Culturally, we’ve been programmed that in order to be worthy you must be:
- Kind to others before you are kind to yourself.
This does not leave any space to make mistakes, to fall down, and to have bad hair days.
We’ve been set up to forever be hustling for our worthiness.
Frankly, this is draining and you’ll never actually feel worthy…
You want more joy in your life, but have been conditioned you can’t have it until you are worthy.
You can’t be worthy until you’re perfect, successful and beautiful.
You feel defeated because worthiness seems unattainable.
The thing is…unlike what we’ve been culturally programmed to believe…you don’t become worthy by what you achieve, how you look and by being perfect.
This cultural programming of beliefs is what has gotten in the way of your worthiness.
You’ve believed what you have been programmed to believe.
You’ve played by the rules.
And you still don’t feel worthy.
In fact as you’ve achieved more, become more successful and worked to look better you’ve actually felt less worthy.
Your beliefs are what’s getting in the way of your worthiness.
You’ve believed our cultural programming that achieving success, being perfect, and looking beautiful will finally make you worthy.
This programming is actually a lie.
You see, you are already worthy.
Yes right here, right now, you are worthy.
You are worthy when:
- You make mistakes. We all make them.
- You have bad hair days.
- You weigh 50 pounds more than your body’s natural weight.
- You don’t get your dream job.
- Your relationship ends.
All that needs to change is for you to stop believing that you are not worthy.
It’s up to you to view yourself through the same compassionate lens you view your best friend.
Your best friend has strengths and flaws and yet she is still worthy to be your friend.
Now it’s your turn to view yourself through the same compassionate lens and believe that you are worthy with your strengths and flaws.
The fantastic news is, that is all that needs to change for you to start believing you are worthy right now.
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