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	<description><![CDATA[Last week, I discussed how to grow self-awareness through mindset. On today’s episode, we look at emotions. While we are all emotional beings, some of us don’t have a language for emotions or maybe we’ve been told that emotions are weak. One thing you can do to grow your self-awareness is to learn the language [&#8230;]]]></description>
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	<title>The vulnerability of relationships</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[Communication in relationships can sometimes feel murky. This week, we emphasize the significance of honest and vulnerable communication. I&#8217;ll share a mantra and an example of my daughter&#8217;s candid communication during her childhood. It&#8217;s true that communication in relationships can lead to expectations, moments of overwhelm, and discomfort. However, in the end, nurturing communication is [&#8230;]]]></description>
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	<title>The obstacles of receiving</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[Have you ever offered a compliment only to have it shrugged off or downplayed? Or perhaps you&#8217;ve found it challenging to truly accept a compliment yourself? Both giving and receiving compliments can leave us feeling vulnerable. This week, we discuss the challenges of connecting and the obstacles that keep up from receiving.  We&#8217;ll explore the [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Have you ever offered a compliment only to have it shrugged off or downplayed? Or perhaps you&#8217;ve found it challenging to truly accept a compliment yourself? Both giving and receiving compliments can leave us feeling vulnerable. This week, we discus]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<title>Sobriety with Andrea Owen</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/sobriety-andrea-owen/</link>
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	<description><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote speaker, and professional certified life coach, Andrea Owen. Andrea helps high-achieving women [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote speaker, and professional certified life coach, Andrea Owen. Andrea helps high-achieving women [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/koren-motekaitis-sobriety-andrea-owen-317-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Sobriety with Andrea Owen</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote speaker, and professional certified life coach, Andrea Owen. Andrea helps high-achieving women [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/koren-motekaitis-sobriety-andrea-owen-317-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Invisible skillsets</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/invisible-skillsets/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Aug 2023 10:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23357</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a weakness in corporate environments. But it is an invisible skillset and the scaffolding that [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a wea]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a weakness in corporate environments. But it is an invisible skillset and the scaffolding that [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a weakness in corporate environments. But it is an invisible skillset and the scaffolding that [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/koren-motekaitis-invisible-skillsets-315-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Invisible skillsets</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a weakness in corporate environments. But it is an invisible skillset and the scaffolding that [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/koren-motekaitis-invisible-skillsets-315-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Other people&#8217;s judgment</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/other-peoples-judgment/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jul 2023 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23331</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgment. We look closely at shame and how we receive judgment. We [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgmen]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgment. We look closely at shame and how we receive judgment. We [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23331/other-peoples-judgment.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgment. We look closely at shame and how we receive judgment. We [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-other-peoples-judgment-312-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-other-peoples-judgment-312-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Other people&#8217;s judgment</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgment. We look closely at shame and how we receive judgment. We [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-other-peoples-judgment-312-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Creating resilient cultures</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/creating-resilient-cultures/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2023 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23292</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. When we can sit with and process through them, we build resilience. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. When we can sit with and process through them, we build resilience. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23292/creating-resilient-cultures.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. When we can sit with and process through them, we build resilience. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-resilient-cultures-306-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-resilient-cultures-306-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Creating resilient cultures</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. When we can sit with and process through them, we build resilience. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-resilient-cultures-306-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Vulnerable Talk: Creating Communication Rules</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/communication-rules/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jun 2023 10:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23281</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatigue. Finding time to reach out by picking up the phone can be a generous, great way [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatig]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatigue. Finding time to reach out by picking up the phone can be a generous, great way [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23281/communication-rules.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatigue. Finding time to reach out by picking up the phone can be a generous, great way [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-communication-rules-304-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Vulnerable Talk: Creating Communication Rules</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatigue. Finding time to reach out by picking up the phone can be a generous, great way [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-communication-rules-304-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The importance of being a newbie + play</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/newbie-play/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 10:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23206</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentality allows us to confront barriers of perfectionism while opening [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentalit]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentality allows us to confront barriers of perfectionism while opening [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23206/newbie-play.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentality allows us to confront barriers of perfectionism while opening [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-newbie-play-293-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-newbie-play-293-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>The importance of being a newbie + play</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentality allows us to confront barriers of perfectionism while opening [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-newbie-play-293-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>I’m struggling</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/im-struggling/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2023 10:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23149</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23149/im-struggling.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-im-struggling-287-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-im-struggling-287-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>I’m struggling</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-im-struggling-287-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>We are not okay…</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/we-are-not-okay/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2022 10:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23069</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlight reels and assume what’s going on, but [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlig]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlight reels and assume what’s going on, but [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23069/we-are-not-okay.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlight reels and assume what’s going on, but [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI275Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI275Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>We are not okay…</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlight reels and assume what’s going on, but [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI275Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Space to achieve</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/space-to-achieve/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jul 2022 10:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22864</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow uncertainty. But sometimes uncertainty is where [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow uncertainty. But sometimes uncertainty is where [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22864/space-to-achieve.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow uncertainty. But sometimes uncertainty is where [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI257Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Space to achieve</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow uncertainty. But sometimes uncertainty is where [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI257Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What to do when you feel overwhelmed</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/feel-overwhelmed/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 13 May 2022 10:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22801</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point of feeling unable to function. And often we don’t even [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point of feeling unable to function. And often we don’t even [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point of feeling unable to function. And often we don’t even [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point of feeling unable to function. And often we don’t even [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/HSRDI249Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Other people’s judgments</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/other-peoples-judgments/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2022 10:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22777</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and we think it is protecting us. We [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and we think it is protecting us. We [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and we think it is protecting us. We [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Other people’s judgments</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and we think it is protecting us. We [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/HSRDI248Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Boundaries to put into place</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/boundaries-to-put-into-place/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2022 10:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22758</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce them and keep them strong. There is a lot of resistance [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce t]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce them and keep them strong. There is a lot of resistance [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22758/boundaries-to-put-into-place.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce them and keep them strong. There is a lot of resistance [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI246Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Boundaries to put into place</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce them and keep them strong. There is a lot of resistance [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI246Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Laugh with ourselves</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/laugh-with-ourselves/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2022 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22686</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice and cause ourselves harm. Some of us [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice a]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice and cause ourselves harm. Some of us [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22686/laugh-with-ourselves.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice and cause ourselves harm. Some of us [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI240Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Laugh with ourselves</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice and cause ourselves harm. Some of us [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI240Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What to do when in fear</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-to-do-when-in-fear/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jan 2022 10:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22579</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#8217;ve desired it for a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#821]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#8217;ve desired it for a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22579/what-to-do-when-in-fear.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#8217;ve desired it for a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI233Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>What to do when in fear</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#8217;ve desired it for a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI233Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The steps to overcoming obstacles</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/steps-to-overcoming-obstacles/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Dec 2021 10:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22500</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and they can be great teachers. They can teach [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and they can be great teachers. They can teach [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22500/steps-to-overcoming-obstacles.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and they can be great teachers. They can teach [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>The steps to overcoming obstacles</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and they can be great teachers. They can teach [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI226Full-Sizev2.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The holidays</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-holidays/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2021 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22490</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like that?   We may have this cultural programming [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like that?   We may have this cultural programming [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22490/the-holidays.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like that?   We may have this cultural programming [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/HSRDI224Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The holidays</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like that?   We may have this cultural programming [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/HSRDI224Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The overused &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-overused-im-sorry-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2021 10:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22375</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often overused. I spend a fair amount of time helping my [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often ov]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often overused. I spend a fair amount of time helping my [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22375/the-overused-im-sorry-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often overused. I spend a fair amount of time helping my [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI215FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The overused &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often overused. I spend a fair amount of time helping my [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI215FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Compassion&#8230;is that an excuse?</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/compassion-is-that-an-excuse/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2021 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22351</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[It is so easy to beat ourselves up and judge ourselves harshly and something I talk a lot about is having more compassion for ourselves and those around us. But what does this look like? Showing yourself compassion is one thing, but sometimes something else is going on instead. Laura Boyd is back this week, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[It is so easy to beat ourselves up and judge ourselves harshly and something I talk a lot about is having more compassion for ourselves and those around us. But what does this look like? Showing yourself compassion is one thing, but sometimes something e]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[It is so easy to beat ourselves up and judge ourselves harshly and something I talk a lot about is having more compassion for ourselves and those around us. But what does this look like? Showing yourself compassion is one thing, but sometimes something else is going on instead. Laura Boyd is back this week, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22351/compassion-is-that-an-excuse.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[It is so easy to beat ourselves up and judge ourselves harshly and something I talk a lot about is having more compassion for ourselves and those around us. But what does this look like? Showing yourself compassion is one thing, but sometimes something else is going on instead. Laura Boyd is back this week, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI214FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Compassion&#8230;is that an excuse?</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[It is so easy to beat ourselves up and judge ourselves harshly and something I talk a lot about is having more compassion for ourselves and those around us. But what does this look like? Showing yourself compassion is one thing, but sometimes something else is going on instead. Laura Boyd is back this week, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI214FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What to do when everybody else is in a bad mood [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/bad-mood-ww/</link>
	<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2021 10:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22306</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[What are you supposed to do when everyone around you is in a bad mood and you don’t want to be affected? It’s so easy to let other people’s bad moods bring us down. But my guest co-host Anna Vocino and I have strategies and ideas for how to hold space and keep your energy.  [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[What are you supposed to do when everyone around you is in a bad mood and you don’t want to be affected? It’s so easy to let other people’s bad moods bring us down. But my guest co-host Anna Vocino and I have strategies and ideas for how to hold space an]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[What are you supposed to do when everyone around you is in a bad mood and you don’t want to be affected? It’s so easy to let other people’s bad moods bring us down. But my guest co-host Anna Vocino and I have strategies and ideas for how to hold space and keep your energy.  [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[What are you supposed to do when everyone around you is in a bad mood and you don’t want to be affected? It’s so easy to let other people’s bad moods bring us down. But my guest co-host Anna Vocino and I have strategies and ideas for how to hold space and keep your energy.  [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/AnnaVocino-BadMood.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>What to do when everybody else is in a bad mood [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[What are you supposed to do when everyone around you is in a bad mood and you don’t want to be affected? It’s so easy to let other people’s bad moods bring us down. But my guest co-host Anna Vocino and I have strategies and ideas for how to hold space and keep your energy.  [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/AnnaVocino-BadMood.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>It’s an invitation, not an obligation [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/invitation-not-obligation/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2021 10:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22271</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22271/invitation-not-obligation.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI206FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI206FullSize.jpg</url>
		<title>It’s an invitation, not an obligation [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI206FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Emotional health [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/emotional-health/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2021 10:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22255</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more abou]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22255/emotional-health.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI205FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI205FullSize.jpg</url>
		<title>Emotional health [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI205FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Compartmentalizing: stop surviving and start thriving [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/compartmentalizing/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2021 10:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22248</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentali]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22248/compartmentalizing.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI204FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI204FullSize.jpg</url>
		<title>Compartmentalizing: stop surviving and start thriving [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI204FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Being proud of yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/being-proud-of-yourself/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2021 10:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22241</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over somet]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22241/being-proud-of-yourself.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI203FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI203FullSize.jpg</url>
		<title>Being proud of yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI203FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What you seek&#8230;is inside of you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-you-seek/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2021 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22236</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite y]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22236/what-you-seek.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI202Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI202Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>What you seek&#8230;is inside of you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI202Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Michael Phelps &#8211; After the Race [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/michael-phelps-after-the-race/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2021 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22173</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens after the race, and I’m sharing how this is relevant in our lives. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens afte]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens after the race, and I’m sharing how this is relevant in our lives. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22173/michael-phelps-after-the-race.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens after the race, and I’m sharing how this is relevant in our lives. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI196Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI196Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Michael Phelps &#8211; After the Race [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens after the race, and I’m sharing how this is relevant in our lives. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI196Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Who are you becoming? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/who-are-you-becoming/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2021 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22018</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provide]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22018/who-are-you-becoming.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI186Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI186Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Who are you becoming? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI186Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What you want + disappointment [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-you-want-disappointment/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2021 10:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21962</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare and [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare and [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21962/what-you-want-disappointment.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare and [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-182.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-182.jpg</url>
		<title>What you want + disappointment [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare and [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-182.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What kind of storyteller are you? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/storyteller/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2021 10:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21940</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I hear what [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I h]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I hear what [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I hear what [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>What kind of storyteller are you? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-180.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Karla McLaren: The Language of Emotions [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/karla-mclaren-ww-2/</link>
	<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2021 10:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21941</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We strive to be “happy” but we have these darn negative emotions in our lives.  Some of us try to run from them via food, alcohol/drugs, sex, work, or exercise.  Have you ever thought about your feelings as a messenger who is here to tell you something important? Karla McLaren is an award-winning author, researcher, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We strive to be “happy” but we have these darn negative emotions in our lives.  Some of us try to run from them via food, alcohol/drugs, sex, work, or exercise.  Have you ever thought about your feelings as a messenger who is here to tell you something i]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We strive to be “happy” but we have these darn negative emotions in our lives.  Some of us try to run from them via food, alcohol/drugs, sex, work, or exercise.  Have you ever thought about your feelings as a messenger who is here to tell you something important? Karla McLaren is an award-winning author, researcher, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We strive to be “happy” but we have these darn negative emotions in our lives.  Some of us try to run from them via food, alcohol/drugs, sex, work, or exercise.  Have you ever thought about your feelings as a messenger who is here to tell you something important? Karla McLaren is an award-winning author, researcher, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Karla McLaren: The Language of Emotions [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We strive to be “happy” but we have these darn negative emotions in our lives.  Some of us try to run from them via food, alcohol/drugs, sex, work, or exercise.  Have you ever thought about your feelings as a messenger who is here to tell you something important? Karla McLaren is an award-winning author, researcher, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-ww-Jan132021.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Am I winning? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/am-i-winning/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2021 10:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21924</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably leads to compare and despair. And this sends you down a spiral of shame, when the truth is, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably leads to compare and despair. And this sends you down a spiral of shame, when the truth is, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21924/am-i-winning.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably leads to compare and despair. And this sends you down a spiral of shame, when the truth is, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-179.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Am I winning? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably leads to compare and despair. And this sends you down a spiral of shame, when the truth is, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-179.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Focus forward [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/focus-forward/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2021 10:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21909</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of you are going to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of you are going to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21909/focus-forward.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of you are going to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-178.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-178.jpg</url>
		<title>Focus forward [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of you are going to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-178.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Shoulders we stand on [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/shoulders-we-stand-on/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2020 10:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21906</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the giants whose shoulders you stand on? [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the giants whose shoulders you stand on? [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21906/shoulders-we-stand-on.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the giants whose shoulders you stand on? [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-177.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-177.jpg</url>
		<title>Shoulders we stand on [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the giants whose shoulders you stand on? [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-177.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What do you want? What do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-do-you-want/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2020 10:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21901</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, friends, I wasn’t giving myself permission or the space to get [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, fr]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, friends, I wasn’t giving myself permission or the space to get [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21901/what-do-you-want.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, friends, I wasn’t giving myself permission or the space to get [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-176.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-176.jpg</url>
		<title>What do you want? What do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, friends, I wasn’t giving myself permission or the space to get [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-176.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Giving Up [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/giving-up-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2020 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21881</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can keep going.  Does any of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can kee]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can keep going.  Does any of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21881/giving-up-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can keep going.  Does any of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-175.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-175.jpg</url>
		<title>Giving Up [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can keep going.  Does any of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-175.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Space: Types + why it&#8217;s important [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/space-types-why-its-important-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2020 10:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21859</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I want you to think about how much space you’re giving yourself right now [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I wa]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I want you to think about how much space you’re giving yourself right now [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21859/space-types-why-its-important-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I want you to think about how much space you’re giving yourself right now [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-174.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-174.jpg</url>
		<title>Space: Types + why it&#8217;s important [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I want you to think about how much space you’re giving yourself right now [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-174.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Make It Happen or Surrender with Stacia Rusakowicz [Brave Women]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/surrender-stacia-rusakowicz/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2020 10:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21855</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Are you a ‘make it happen’ type of person? When there’s a problem, do you like to find a solution, fix it, and power through? In a culture that rewards hard work and grit, this is how we’re taught to handle problems.  We’re talking all about making it happen, and then surrendering, with my guest [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Are you a ‘make it happen’ type of person? When there’s a problem, do you like to find a solution, fix it, and power through? In a culture that rewards hard work and grit, this is how we’re taught to handle problems.  We’re talking all about making it ha]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you a ‘make it happen’ type of person? When there’s a problem, do you like to find a solution, fix it, and power through? In a culture that rewards hard work and grit, this is how we’re taught to handle problems.  We’re talking all about making it happen, and then surrendering, with my guest [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21855/surrender-stacia-rusakowicz.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you a ‘make it happen’ type of person? When there’s a problem, do you like to find a solution, fix it, and power through? In a culture that rewards hard work and grit, this is how we’re taught to handle problems.  We’re talking all about making it happen, and then surrendering, with my guest [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-173.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Make It Happen or Surrender with Stacia Rusakowicz [Brave Women]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Are you a ‘make it happen’ type of person? When there’s a problem, do you like to find a solution, fix it, and power through? In a culture that rewards hard work and grit, this is how we’re taught to handle problems.  We’re talking all about making it happen, and then surrendering, with my guest [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-173.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Holidays: COVID-Style [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/holidays-covid-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2020 10:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknown. My family’s holiday traditions have pivoted and evolved over the years. There [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknow]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknown. My family’s holiday traditions have pivoted and evolved over the years. There [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknown. My family’s holiday traditions have pivoted and evolved over the years. There [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-172.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The Holidays: COVID-Style [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknown. My family’s holiday traditions have pivoted and evolved over the years. There [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-172.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Mom Guilt [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/mom-guilt-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2020 10:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21765</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with shame and worry. Like many of you, I was [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with sh]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with shame and worry. Like many of you, I was [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21765/mom-guilt-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with shame and worry. Like many of you, I was [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-171.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Mom Guilt [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with shame and worry. Like many of you, I was [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-171.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Four questions with Byron Katie [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/byron-katie-ww/</link>
	<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2020 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21800</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Can four questions change your life? The framework of inquiry that my guest and I discuss in this episode may be able to do just that.  Byron Katie is a speaker and author of several books including Loving What Is and A Mind at Home with Itself. She is the founder of The Work, a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Can four questions change your life? The framework of inquiry that my guest and I discuss in this episode may be able to do just that.  Byron Katie is a speaker and author of several books including Loving What Is and A Mind at Home with Itself. She is t]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Can four questions change your life? The framework of inquiry that my guest and I discuss in this episode may be able to do just that.  Byron Katie is a speaker and author of several books including Loving What Is and A Mind at Home with Itself. She is the founder of The Work, a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21800/byron-katie-ww.mp3" length="55585542" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Can four questions change your life? The framework of inquiry that my guest and I discuss in this episode may be able to do just that.  Byron Katie is a speaker and author of several books including Loving What Is and A Mind at Home with Itself. She is the founder of The Work, a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/FullSize-HSRDI-ww-40.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Four questions with Byron Katie [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Can four questions change your life? The framework of inquiry that my guest and I discuss in this episode may be able to do just that.  Byron Katie is a speaker and author of several books including Loving What Is and A Mind at Home with Itself. She is the founder of The Work, a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/FullSize-HSRDI-ww-40.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What happens now??? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-happens-now-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2020 10:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21780</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. All eyes are on us. You might be [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. All eyes are on us. You might be [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21780/what-happens-now-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. All eyes are on us. You might be [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-170.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-170.jpg</url>
		<title>What happens now??? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. All eyes are on us. You might be [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-170.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Civil Rights Attorney Roberta Savage on Why We All Need a Team [Brave Women]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/roberta-savage-need-team/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2020 10:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21773</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I have a special episode for you all today. It’s the first episode in my Brave Women series all about showcasing women whose bravery gives us a window into what’s possible. I want you to hear the episodes in this series and feel inspired to be courageous, and comforted in knowing you are not alone. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I have a special episode for you all today. It’s the first episode in my Brave Women series all about showcasing women whose bravery gives us a window into what’s possible. I want you to hear the episodes in this series and feel inspired to be courageous]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have a special episode for you all today. It’s the first episode in my Brave Women series all about showcasing women whose bravery gives us a window into what’s possible. I want you to hear the episodes in this series and feel inspired to be courageous, and comforted in knowing you are not alone. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21773/roberta-savage-need-team.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I have a special episode for you all today. It’s the first episode in my Brave Women series all about showcasing women whose bravery gives us a window into what’s possible. I want you to hear the episodes in this series and feel inspired to be courageous, and comforted in knowing you are not alone. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-169.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-169.jpg</url>
		<title>Civil Rights Attorney Roberta Savage on Why We All Need a Team [Brave Women]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I have a special episode for you all today. It’s the first episode in my Brave Women series all about showcasing women whose bravery gives us a window into what’s possible. I want you to hear the episodes in this series and feel inspired to be courageous, and comforted in knowing you are not alone. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-169.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Self-care is not frivolous [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/self-care-not-frivolous-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2020 10:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21731</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. One of the ways to do this is through self-care. And, before you shut down [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. One of the ways to do this is through self-care. And, before you shut down [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21731/self-care-not-frivolous-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. One of the ways to do this is through self-care. And, before you shut down [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-168.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-168.jpg</url>
		<title>Self-care is not frivolous [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. One of the ways to do this is through self-care. And, before you shut down [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-168.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Leadership + Compassion with Joanna Chmura</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/leadership-compassion-joanna-chmura/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2020 10:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21736</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When you look back at past hardships, can you see how they prepared you for the obstacles you’re facing today? Although we can’t usually see it in the moment, difficult times prepare you for your future self and give you the lessons you need to grow. My guest today is an expert on taking lessons [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you look back at past hardships, can you see how they prepared you for the obstacles you’re facing today? Although we can’t usually see it in the moment, difficult times prepare you for your future self and give you the lessons you need to grow. My ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you look back at past hardships, can you see how they prepared you for the obstacles you’re facing today? Although we can’t usually see it in the moment, difficult times prepare you for your future self and give you the lessons you need to grow. My guest today is an expert on taking lessons [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21736/leadership-compassion-joanna-chmura.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you look back at past hardships, can you see how they prepared you for the obstacles you’re facing today? Although we can’t usually see it in the moment, difficult times prepare you for your future self and give you the lessons you need to grow. My guest today is an expert on taking lessons [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-167.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-167.jpg</url>
		<title>Leadership + Compassion with Joanna Chmura</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When you look back at past hardships, can you see how they prepared you for the obstacles you’re facing today? Although we can’t usually see it in the moment, difficult times prepare you for your future self and give you the lessons you need to grow. My guest today is an expert on taking lessons [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-167.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>14 things I’ve learned in 14 years of this show [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/things-learned/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2020 10:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21714</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This show has brought me [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This s]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This show has brought me [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21714/things-learned.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This show has brought me [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-166.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-166.jpg</url>
		<title>14 things I’ve learned in 14 years of this show [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This show has brought me [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-166.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Ingredients vs. scripts for relationships [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/ingredients-vs-scripts/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2020 10:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21651</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Many of you tuned in to last week’s episode and really liked the concept of having relationships that rise up to meet you. But I also know some of you were having challenges with this concept so I’m going to dive deeper into it today. Having a relationship that rises up to meet you does [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Many of you tuned in to last week’s episode and really liked the concept of having relationships that rise up to meet you. But I also know some of you were having challenges with this concept so I’m going to dive deeper into it today. Having a relationsh]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Many of you tuned in to last week’s episode and really liked the concept of having relationships that rise up to meet you. But I also know some of you were having challenges with this concept so I’m going to dive deeper into it today. Having a relationship that rises up to meet you does [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21651/ingredients-vs-scripts.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many of you tuned in to last week’s episode and really liked the concept of having relationships that rise up to meet you. But I also know some of you were having challenges with this concept so I’m going to dive deeper into it today. Having a relationship that rises up to meet you does [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-165.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-165.jpg</url>
		<title>Ingredients vs. scripts for relationships [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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<item>
	<title>Cultivate relationships that rise up with you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/relationships-that-rise-up/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2020 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that drag us down. We all deserve relationships that rise [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that d]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that drag us down. We all deserve relationships that rise [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that drag us down. We all deserve relationships that rise [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Cultivate relationships that rise up with you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-164.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Inside the Mindset of a High Performer &#8211; 3 Time Paralympian Mark Barr</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/mindset-paralympian-mark-barr/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 10:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21629</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Many of the athletes I coach are scared of disappointment. They don’t want to try and fail or not show up as their best. And I talk about this a lot on the show; falling down and picking ourselves back up. I so deeply understand your fear of falling down, but I also know that [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Many of the athletes I coach are scared of disappointment. They don’t want to try and fail or not show up as their best. And I talk about this a lot on the show; falling down and picking ourselves back up. I so deeply understand your fear of falling down]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Many of the athletes I coach are scared of disappointment. They don’t want to try and fail or not show up as their best. And I talk about this a lot on the show; falling down and picking ourselves back up. I so deeply understand your fear of falling down, but I also know that [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many of the athletes I coach are scared of disappointment. They don’t want to try and fail or not show up as their best. And I talk about this a lot on the show; falling down and picking ourselves back up. I so deeply understand your fear of falling down, but I also know that [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-163.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Inside the Mindset of a High Performer &#8211; 3 Time Paralympian Mark Barr</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-163.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>I thought I was past this! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/thought-i-was-past-this/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2020 10:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21630</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming up and causing a lot of pain and frustration, &#8220;I thought I [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming up and causing a lot of pain and frustration, &#8220;I thought I [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming up and causing a lot of pain and frustration, &#8220;I thought I [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-162.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>I thought I was past this! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-162.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Showing Up for Others [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/showing-up-others-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2020 10:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[Connection is something we all need as humans. It may look different for each of us and our capacities for connection can vary, but it’s still something we hunger for. I’ve talked about showing up for yourself before on the podcast, and today I’m sharing how you can show up for others. We often tell [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Connection is something we all need as humans. It may look different for each of us and our capacities for connection can vary, but it’s still something we hunger for. I’ve talked about showing up for yourself before on the podcast, and today I’m sharing]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Connection is something we all need as humans. It may look different for each of us and our capacities for connection can vary, but it’s still something we hunger for. I’ve talked about showing up for yourself before on the podcast, and today I’m sharing how you can show up for others. We often tell [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Connection is something we all need as humans. It may look different for each of us and our capacities for connection can vary, but it’s still something we hunger for. I’ve talked about showing up for yourself before on the podcast, and today I’m sharing how you can show up for others. We often tell [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-161.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Showing Up for Others [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-161.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>All of Our Selves with Hiro Boga</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/standing-with-yourself-hiro-boga/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2020 10:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[I’m bringing a listener favorite back on the podcast today, Hiro Boga. If you’ve listened to any past episodes with Hiro, you will know how beautiful her soul is and how much wisdom she has to share. Her joyful laugh and loving presence make learning about ourselves that much more enjoyable. In our conversation today, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I’m bringing a listener favorite back on the podcast today, Hiro Boga. If you’ve listened to any past episodes with Hiro, you will know how beautiful her soul is and how much wisdom she has to share. Her joyful laugh and loving presence make learning abo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I’m bringing a listener favorite back on the podcast today, Hiro Boga. If you’ve listened to any past episodes with Hiro, you will know how beautiful her soul is and how much wisdom she has to share. Her joyful laugh and loving presence make learning about ourselves that much more enjoyable. In our conversation today, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21210/standing-with-yourself-hiro-boga.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’m bringing a listener favorite back on the podcast today, Hiro Boga. If you’ve listened to any past episodes with Hiro, you will know how beautiful her soul is and how much wisdom she has to share. Her joyful laugh and loving presence make learning about ourselves that much more enjoyable. In our conversation today, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-160.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Standing with Yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/standing-with-yourself/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2020 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21362</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resilient, we need to feel through all of our emotions, the negative [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resi]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resilient, we need to feel through all of our emotions, the negative [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21362/standing-with-yourself.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resilient, we need to feel through all of our emotions, the negative [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-159.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Standing with Yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-159.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>How We Get Out of This with Laura Boyd</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/get-out-of-this-laura-boyd/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2020 10:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21255</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get out of this?” From an economic standpoint, there isn’t much I know [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get o]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get out of this?” From an economic standpoint, there isn’t much I know [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21255/get-out-of-this-laura-boyd.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get out of this?” From an economic standpoint, there isn’t much I know [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-158.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>How We Get Out of This with Laura Boyd</title>
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	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get out of this?” From an economic standpoint, there isn’t much I know [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-158.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Why Bother? with Jen Louden</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/why-bother-jen-louden/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2020 10:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21038</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We’ve all experienced loss and grief and shame at some point in our lives. We’ve all made mistakes and failed. For some of you, those negative experiences were enough to convince you to stop trying. To lose hope. To say, “Why bother?” My guest today answers that question with her own life experiences. You may [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We’ve all experienced loss and grief and shame at some point in our lives. We’ve all made mistakes and failed. For some of you, those negative experiences were enough to convince you to stop trying. To lose hope. To say, “Why bother?” My guest today answ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We’ve all experienced loss and grief and shame at some point in our lives. We’ve all made mistakes and failed. For some of you, those negative experiences were enough to convince you to stop trying. To lose hope. To say, “Why bother?” My guest today answers that question with her own life experiences. You may [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21038/why-bother-jen-louden.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’ve all experienced loss and grief and shame at some point in our lives. We’ve all made mistakes and failed. For some of you, those negative experiences were enough to convince you to stop trying. To lose hope. To say, “Why bother?” My guest today answers that question with her own life experiences. You may [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Why Bother? with Jen Louden</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-157.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Speaking Truth to Power with Beth Foraker</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/speaking-truth-beth-foraker/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2020 10:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20952</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[On July 23, 2020, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez stood in the House of Commons and responded to the insults and dehumanizing language used against her by Representative Ted Yoho. This ignited a spark in myself, my guest, and millions of other women who refuse to accept this type of language used against women.  AOC stood up for [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[On July 23, 2020, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez stood in the House of Commons and responded to the insults and dehumanizing language used against her by Representative Ted Yoho. This ignited a spark in myself, my guest, and millions of other women who refuse ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[On July 23, 2020, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez stood in the House of Commons and responded to the insults and dehumanizing language used against her by Representative Ted Yoho. This ignited a spark in myself, my guest, and millions of other women who refuse to accept this type of language used against women.  AOC stood up for [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[On July 23, 2020, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez stood in the House of Commons and responded to the insults and dehumanizing language used against her by Representative Ted Yoho. This ignited a spark in myself, my guest, and millions of other women who refuse to accept this type of language used against women.  AOC stood up for [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Speaking Truth to Power with Beth Foraker</title>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[On July 23, 2020, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez stood in the House of Commons and responded to the insults and dehumanizing language used against her by Representative Ted Yoho. This ignited a spark in myself, my guest, and millions of other women who refuse to accept this type of language used against women.  AOC stood up for [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-156.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Todd Kashdan: What it means to be mentally healthy + successful [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/todd-kashdan-ww/</link>
	<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2020 10:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20967</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There are certain parts of our personalities that are unpleasant to experience. They can be socially undesirable to talk about. They are things like: anxiety, guilt, embarrassment, narcissism, selfishness, and more. We don’t like to talk about them, we don’t like to feel them, but we could all benefit from learning to be a little [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There are certain parts of our personalities that are unpleasant to experience. They can be socially undesirable to talk about. They are things like: anxiety, guilt, embarrassment, narcissism, selfishness, and more. We don’t like to talk about them, we d]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There are certain parts of our personalities that are unpleasant to experience. They can be socially undesirable to talk about. They are things like: anxiety, guilt, embarrassment, narcissism, selfishness, and more. We don’t like to talk about them, we don’t like to feel them, but we could all benefit from learning to be a little [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are certain parts of our personalities that are unpleasant to experience. They can be socially undesirable to talk about. They are things like: anxiety, guilt, embarrassment, narcissism, selfishness, and more. We don’t like to talk about them, we don’t like to feel them, but we could all benefit from learning to be a little [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Todd Kashdan: What it means to be mentally healthy + successful [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There are certain parts of our personalities that are unpleasant to experience. They can be socially undesirable to talk about. They are things like: anxiety, guilt, embarrassment, narcissism, selfishness, and more. We don’t like to talk about them, we don’t like to feel them, but we could all benefit from learning to be a little [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-ww-25-2.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Evict the squatters in your brain [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/evict-squatters-brain-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2020 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20773</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s okay and not okay than to not speak up. That voice [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s okay and not okay than to not speak up. That voice [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20773/evict-squatters-brain-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s okay and not okay than to not speak up. That voice [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-154.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-154.jpg</url>
		<title>Evict the squatters in your brain [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s okay and not okay than to not speak up. That voice [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-154.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Invisible Soldier [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/invisible-soldier/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2020 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20681</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your personal mission to solve their problem. This, friends, is [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your pe]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your personal mission to solve their problem. This, friends, is [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20681/invisible-soldier.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your personal mission to solve their problem. This, friends, is [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-153.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>The Invisible Soldier [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your personal mission to solve their problem. This, friends, is [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-153.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Feeling a lot&#8230; and being tired [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/feeling-tired-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2020 10:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20601</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the decision fatigue.  If you are feeling exhausted right now, it’s okay. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the dec]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the decision fatigue.  If you are feeling exhausted right now, it’s okay. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20601/feeling-tired-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the decision fatigue.  If you are feeling exhausted right now, it’s okay. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-152.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-152.jpg</url>
		<title>Feeling a lot&#8230; and being tired [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the decision fatigue.  If you are feeling exhausted right now, it’s okay. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-152.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Know your WHY [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/know-your-why/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2020 10:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20506</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of them. But, my friends, I [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of them. But, my friends, I [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20506/know-your-why.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of them. But, my friends, I [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-151.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-151.jpg</url>
		<title>Know your WHY [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of them. But, my friends, I [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-151.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Confused and overwhelmed to seeing clearly [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/confused-overwhelmed/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2020 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20429</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think back to my brain in [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think ba]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think back to my brain in [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20429/confused-overwhelmed.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think back to my brain in [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-150.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-150.jpg</url>
		<title>Confused and overwhelmed to seeing clearly [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think back to my brain in [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-150.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Harriet Lerner: Anger, the messenger to clarity [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/harriet-lerner-anger-clarity-ww/</link>
	<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2020 10:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20231</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is a beloved and respected relationship expert. An author, speaker, and psychologist, Harriet is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage, and family relationships. In this conversation she and I talk about anger, why letting yourself feel it is critical, and how it can be a powerful driver [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is a beloved and respected relationship expert. An author, speaker, and psychologist, Harriet is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage, and family relationships. In this conversation she and I talk about ange]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is a beloved and respected relationship expert. An author, speaker, and psychologist, Harriet is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage, and family relationships. In this conversation she and I talk about anger, why letting yourself feel it is critical, and how it can be a powerful driver [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20231/harriet-lerner-anger-clarity-ww.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is a beloved and respected relationship expert. An author, speaker, and psychologist, Harriet is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage, and family relationships. In this conversation she and I talk about anger, why letting yourself feel it is critical, and how it can be a powerful driver [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-ww-19.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Harriet Lerner: Anger, the messenger to clarity [Wisdom Wednesday]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is a beloved and respected relationship expert. An author, speaker, and psychologist, Harriet is best known for her work on the psychology of women, marriage, and family relationships. In this conversation she and I talk about anger, why letting yourself feel it is critical, and how it can be a powerful driver [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-ww-19.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Just because you know it&#8230; doesn’t mean you live it [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/just-because-you-know-it/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2020 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20209</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it into our lives. We struggle because we expect ourselves to do it [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it into our lives. We struggle because we expect ourselves to do it [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20209/just-because-you-know-it.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it into our lives. We struggle because we expect ourselves to do it [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-149.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Just because you know it&#8230; doesn’t mean you live it [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it into our lives. We struggle because we expect ourselves to do it [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-149.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>I will not be silent</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/i-will-not-be-silent/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2020 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20261</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m listening. And [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m list]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m listening. And [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20261/i-will-not-be-silent.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m listening. And [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-148.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>I will not be silent</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m listening. And [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-148.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Control + Uncertainty [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/control-uncertainty-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 10:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20082</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all want certainty because it gives [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all want certainty because it gives [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20082/control-uncertainty-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all want certainty because it gives [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-147.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-147.jpg</url>
		<title>Control + Uncertainty [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all want certainty because it gives [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-147.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What are you feeding your brain? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/feeding-brain-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2020 10:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20010</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right now, we can’t give that [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right now, we can’t give that [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20010/feeding-brain-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right now, we can’t give that [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-146.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-146.jpg</url>
		<title>What are you feeding your brain? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right now, we can’t give that [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-146.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What permission do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-permission-do-you-need/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2020 10:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19925</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now. One of the ways to show yourself compassion [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now. One of the ways to show yourself compassion [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19925/what-permission-do-you-need.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now. One of the ways to show yourself compassion [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-145.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-145.jpg</url>
		<title>What permission do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now. One of the ways to show yourself compassion [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-145.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Elizabeth Lesser: How difficult times can help us grow [Wisdom Wednesdays]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/elizabeth-lesser-ww/</link>
	<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2020 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19935</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[&#160; We are bringing Wisdom Wednesdays back during this time of COVID-19 to give you content to support you during these uncertain times.  Wisdom Wednesday episodes are previously broadcast shows that we have curated for rebroadcast. I’m bringing these episodes back to the surface for you so that they can bring a little bit of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[&#160; We are bringing Wisdom Wednesdays back during this time of COVID-19 to give you content to support you during these uncertain times.  Wisdom Wednesday episodes are previously broadcast shows that we have curated for rebroadcast. I’m bringing these]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[&#160; We are bringing Wisdom Wednesdays back during this time of COVID-19 to give you content to support you during these uncertain times.  Wisdom Wednesday episodes are previously broadcast shows that we have curated for rebroadcast. I’m bringing these episodes back to the surface for you so that they can bring a little bit of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19935/elizabeth-lesser-ww.mp3" length="51542577" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[&#160; We are bringing Wisdom Wednesdays back during this time of COVID-19 to give you content to support you during these uncertain times.  Wisdom Wednesday episodes are previously broadcast shows that we have curated for rebroadcast. I’m bringing these episodes back to the surface for you so that they can bring a little bit of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-ww-16.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-ww-16.png</url>
		<title>Elizabeth Lesser: How difficult times can help us grow [Wisdom Wednesdays]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[&#160; We are bringing Wisdom Wednesdays back during this time of COVID-19 to give you content to support you during these uncertain times.  Wisdom Wednesday episodes are previously broadcast shows that we have curated for rebroadcast. I’m bringing these episodes back to the surface for you so that they can bring a little bit of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-ww-16.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Living on a razor edge [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/living-razors-edge/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2020 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19763</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And that metaphor just made [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And t]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And that metaphor just made [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19763/living-razors-edge.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And that metaphor just made [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-144.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-144.jpg</url>
		<title>Living on a razor edge [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And that metaphor just made [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-144.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What structure do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-structure-need-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2020 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19685</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To take it a step further, I want you to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To take it a step further, I want you to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19685/what-structure-need-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To take it a step further, I want you to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-143.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-143.jpg</url>
		<title>What structure do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To take it a step further, I want you to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-143.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What you need to believe in yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/believe-in-yourself-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2020 10:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19574</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? It all boils down to your confidence in yourself. If [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? It all boils down to your confidence in yourself. If [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19574/believe-in-yourself-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? It all boils down to your confidence in yourself. If [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-142.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-142.jpg</url>
		<title>What you need to believe in yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? It all boils down to your confidence in yourself. If [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-142.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>But you’ve already learned it!!! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/but-youve-already-learned-it/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2020 10:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19506</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thinking, circling back is not pointless. Going deeper into something you’ve already [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thin]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thinking, circling back is not pointless. Going deeper into something you’ve already [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19506/but-youve-already-learned-it.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thinking, circling back is not pointless. Going deeper into something you’ve already [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-141.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>But you’ve already learned it!!! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thinking, circling back is not pointless. Going deeper into something you’ve already [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-141.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-do-you-need/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2020 10:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19402</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventing you from being vulnerable. We all need something, but many of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventi]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventing you from being vulnerable. We all need something, but many of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19402/what-do-you-need.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventing you from being vulnerable. We all need something, but many of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-140.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-140.jpg</url>
		<title>What do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventing you from being vulnerable. We all need something, but many of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-140.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Grace is what we need right now [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/grace-is-what-we-need-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2020 10:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19342</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-achiever, you&#8217;re expecting yourself to maintain the same level of efficiency that you [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-a]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-achiever, you&#8217;re expecting yourself to maintain the same level of efficiency that you [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19342/grace-is-what-we-need-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-achiever, you&#8217;re expecting yourself to maintain the same level of efficiency that you [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-139.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-139.jpg</url>
		<title>Grace is what we need right now [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-achiever, you&#8217;re expecting yourself to maintain the same level of efficiency that you [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-139.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Managing all the emotions around you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/managing-emotions-around-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2020 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19241</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done while your kids want your [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done whil]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done while your kids want your [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19241/managing-emotions-around-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done while your kids want your [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-138.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-138.jpg</url>
		<title>Managing all the emotions around you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done while your kids want your [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-138.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>The one thing [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/one-thing-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2020 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18651</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip on many of our lives + drives so [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip o]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip on many of our lives + drives so [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18651/one-thing-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip on many of our lives + drives so [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-132.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-132.jpg</url>
		<title>The one thing [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip on many of our lives + drives so [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-132.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Choose your words carefully [MINISODE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/choose-words-carefully-minisode/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2019 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14184</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Small shifts in language can make a big difference in our mindset, but it can be so easy to fall into using words that trap us in our negative feelings. Our environment, culture, and inner critic all influence the words we use to describe ourselves and our emotions. Choosing your words carefully allows you to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Small shifts in language can make a big difference in our mindset, but it can be so easy to fall into using words that trap us in our negative feelings. Our environment, culture, and inner critic all influence the words we use to describe ourselves and o]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Small shifts in language can make a big difference in our mindset, but it can be so easy to fall into using words that trap us in our negative feelings. Our environment, culture, and inner critic all influence the words we use to describe ourselves and our emotions. Choosing your words carefully allows you to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14184/choose-words-carefully-minisode.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Small shifts in language can make a big difference in our mindset, but it can be so easy to fall into using words that trap us in our negative feelings. Our environment, culture, and inner critic all influence the words we use to describe ourselves and our emotions. Choosing your words carefully allows you to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-80.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-80.jpg</url>
		<title>Choose your words carefully [MINISODE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Small shifts in language can make a big difference in our mindset, but it can be so easy to fall into using words that trap us in our negative feelings. Our environment, culture, and inner critic all influence the words we use to describe ourselves and our emotions. Choosing your words carefully allows you to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-80.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Brain Juice [MINISODE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/brain-juice-minisode/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2018 13:48:59 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12974</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Stop the drama. Find out about one of your precious resources your brain juice. Stop wasting your your brain juice. Be deliberate about where you want to use it and how it will be maximized. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Stop the drama. Find out about one of your precious resources your brain juice. Stop wasting your your brain juice. Be deliberate about where you want to use it and how it will be maximized. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my cl]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Stop the drama. Find out about one of your precious resources your brain juice. Stop wasting your your brain juice. Be deliberate about where you want to use it and how it will be maximized. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12974/brain-juice-minisode.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stop the drama. Find out about one of your precious resources your brain juice. Stop wasting your your brain juice. Be deliberate about where you want to use it and how it will be maximized. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/BrainJuice.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/BrainJuice.png</url>
		<title>Brain Juice [MINISODE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Stop the drama. Find out about one of your precious resources your brain juice. Stop wasting your your brain juice. Be deliberate about where you want to use it and how it will be maximized. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/BrainJuice.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>How to Feel Better [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/feel-better-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2018 10:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12765</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[You have the ability to feel better. DOWNLOAD THIS WORKBOOK to FEEL BETTER. Eating ice cream is NOT really feeling better. It is numbing. So is binge watching Netflix. Or drinking too much. In those instances we are trying to take away the pain but really we add more pain later as we then beat [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You have the ability to feel better. DOWNLOAD THIS WORKBOOK to FEEL BETTER. Eating ice cream is NOT really feeling better. It is numbing. So is binge watching Netflix. Or drinking too much. In those instances we are trying to take away the pain but reall]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[You have the ability to feel better. DOWNLOAD THIS WORKBOOK to FEEL BETTER. Eating ice cream is NOT really feeling better. It is numbing. So is binge watching Netflix. Or drinking too much. In those instances we are trying to take away the pain but really we add more pain later as we then beat [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12765/feel-better-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[You have the ability to feel better. DOWNLOAD THIS WORKBOOK to FEEL BETTER. Eating ice cream is NOT really feeling better. It is numbing. So is binge watching Netflix. Or drinking too much. In those instances we are trying to take away the pain but really we add more pain later as we then beat [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/HowtoFeelBetter.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/HowtoFeelBetter.png</url>
		<title>How to Feel Better [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[You have the ability to feel better. DOWNLOAD THIS WORKBOOK to FEEL BETTER. Eating ice cream is NOT really feeling better. It is numbing. So is binge watching Netflix. Or drinking too much. In those instances we are trying to take away the pain but really we add more pain later as we then beat [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/HowtoFeelBetter.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>[BONUS] Mindset: The Key to Unlocking the Life You Truly Want</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/mindset-key-unlocking-life-truly-want-bonus/</link>
	<pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2018 10:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12719</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[You have worked really, really hard. You have done your best to be a good person. You have sacrificed yourself for others. However you are still not where you want to be. In this show I am discussing why your mindset is the key to unlocking the life you truly want. LISTEN HERE Mentioned in [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You have worked really, really hard. You have done your best to be a good person. You have sacrificed yourself for others. However you are still not where you want to be. In this show I am discussing why your mindset is the key to unlocking the life you ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[You have worked really, really hard. You have done your best to be a good person. You have sacrificed yourself for others. However you are still not where you want to be. In this show I am discussing why your mindset is the key to unlocking the life you truly want. LISTEN HERE Mentioned in [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12719/mindset-key-unlocking-life-truly-want-bonus.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[You have worked really, really hard. You have done your best to be a good person. You have sacrificed yourself for others. However you are still not where you want to be. In this show I am discussing why your mindset is the key to unlocking the life you truly want. LISTEN HERE Mentioned in [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Mindset-KeyToUnlocking.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Mindset-KeyToUnlocking.png</url>
		<title>[BONUS] Mindset: The Key to Unlocking the Life You Truly Want</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[You have worked really, really hard. You have done your best to be a good person. You have sacrificed yourself for others. However you are still not where you want to be. In this show I am discussing why your mindset is the key to unlocking the life you truly want. LISTEN HERE Mentioned in [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Mindset-KeyToUnlocking.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Be Responsible for Your Feelings [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/responsible-feelings-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2018 15:42:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12381</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW Offloading our emotions to others Hot potatoe effect Importance to understand [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHO]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW Offloading our emotions to others Hot potatoe effect Importance to understand [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12381/responsible-feelings-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW Offloading our emotions to others Hot potatoe effect Importance to understand [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/BeResponsibleForyourFeelings.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/BeResponsibleForyourFeelings.png</url>
		<title>Be Responsible for Your Feelings [Deep Dive]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
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	<title>Worthiness with Brené Brown [rebroadcast]</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[When ordinary people share the authentic backstage truth behind their success, the doors of possibility open for all of us!  Many years ago I came across a lady who had not graduated from college until she was almost 30 years old.  By the time I had found her,  she was a college professor and on the [&#8230;]]]></description>
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	<title>Fear, Intuition, Uncertainty + Surrender with Lissa Rankin, MD</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[Do you feel overwhelmed with fear deep inside of you?  Are you stuck in fear?  New York Times bestselling author has a new book out to help you The Fear Cure.  Lissa Rankin, M.D. is a mind-body medicine physician, author and speaker.  Lissa has been a guest on the show before talking about our mind [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you feel overwhelmed with fear deep inside of you?  Are you stuck in fear?  New York Times bestselling author has a new book out to help you The Fear Cure.  Lissa Rankin, M.D. is a mind-body medicine physician, author and speaker.  Lissa has been a gu]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<title>Confidence + What Gets in the Way with Anna Vocino</title>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2015 13:50:09 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[Anna Vocino is the here as the guest co-host of How She Really Does It.  She is an actor and also the co-host of the co-host of The Angriest Trainer Podcast. Anna blogs about GF versions of comfort food from her heritage at glutenfreeanna.com. And her cookbook will be coming out soon&#8230;&#8230;. “Nothing is as urgent [or terrible] [&#8230;]]]></description>
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	<title>Anxiety with Alice Boyes</title>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2015 14:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[Anxiety. Do you have it? Are you looking for ways to help you move through your anxiety instead of sticking your head in the sand and trying to hide from it? Alice Boyes, Ph.D is here to talk about Anxiety. She is the the author of the new release THE ANXIETY TOOLKIT: Strategies for Fine-Tuning [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Anxiety. Do you have it? Are you looking for ways to help you move through your anxiety instead of sticking your head in the sand and trying to hide from it? Alice Boyes, Ph.D is here to talk about Anxiety. She is the the author of the new release THE AN]]></itunes:subtitle>
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