Your biggest fear is what other people say about you.
So you hustle for others to approve of you. You tell other people what you believe they want to hear. You do what other people want you to do.
In fact you spend so much time and energy trying to control what other people say about you that you’re exhausted and frankly you don’t like yourself.
You are trying to control the external to make your internal feel better.
This does NOT work.
Instead you must question WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY about you as your truth?
One of the lies we believe is that we are what other people say about us.
Other people have their opinions based on the lens they see you through.
We are all great story tellers and depending on the story they create for you … you can be amazing or dreadful through their lens.
But other people’s stories about you do not define you.
They are other people’s opinions.
You are YOU.
What do you say about yourself?
What is your opinion of you?
What is your knowing of you?
Who are you?
You get to decide.
You get to write your narrative, not someone else.
Start now…So what are you waiting for – GET STARTED!
smiling,
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