So often, we spend our time pursuing our goals and dreams, and we think we know what’s best for us. We believe that what we strive for is the best option because it is what we so desperately want.
But sometimes things can happen that prevent us from getting what we want, and it leads to us experiencing grief, anger, or betrayal. We hold on to that one ending we wanted and it exacerbates our feelings of despair and sadness.
But what if not having the thing we thought we wanted was, in fact, the best outcome for us? What if you not getting what you think you want right now is the best thing to help you move forward in your life?
It takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to go after your goals and dreams, so when you don’t get something you want, it can feel painful. But I invite you to ask yourself, is there another ending that you perhaps have not considered?
In this episode, I’m showing you how to start looking for other possible endings to the things you want in your life and giving you a new perspective to help you overcome the loss of what didn’t happen. Discover some key learnings you can implement to help you overcome when something doesn’t happen that you want, and how to start seeing alternative outcomes that you aren’t currently thinking about.
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WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER
- The importance of feeling your feelings when you go through something difficult.
- Some of the lessons I have continued to learn and how to apply them to your life.
- How to start exploring alternative endings to the thing you didn’t get that you thought you wanted.
- Why it is so important to consider alternative endings to your situations.
- The problem with arguing with reality.
- Why sometimes the heartbreak of not getting what you want is actually the best thing for you.
- How to handle things when faced with a situation you didn’t want.
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