Who do you need to become, in order to reach your goals?

So much talk about setting goals.

“Set your goals to obtain them.” But there is more to it …

Sometimes we forget that setting goals is only one part of the process.

There are also obstacles to achieving one’s goals.

And one of those obstacles is to answer the question to “who is it you need to become in the process of obtaining your goals.”

If your goal is to get to your natural weight …

The person you need to become is one who is connected to her body and understanding what foods fuel her body and what foods drain her body.
The person you need to become is one who honors commitments to herself.
The person you need to become is one who believes in herself.
The person you need to become is one who loves herself, despite what the number on the scale says.

If your goal is to create connected and loving relationships …

The person you need to become is one who is loving and connected to yourself so you have something to give others.
The person you need to become is a safe person without judgement for yourself and others.
The person you need to become is one who is willing to be vulnerable and uncomfortable yet totally willing to risk failing to create connected and loving relationships.

If your goal is to build your business …

The person you need to become is brave in your daily life.
The person you need to become is one who is willing to show up even when you want to quit.
The person you need to become is one who is willing to make mistakes, learn from them and get back up again and try again, and again and again.

If your goal is to make $_______ money …

The person you need to become is one who is comfortable with making money.
The person you need to become is one who is willing to own her value.
The person you need to become is one who really understands that money is a math game, not tied to your worthiness or deserving.

If your goal is to be ENOUGH …

The person you need to become is one who trusts her own opinion of herself.
The person you need to become is one who treats herself with self-compassion.
The person you need to become is one who practices reflection.
The person you need to become is one who is able to fall down and get back up.
The person you need to become is one who is willing to feel all of her feelings.

Now it’s your turn write down your goal … and a sketch of the person you need to become to reach it.

This is the way it happens. We’ve mistakenly believed that you become that person after you obtain the goal.

On the contrary, it’s in the active pursuit of your goal that you become that person who will obtain it.

Want to fast-track your path to becoming that person? I can help with that …

smiling,