Lately I’ve noticed this voice in the back of my head.
It’s been there a long time.
I just wasn’t aware of the message I was listening to.
This voice likes me to believe “it’s all on me!!!!”
It really doesn’t matter what “it” is.
Before I became aware of this voice, I often acted on it.
I was the back up.
I was the one who took care of everything + everyone else.
I didn’t ask for help.
It was exhausting.
I wanted to quit.
Quit what, you ask?
Some days just about everything.
Yes, quite a bit of drama in my brain, right?
The fantastic news … once I realized this voice was in my head, I questioned it.
Is it absolutely true?
No, of course not.
Were there other options?
And you know what?
I was able to start to see the other options.
It wasn’t the perfect answer right away.
But you know what … I used my resourceful brain and found other options, that didn’t include me.
I went even further … I reminded myself that from now on I will not make myself the safety net.
It’s no longer all on me.
Now it’s your turn.
smiling,
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