Tale of Life Balance