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	<title>Being the Leader of Your Life: Owning Your Role</title>
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	<title>Expectations vs. Requirements: The Importance of Getting Clear</title>
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	<title>You Don&#8217;t Need a Re-do: Learning from the Present</title>
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	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2024 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[How amazing would it be to go back in time and change the way you did things? Recently, during multiple sessions with clients, the topic of how wonderful it would be to be a freshman in college again came up. It made me think about the fantasy of going back in time with the knowledge [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How amazing would it be to go back in time and change the way you did things? Recently, during multiple sessions with clients, the topic of how wonderful it would be to be a freshman in college again came up. It made me think about the fantasy of going b]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<title>How to Thrive During Life&#8217;s Unexpected Challenges</title>
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	<title>Radiant Rebellion: A Guide to Empowerment, Gratitude and Joyful Living with Karen Walrond</title>
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	<description><![CDATA[There are things we often refrain from doing because we don’t know how to do them. I recently read a book that opened a new window of possibilities for me, helping me see things I wouldn’t have been able to see before. I am thrilled to welcome Karen Walrond back to the show this week. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There are things we often refrain from doing because we don’t know how to do them. I recently read a book that opened a new window of possibilities for me, helping me see things I wouldn’t have been able to see before. I am thrilled to welcome Karen Walr]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
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<item>
	<title>Embracing Authenticity: Navigating Life’s Unexpected Emotions</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/authenticity-navigating-emotions/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Feb 2024 10:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[Sometimes emotions come unexpectedly and surprise us. When they do, it can be tempting to run away from them and keep ourselves busy with work or seek artificial happiness. This week, I talk about emotions and authenticity, a topic that has become more personal to me due to an unexpected loss. I share a moment [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Sometimes emotions come unexpectedly and surprise us. When they do, it can be tempting to run away from them and keep ourselves busy with work or seek artificial happiness. This week, I talk about emotions and authenticity, a topic that has become more p]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sometimes emotions come unexpectedly and surprise us. When they do, it can be tempting to run away from them and keep ourselves busy with work or seek artificial happiness. This week, I talk about emotions and authenticity, a topic that has become more personal to me due to an unexpected loss. I share a moment [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes emotions come unexpectedly and surprise us. When they do, it can be tempting to run away from them and keep ourselves busy with work or seek artificial happiness. This week, I talk about emotions and authenticity, a topic that has become more personal to me due to an unexpected loss. I share a moment [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/koren-motekaitis-authenticity-unexpected-emotions-339-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/koren-motekaitis-authenticity-unexpected-emotions-339-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Vulnerability in Leadership: Navigating the Feedback Journey</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/vulnerability-leadership-feedback/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2024 10:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23620</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Whether it’s at home or in the workplace, we are all leading different aspects of our lives. One of the responsibilities of a leader is to provide feedback, which takes a lot of courage and is very vulnerable. In this week&#8217;s episode, I talk about what you need to bring into the room as a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Whether it’s at home or in the workplace, we are all leading different aspects of our lives. One of the responsibilities of a leader is to provide feedback, which takes a lot of courage and is very vulnerable. In this week&#8217;s episode, I talk about w]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Whether it’s at home or in the workplace, we are all leading different aspects of our lives. One of the responsibilities of a leader is to provide feedback, which takes a lot of courage and is very vulnerable. In this week&#8217;s episode, I talk about what you need to bring into the room as a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Whether it’s at home or in the workplace, we are all leading different aspects of our lives. One of the responsibilities of a leader is to provide feedback, which takes a lot of courage and is very vulnerable. In this week&#8217;s episode, I talk about what you need to bring into the room as a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/koren-motekaitis-feedback-vulnerability-leadership-338-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Vulnerability in Leadership: Navigating the Feedback Journey</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/koren-motekaitis-feedback-vulnerability-leadership-338-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Grow Your Self-Awareness: Being</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/grow-self-awareness-being/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jan 2024 10:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23616</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There was a time in my life when I felt a lot of shame about how I lived day-to-day and had many judgments about what was supposed to be, instead of examining why it was this way. Oftentimes, we have an all-or-nothing mindset that makes us believe that if we can’t make a full change [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There was a time in my life when I felt a lot of shame about how I lived day-to-day and had many judgments about what was supposed to be, instead of examining why it was this way. Oftentimes, we have an all-or-nothing mindset that makes us believe that i]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There was a time in my life when I felt a lot of shame about how I lived day-to-day and had many judgments about what was supposed to be, instead of examining why it was this way. Oftentimes, we have an all-or-nothing mindset that makes us believe that if we can’t make a full change [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23616/grow-self-awareness-being.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There was a time in my life when I felt a lot of shame about how I lived day-to-day and had many judgments about what was supposed to be, instead of examining why it was this way. Oftentimes, we have an all-or-nothing mindset that makes us believe that if we can’t make a full change [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/koren-motekaitis-self-awareness-being-337-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Grow Your Self-Awareness: Being</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There was a time in my life when I felt a lot of shame about how I lived day-to-day and had many judgments about what was supposed to be, instead of examining why it was this way. Oftentimes, we have an all-or-nothing mindset that makes us believe that if we can’t make a full change [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/koren-motekaitis-self-awareness-being-337-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Grow Your Self-Awareness: Emotions</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/grow-self-awareness-emotions/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2024 10:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23613</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Last week, I discussed how to grow self-awareness through mindset. On today’s episode, we look at emotions. While we are all emotional beings, some of us don’t have a language for emotions or maybe we’ve been told that emotions are weak. One thing you can do to grow your self-awareness is to learn the language [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Last week, I discussed how to grow self-awareness through mindset. On today’s episode, we look at emotions. While we are all emotional beings, some of us don’t have a language for emotions or maybe we’ve been told that emotions are weak. One thing you ca]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Last week, I discussed how to grow self-awareness through mindset. On today’s episode, we look at emotions. While we are all emotional beings, some of us don’t have a language for emotions or maybe we’ve been told that emotions are weak. One thing you can do to grow your self-awareness is to learn the language [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23613/grow-self-awareness-emotions.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Last week, I discussed how to grow self-awareness through mindset. On today’s episode, we look at emotions. While we are all emotional beings, some of us don’t have a language for emotions or maybe we’ve been told that emotions are weak. One thing you can do to grow your self-awareness is to learn the language [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/koren-motekaitis-self-awareness-emotions-336-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Grow Your Self-Awareness: Emotions</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Last week, I discussed how to grow self-awareness through mindset. On today’s episode, we look at emotions. While we are all emotional beings, some of us don’t have a language for emotions or maybe we’ve been told that emotions are weak. One thing you can do to grow your self-awareness is to learn the language [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/koren-motekaitis-self-awareness-emotions-336-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Grow Your Self-Awareness: Mindset</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/self-awareness-mindset/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jan 2024 10:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23545</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Some of our beliefs are shaped by what our parents have told us, by our family origins, or by something we pick up culturally or in a television show. Our beliefs guide us into thinking in a way that is not necessarily aligned with our true mindset. They can also make us do what we [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Some of our beliefs are shaped by what our parents have told us, by our family origins, or by something we pick up culturally or in a television show. Our beliefs guide us into thinking in a way that is not necessarily aligned with our true mindset. They]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Some of our beliefs are shaped by what our parents have told us, by our family origins, or by something we pick up culturally or in a television show. Our beliefs guide us into thinking in a way that is not necessarily aligned with our true mindset. They can also make us do what we [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23545/self-awareness-mindset.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Some of our beliefs are shaped by what our parents have told us, by our family origins, or by something we pick up culturally or in a television show. Our beliefs guide us into thinking in a way that is not necessarily aligned with our true mindset. They can also make us do what we [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-self-awareness-mindset-335-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Grow Your Self-Awareness: Mindset</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Some of our beliefs are shaped by what our parents have told us, by our family origins, or by something we pick up culturally or in a television show. Our beliefs guide us into thinking in a way that is not necessarily aligned with our true mindset. They can also make us do what we [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-self-awareness-mindset-335-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Being your best self every day</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/being-your-best-self-every-day/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2023 10:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23550</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As the new year approaches, there’s a lot of talk about being your best self for 2024.  While the definition varies from one person to another, something high achievers all have in common is setting unrealistic standards for what it means to be our best selves.  This week, I discuss what being your best self [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As the new year approaches, there’s a lot of talk about being your best self for 2024.  While the definition varies from one person to another, something high achievers all have in common is setting unrealistic standards for what it means to be our best ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As the new year approaches, there’s a lot of talk about being your best self for 2024.  While the definition varies from one person to another, something high achievers all have in common is setting unrealistic standards for what it means to be our best selves.  This week, I discuss what being your best self [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23550/being-your-best-self-every-day.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As the new year approaches, there’s a lot of talk about being your best self for 2024.  While the definition varies from one person to another, something high achievers all have in common is setting unrealistic standards for what it means to be our best selves.  This week, I discuss what being your best self [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-being-best-self-334-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-being-best-self-334-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Being your best self every day</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As the new year approaches, there’s a lot of talk about being your best self for 2024.  While the definition varies from one person to another, something high achievers all have in common is setting unrealistic standards for what it means to be our best selves.  This week, I discuss what being your best self [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-being-best-self-334-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>How to decide what can &#038; can&#8217;t be dropped</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-can-be-dropped/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Dec 2023 10:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23543</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[At this point in the turn of the year, there is a lot of messaging about what we can do to live better in the new year to come. As high achievers, we have the expectation that we can continuously add to our list. What we don&#8217;t consider is that if we add something, we [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[At this point in the turn of the year, there is a lot of messaging about what we can do to live better in the new year to come. As high achievers, we have the expectation that we can continuously add to our list. What we don&#8217;t consider is that if w]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[At this point in the turn of the year, there is a lot of messaging about what we can do to live better in the new year to come. As high achievers, we have the expectation that we can continuously add to our list. What we don&#8217;t consider is that if we add something, we [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23543/what-can-be-dropped.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[At this point in the turn of the year, there is a lot of messaging about what we can do to live better in the new year to come. As high achievers, we have the expectation that we can continuously add to our list. What we don&#8217;t consider is that if we add something, we [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-what-can-dropped-333-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-what-can-dropped-333-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>How to decide what can &#038; can&#8217;t be dropped</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[At this point in the turn of the year, there is a lot of messaging about what we can do to live better in the new year to come. As high achievers, we have the expectation that we can continuously add to our list. What we don&#8217;t consider is that if we add something, we [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-what-can-dropped-333-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Taking care of yourself this holiday season</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/taking-care-yourself-holiday/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2023 10:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23529</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[During the holiday season, we try to do everything that is expected from us, but there is one important thing that we don’t always take the time for: ourselves. What it means to take care of yourself varies from person to person. For some of my clients, it involves scheduling every holiday preparation. For myself, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[During the holiday season, we try to do everything that is expected from us, but there is one important thing that we don’t always take the time for: ourselves. What it means to take care of yourself varies from person to person. For some of my clients, ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[During the holiday season, we try to do everything that is expected from us, but there is one important thing that we don’t always take the time for: ourselves. What it means to take care of yourself varies from person to person. For some of my clients, it involves scheduling every holiday preparation. For myself, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23529/taking-care-yourself-holiday.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[During the holiday season, we try to do everything that is expected from us, but there is one important thing that we don’t always take the time for: ourselves. What it means to take care of yourself varies from person to person. For some of my clients, it involves scheduling every holiday preparation. For myself, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-care-yourself-holiday-332-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Taking care of yourself this holiday season</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[During the holiday season, we try to do everything that is expected from us, but there is one important thing that we don’t always take the time for: ourselves. What it means to take care of yourself varies from person to person. For some of my clients, it involves scheduling every holiday preparation. For myself, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-care-yourself-holiday-332-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Unnecessary suffering in the thoughts we think</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/unnecessary-suffering-thoughts/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Dec 2023 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23526</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Our brains have the capacity to make up stories and to create tragedies in which we are the main character. While some stories are happy, the thoughts we entertain can also contribute directly to the pain in our lives. Often, there is something underneath those stories worth exploring. In this episode, we explore another action [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Our brains have the capacity to make up stories and to create tragedies in which we are the main character. While some stories are happy, the thoughts we entertain can also contribute directly to the pain in our lives. Often, there is something underneat]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Our brains have the capacity to make up stories and to create tragedies in which we are the main character. While some stories are happy, the thoughts we entertain can also contribute directly to the pain in our lives. Often, there is something underneath those stories worth exploring. In this episode, we explore another action [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our brains have the capacity to make up stories and to create tragedies in which we are the main character. While some stories are happy, the thoughts we entertain can also contribute directly to the pain in our lives. Often, there is something underneath those stories worth exploring. In this episode, we explore another action [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Unnecessary suffering in the thoughts we think</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-unnecessary-suffering-thoughts-331-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>I’m such a perfectionist</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/perfectionist/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Dec 2023 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23522</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever get home from work and find yourself dwelling on the one thing that went bad that day rather than celebrating the many good things you achieved? It doesn’t take long to acknowledge ourselves, yet it’s something perfectionists rarely do. Focusing on thriving is a survival instinct, but let me tell you, you [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever get home from work and find yourself dwelling on the one thing that went bad that day rather than celebrating the many good things you achieved? It doesn’t take long to acknowledge ourselves, yet it’s something perfectionists rarely do. Focus]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever get home from work and find yourself dwelling on the one thing that went bad that day rather than celebrating the many good things you achieved? It doesn’t take long to acknowledge ourselves, yet it’s something perfectionists rarely do. Focusing on thriving is a survival instinct, but let me tell you, you [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23522/perfectionist.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever get home from work and find yourself dwelling on the one thing that went bad that day rather than celebrating the many good things you achieved? It doesn’t take long to acknowledge ourselves, yet it’s something perfectionists rarely do. Focusing on thriving is a survival instinct, but let me tell you, you [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-perfectionist-perfectionism-perfect-330-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>I’m such a perfectionist</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever get home from work and find yourself dwelling on the one thing that went bad that day rather than celebrating the many good things you achieved? It doesn’t take long to acknowledge ourselves, yet it’s something perfectionists rarely do. Focusing on thriving is a survival instinct, but let me tell you, you [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/koren-motekaitis-perfectionist-perfectionism-perfect-330-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Holiday Season</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/holiday-season/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 24 Nov 2023 10:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23517</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Now that Thanksgiving has passed, paving the way for the holidays, it is normal to feel excitement as well as resentment. After all, we often look forward to an idealized notion of the holidays, rather than the reality of what we may experience at that time of the year. It can bring us joy to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Now that Thanksgiving has passed, paving the way for the holidays, it is normal to feel excitement as well as resentment. After all, we often look forward to an idealized notion of the holidays, rather than the reality of what we may experience at that t]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Now that Thanksgiving has passed, paving the way for the holidays, it is normal to feel excitement as well as resentment. After all, we often look forward to an idealized notion of the holidays, rather than the reality of what we may experience at that time of the year. It can bring us joy to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23517/holiday-season.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Now that Thanksgiving has passed, paving the way for the holidays, it is normal to feel excitement as well as resentment. After all, we often look forward to an idealized notion of the holidays, rather than the reality of what we may experience at that time of the year. It can bring us joy to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-holiday-season-family-329-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-holiday-season-family-329-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>The Holiday Season</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Now that Thanksgiving has passed, paving the way for the holidays, it is normal to feel excitement as well as resentment. After all, we often look forward to an idealized notion of the holidays, rather than the reality of what we may experience at that time of the year. It can bring us joy to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-holiday-season-family-329-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Unnecessary suffering in the choices you make</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/unnecessary-suffering-choices/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Nov 2023 10:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23500</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I dislike the cold, and even though I live in California, I can say that I have never enjoyed cold weather. For a long time, I put myself in a situation that didn’t make my life more enjoyable during that season: I didn’t turn on the heat. We sometimes make choices that cause us unnecessary [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I dislike the cold, and even though I live in California, I can say that I have never enjoyed cold weather. For a long time, I put myself in a situation that didn’t make my life more enjoyable during that season: I didn’t turn on the heat. We sometimes m]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I dislike the cold, and even though I live in California, I can say that I have never enjoyed cold weather. For a long time, I put myself in a situation that didn’t make my life more enjoyable during that season: I didn’t turn on the heat. We sometimes make choices that cause us unnecessary [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23500/unnecessary-suffering-choices.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I dislike the cold, and even though I live in California, I can say that I have never enjoyed cold weather. For a long time, I put myself in a situation that didn’t make my life more enjoyable during that season: I didn’t turn on the heat. We sometimes make choices that cause us unnecessary [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-unnecessary-suffering-choices-328-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-unnecessary-suffering-choices-328-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Unnecessary suffering in the choices you make</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I dislike the cold, and even though I live in California, I can say that I have never enjoyed cold weather. For a long time, I put myself in a situation that didn’t make my life more enjoyable during that season: I didn’t turn on the heat. We sometimes make choices that cause us unnecessary [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-unnecessary-suffering-choices-328-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Stop judging yourself</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/stop-judging-yourself/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Nov 2023 10:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23492</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Why are our achievements overshadowed by our perception of the time taken to reach them? Too often, we judge ourselves or compare our journey to that of others before celebrating our victories. The truth is, we often only see other people’s achievements from the outside and don’t see the invisible structure behind their wins. In [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Why are our achievements overshadowed by our perception of the time taken to reach them? Too often, we judge ourselves or compare our journey to that of others before celebrating our victories. The truth is, we often only see other people’s achievements ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Why are our achievements overshadowed by our perception of the time taken to reach them? Too often, we judge ourselves or compare our journey to that of others before celebrating our victories. The truth is, we often only see other people’s achievements from the outside and don’t see the invisible structure behind their wins. In [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23492/stop-judging-yourself.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why are our achievements overshadowed by our perception of the time taken to reach them? Too often, we judge ourselves or compare our journey to that of others before celebrating our victories. The truth is, we often only see other people’s achievements from the outside and don’t see the invisible structure behind their wins. In [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-stop-judging-yourself-327-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Stop judging yourself</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Why are our achievements overshadowed by our perception of the time taken to reach them? Too often, we judge ourselves or compare our journey to that of others before celebrating our victories. The truth is, we often only see other people’s achievements from the outside and don’t see the invisible structure behind their wins. In [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-stop-judging-yourself-327-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Coming to an end</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/coming-to-an-end/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Nov 2023 10:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23484</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you sometimes feel like you can’t help but be bittersweet when things come to an end? Endings certainly come with a lot of mixed and competing feelings. Accepting the reality that some things have ended puts us in a vulnerable place. We can feel left to ourselves with our fear of the unknown. At [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you sometimes feel like you can’t help but be bittersweet when things come to an end? Endings certainly come with a lot of mixed and competing feelings. Accepting the reality that some things have ended puts us in a vulnerable place. We can feel left ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you sometimes feel like you can’t help but be bittersweet when things come to an end? Endings certainly come with a lot of mixed and competing feelings. Accepting the reality that some things have ended puts us in a vulnerable place. We can feel left to ourselves with our fear of the unknown. At [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23484/coming-to-an-end.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you sometimes feel like you can’t help but be bittersweet when things come to an end? Endings certainly come with a lot of mixed and competing feelings. Accepting the reality that some things have ended puts us in a vulnerable place. We can feel left to ourselves with our fear of the unknown. At [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-coming-to-end-326-fullsizev2.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-coming-to-end-326-fullsizev2.jpg</url>
		<title>Coming to an end</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you sometimes feel like you can’t help but be bittersweet when things come to an end? Endings certainly come with a lot of mixed and competing feelings. Accepting the reality that some things have ended puts us in a vulnerable place. We can feel left to ourselves with our fear of the unknown. At [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/koren-motekaitis-coming-to-end-326-fullsizev2.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The vulnerability of relationships</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/vulnerability-relationships/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 27 Oct 2023 09:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23476</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Communication in relationships can sometimes feel murky. This week, we emphasize the significance of honest and vulnerable communication. I&#8217;ll share a mantra and an example of my daughter&#8217;s candid communication during her childhood. It&#8217;s true that communication in relationships can lead to expectations, moments of overwhelm, and discomfort. However, in the end, nurturing communication is [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Communication in relationships can sometimes feel murky. This week, we emphasize the significance of honest and vulnerable communication. I&#8217;ll share a mantra and an example of my daughter&#8217;s candid communication during her childhood. It&#8217;]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Communication in relationships can sometimes feel murky. This week, we emphasize the significance of honest and vulnerable communication. I&#8217;ll share a mantra and an example of my daughter&#8217;s candid communication during her childhood. It&#8217;s true that communication in relationships can lead to expectations, moments of overwhelm, and discomfort. However, in the end, nurturing communication is [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23476/vulnerability-relationships.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Communication in relationships can sometimes feel murky. This week, we emphasize the significance of honest and vulnerable communication. I&#8217;ll share a mantra and an example of my daughter&#8217;s candid communication during her childhood. It&#8217;s true that communication in relationships can lead to expectations, moments of overwhelm, and discomfort. However, in the end, nurturing communication is [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/koren-motekaitis-vulnerability-relationships-325-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/koren-motekaitis-vulnerability-relationships-325-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>The vulnerability of relationships</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Communication in relationships can sometimes feel murky. This week, we emphasize the significance of honest and vulnerable communication. I&#8217;ll share a mantra and an example of my daughter&#8217;s candid communication during her childhood. It&#8217;s true that communication in relationships can lead to expectations, moments of overwhelm, and discomfort. However, in the end, nurturing communication is [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/koren-motekaitis-vulnerability-relationships-325-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The obstacles of receiving</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/obstacles-receiving/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 20 Oct 2023 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23473</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Have you ever offered a compliment only to have it shrugged off or downplayed? Or perhaps you&#8217;ve found it challenging to truly accept a compliment yourself? Both giving and receiving compliments can leave us feeling vulnerable. This week, we discuss the challenges of connecting and the obstacles that keep up from receiving.  We&#8217;ll explore the [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Have you ever offered a compliment only to have it shrugged off or downplayed? Or perhaps you&#8217;ve found it challenging to truly accept a compliment yourself? Both giving and receiving compliments can leave us feeling vulnerable. This week, we discus]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Have you ever offered a compliment only to have it shrugged off or downplayed? Or perhaps you&#8217;ve found it challenging to truly accept a compliment yourself? Both giving and receiving compliments can leave us feeling vulnerable. This week, we discuss the challenges of connecting and the obstacles that keep up from receiving.  We&#8217;ll explore the [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23473/obstacles-receiving.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever offered a compliment only to have it shrugged off or downplayed? Or perhaps you&#8217;ve found it challenging to truly accept a compliment yourself? Both giving and receiving compliments can leave us feeling vulnerable. This week, we discuss the challenges of connecting and the obstacles that keep up from receiving.  We&#8217;ll explore the [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/koren-motekaitis-obstacles-receiving-compliments-324-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/koren-motekaitis-obstacles-receiving-compliments-324-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>The obstacles of receiving</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Have you ever offered a compliment only to have it shrugged off or downplayed? Or perhaps you&#8217;ve found it challenging to truly accept a compliment yourself? Both giving and receiving compliments can leave us feeling vulnerable. This week, we discuss the challenges of connecting and the obstacles that keep up from receiving.  We&#8217;ll explore the [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/koren-motekaitis-obstacles-receiving-compliments-324-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>7 Lessons on the 17th Anniversary of How She Really Does It (Part 2)</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/7-lessons-anniversary-2/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 13 Oct 2023 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23428</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Welcome back to the celebration of 17 years of How She Really Does It! Last week, we started exploring the 7 lessons that have helped me to succeed along the way and today we&#8217;re going to continue with the remaining lessons.  The lessons I share today are ones that I continue to use because they [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Welcome back to the celebration of 17 years of How She Really Does It! Last week, we started exploring the 7 lessons that have helped me to succeed along the way and today we&#8217;re going to continue with the remaining lessons.  The lessons I share tod]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Welcome back to the celebration of 17 years of How She Really Does It! Last week, we started exploring the 7 lessons that have helped me to succeed along the way and today we&#8217;re going to continue with the remaining lessons.  The lessons I share today are ones that I continue to use because they [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23428/7-lessons-anniversary-2.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome back to the celebration of 17 years of How She Really Does It! Last week, we started exploring the 7 lessons that have helped me to succeed along the way and today we&#8217;re going to continue with the remaining lessons.  The lessons I share today are ones that I continue to use because they [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/koren-motekaitis-lessons-anniversary-podcast-323-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>7 Lessons on the 17th Anniversary of How She Really Does It (Part 2)</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Welcome back to the celebration of 17 years of How She Really Does It! Last week, we started exploring the 7 lessons that have helped me to succeed along the way and today we&#8217;re going to continue with the remaining lessons.  The lessons I share today are ones that I continue to use because they [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
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	<title>7 Lessons on the 17th Anniversary of How She Really Does It (Part 1)</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/7-lessons-anniversary-1/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Oct 2023 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been 17 years since I started the podcast! To celebrate, I’m reflecting on how far I&#8217;ve come and sharing 7 lessons that I’ve learned along the way. Today’s episode features 3 lessons on getting started.  Beginnings are always murky. Looking back there were so many reasons NOT to pursue my dreams. I was a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been 17 years since I started the podcast! To celebrate, I’m reflecting on how far I&#8217;ve come and sharing 7 lessons that I’ve learned along the way. Today’s episode features 3 lessons on getting started.  Beginnings are always murky. Look]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been 17 years since I started the podcast! To celebrate, I’m reflecting on how far I&#8217;ve come and sharing 7 lessons that I’ve learned along the way. Today’s episode features 3 lessons on getting started.  Beginnings are always murky. Looking back there were so many reasons NOT to pursue my dreams. I was a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been 17 years since I started the podcast! To celebrate, I’m reflecting on how far I&#8217;ve come and sharing 7 lessons that I’ve learned along the way. Today’s episode features 3 lessons on getting started.  Beginnings are always murky. Looking back there were so many reasons NOT to pursue my dreams. I was a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Intrinsic + Extrinsic Motivation</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/intrinsic-extrinsic-motivation/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Sep 2023 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23421</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you know your why? What is it that keeps you striving? This week we look at intrinsic and extrinsic motivation through the lens of my AquaMonsters swim team. My Aquamonsters go from being ribbon-motivated to finding benefit in the process of swimming. Learn why, and what types of motivation my swimmers are tapping into. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you know your why? What is it that keeps you striving? This week we look at intrinsic and extrinsic motivation through the lens of my AquaMonsters swim team. My Aquamonsters go from being ribbon-motivated to finding benefit in the process of swimming.]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you know your why? What is it that keeps you striving? This week we look at intrinsic and extrinsic motivation through the lens of my AquaMonsters swim team. My Aquamonsters go from being ribbon-motivated to finding benefit in the process of swimming. Learn why, and what types of motivation my swimmers are tapping into. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you know your why? What is it that keeps you striving? This week we look at intrinsic and extrinsic motivation through the lens of my AquaMonsters swim team. My Aquamonsters go from being ribbon-motivated to finding benefit in the process of swimming. Learn why, and what types of motivation my swimmers are tapping into. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Intrinsic + Extrinsic Motivation</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you know your why? What is it that keeps you striving? This week we look at intrinsic and extrinsic motivation through the lens of my AquaMonsters swim team. My Aquamonsters go from being ribbon-motivated to finding benefit in the process of swimming. Learn why, and what types of motivation my swimmers are tapping into. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/koren-motekaitis-intrinsic-extrinsic-motivation-321-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>From not enough to belonging: Stories from camp</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/belonging-stories-from-camp/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2023 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23418</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you&#8217;re the only one experiencing hardship? You might look at the people around you and think that they are so far ahead of you and you are falling behind, which can trigger feelings of shame. Shame and a lack of belonging can be infectious. Without bringing awareness to them, they [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you&#8217;re the only one experiencing hardship? You might look at the people around you and think that they are so far ahead of you and you are falling behind, which can trigger feelings of shame. Shame and a lack of belonging can ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you&#8217;re the only one experiencing hardship? You might look at the people around you and think that they are so far ahead of you and you are falling behind, which can trigger feelings of shame. Shame and a lack of belonging can be infectious. Without bringing awareness to them, they [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like you&#8217;re the only one experiencing hardship? You might look at the people around you and think that they are so far ahead of you and you are falling behind, which can trigger feelings of shame. Shame and a lack of belonging can be infectious. Without bringing awareness to them, they [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/koren-motekaitis-belonging-stories-camp-320-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>From not enough to belonging: Stories from camp</title>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>How to lean into resistance</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/lean-into-resistance/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 10:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23410</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[One of my superpowers lies in my ability to overcome resistance, and this week, I want to share a few stories from my recent camp reunion trip where I had the opportunity to put this superpower into action. It was a weekend filled with unexpected challenges and hurdles, and it reminded me of the importance [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[One of my superpowers lies in my ability to overcome resistance, and this week, I want to share a few stories from my recent camp reunion trip where I had the opportunity to put this superpower into action. It was a weekend filled with unexpected challen]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[One of my superpowers lies in my ability to overcome resistance, and this week, I want to share a few stories from my recent camp reunion trip where I had the opportunity to put this superpower into action. It was a weekend filled with unexpected challenges and hurdles, and it reminded me of the importance [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of my superpowers lies in my ability to overcome resistance, and this week, I want to share a few stories from my recent camp reunion trip where I had the opportunity to put this superpower into action. It was a weekend filled with unexpected challenges and hurdles, and it reminded me of the importance [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>How to lean into resistance</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[One of my superpowers lies in my ability to overcome resistance, and this week, I want to share a few stories from my recent camp reunion trip where I had the opportunity to put this superpower into action. It was a weekend filled with unexpected challenges and hurdles, and it reminded me of the importance [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/koren-motekaitis-lean-into-resistance-319-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>When you know what to do and don’t do it</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/when-you-know-what-to-do/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Sep 2023 10:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23395</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Sometimes life runs away with us and the resulting overwhelm keeps us from following our inner knowledge and tools. Being an entrepreneur is no walk in the park. It takes many skills, commitments, and time for REST. However, it&#8217;s important to remember that moments of struggle can also be key lessons. This week I discuss [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Sometimes life runs away with us and the resulting overwhelm keeps us from following our inner knowledge and tools. Being an entrepreneur is no walk in the park. It takes many skills, commitments, and time for REST. However, it&#8217;s important to remem]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sometimes life runs away with us and the resulting overwhelm keeps us from following our inner knowledge and tools. Being an entrepreneur is no walk in the park. It takes many skills, commitments, and time for REST. However, it&#8217;s important to remember that moments of struggle can also be key lessons. This week I discuss [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23395/when-you-know-what-to-do.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes life runs away with us and the resulting overwhelm keeps us from following our inner knowledge and tools. Being an entrepreneur is no walk in the park. It takes many skills, commitments, and time for REST. However, it&#8217;s important to remember that moments of struggle can also be key lessons. This week I discuss [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>When you know what to do and don’t do it</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Sometimes life runs away with us and the resulting overwhelm keeps us from following our inner knowledge and tools. Being an entrepreneur is no walk in the park. It takes many skills, commitments, and time for REST. However, it&#8217;s important to remember that moments of struggle can also be key lessons. This week I discuss [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/koren-motekaitis-what-to-do-318-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Sobriety with Andrea Owen</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/sobriety-andrea-owen/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Sep 2023 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23383</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote speaker, and professional certified life coach, Andrea Owen. Andrea helps high-achieving women [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote speaker, and professional certified life coach, Andrea Owen. Andrea helps high-achieving women [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23383/sobriety-andrea-owen.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote speaker, and professional certified life coach, Andrea Owen. Andrea helps high-achieving women [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/koren-motekaitis-sobriety-andrea-owen-317-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Sobriety with Andrea Owen</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When you struggle with drinking, the problem (and pain) is often far beyond the glass. As my guest this week shares, this problem looks different for everybody, and it often falls into the grey zone. This week, I&#8217;m joined by author, global keynote speaker, and professional certified life coach, Andrea Owen. Andrea helps high-achieving women [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/koren-motekaitis-sobriety-andrea-owen-317-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>We don’t all have the same 24 hours in a day</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/same-24-hours-day/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Aug 2023 10:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23354</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We are told that we all have the same 24-hour day. But the reality is more complicated than that. We all have different circumstances, support systems, and resources.  Those successful people you admire have teams of invisible support systems behind the scenes.  But here&#8217;s the good news &#8211; you deserve support too! You don’t need [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are told that we all have the same 24-hour day. But the reality is more complicated than that. We all have different circumstances, support systems, and resources.  Those successful people you admire have teams of invisible support systems behind the ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are told that we all have the same 24-hour day. But the reality is more complicated than that. We all have different circumstances, support systems, and resources.  Those successful people you admire have teams of invisible support systems behind the scenes.  But here&#8217;s the good news &#8211; you deserve support too! You don’t need [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23354/same-24-hours-day.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are told that we all have the same 24-hour day. But the reality is more complicated than that. We all have different circumstances, support systems, and resources.  Those successful people you admire have teams of invisible support systems behind the scenes.  But here&#8217;s the good news &#8211; you deserve support too! You don’t need [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>We don’t all have the same 24 hours in a day</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We are told that we all have the same 24-hour day. But the reality is more complicated than that. We all have different circumstances, support systems, and resources.  Those successful people you admire have teams of invisible support systems behind the scenes.  But here&#8217;s the good news &#8211; you deserve support too! You don’t need [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/koren-motekaitis-24-hours-day-316-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Invisible skillsets</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/invisible-skillsets/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Aug 2023 10:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23357</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a weakness in corporate environments. But it is an invisible skillset and the scaffolding that [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a wea]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a weakness in corporate environments. But it is an invisible skillset and the scaffolding that [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23357/invisible-skillsets.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a weakness in corporate environments. But it is an invisible skillset and the scaffolding that [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/koren-motekaitis-invisible-skillsets-315-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Invisible skillsets</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Can you identify the inner workings of your mind while you&#8217;re having a stressful experience? OR unpack the brain&#8217;s stories before they talk you out of the running and into a hole?  This ability to understand emotions is often considered a weakness in corporate environments. But it is an invisible skillset and the scaffolding that [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/koren-motekaitis-invisible-skillsets-315-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Unlock your leadership potential</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/unlocking-leadership-potential/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2023 10:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23365</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you consider yourself a leader? I’m here to tell you that no matter what your title is at work (or at home), you have huge leadership potential. Leaders look for and see the unrealized potential in people and processes. If you’re a parent, you do this! If you’re an entrepreneur, you do this! Now [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you consider yourself a leader? I’m here to tell you that no matter what your title is at work (or at home), you have huge leadership potential. Leaders look for and see the unrealized potential in people and processes. If you’re a parent, you do this]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you consider yourself a leader? I’m here to tell you that no matter what your title is at work (or at home), you have huge leadership potential. Leaders look for and see the unrealized potential in people and processes. If you’re a parent, you do this! If you’re an entrepreneur, you do this! Now [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you consider yourself a leader? I’m here to tell you that no matter what your title is at work (or at home), you have huge leadership potential. Leaders look for and see the unrealized potential in people and processes. If you’re a parent, you do this! If you’re an entrepreneur, you do this! Now [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Unlock your leadership potential</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/koren-motekaitis-unlock-leadership-potential-314-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Embracing parenting hardship</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/embracing-parenting-hardship/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Aug 2023 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23340</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Parenting, a journey filled with both joys and hardships, presents itself as one of life&#8217;s greatest challenges. Just when you start feeling confident and capable, new phases of growth emerge, bringing along fresh sets of hurdles. Remember, you are never alone in this journey. As a coach, I am here to be my clients&#8217; confidant, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Parenting, a journey filled with both joys and hardships, presents itself as one of life&#8217;s greatest challenges. Just when you start feeling confident and capable, new phases of growth emerge, bringing along fresh sets of hurdles. Remember, you are ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Parenting, a journey filled with both joys and hardships, presents itself as one of life&#8217;s greatest challenges. Just when you start feeling confident and capable, new phases of growth emerge, bringing along fresh sets of hurdles. Remember, you are never alone in this journey. As a coach, I am here to be my clients&#8217; confidant, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Parenting, a journey filled with both joys and hardships, presents itself as one of life&#8217;s greatest challenges. Just when you start feeling confident and capable, new phases of growth emerge, bringing along fresh sets of hurdles. Remember, you are never alone in this journey. As a coach, I am here to be my clients&#8217; confidant, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Embracing parenting hardship</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Parenting, a journey filled with both joys and hardships, presents itself as one of life&#8217;s greatest challenges. Just when you start feeling confident and capable, new phases of growth emerge, bringing along fresh sets of hurdles. Remember, you are never alone in this journey. As a coach, I am here to be my clients&#8217; confidant, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/HSRDI313Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Other people&#8217;s judgment</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/other-peoples-judgment/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jul 2023 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23331</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgment. We look closely at shame and how we receive judgment. We [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgmen]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgment. We look closely at shame and how we receive judgment. We [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23331/other-peoples-judgment.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgment. We look closely at shame and how we receive judgment. We [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-other-peoples-judgment-312-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-other-peoples-judgment-312-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Other people&#8217;s judgment</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Part of our human experience is dealing with the judgments of others. Whether it’s family members or someone at work, when we feel judged, it can trigger a slew of reactions. This week we look at effective and ineffective methods for dealing with judgment. We look closely at shame and how we receive judgment. We [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-other-peoples-judgment-312-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Achieve BIG GOALS with Small Steps</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/achieve-big-goals-with-small-steps/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jul 2023 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23330</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re like me, you’ve got big audacious goals. But sometimes, your big goals might bring you down because they&#8217;re overwhelming, abstract, and hard to know how to achieve. This week rather than thinking about the big goal, we look at the importance of knowing the next small step. Having the courage to break down [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re like me, you’ve got big audacious goals. But sometimes, your big goals might bring you down because they&#8217;re overwhelming, abstract, and hard to know how to achieve. This week rather than thinking about the big goal, we look at the i]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re like me, you’ve got big audacious goals. But sometimes, your big goals might bring you down because they&#8217;re overwhelming, abstract, and hard to know how to achieve. This week rather than thinking about the big goal, we look at the importance of knowing the next small step. Having the courage to break down [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23330/achieve-big-goals-with-small-steps.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re like me, you’ve got big audacious goals. But sometimes, your big goals might bring you down because they&#8217;re overwhelming, abstract, and hard to know how to achieve. This week rather than thinking about the big goal, we look at the importance of knowing the next small step. Having the courage to break down [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-big-goals-steps-311-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-big-goals-steps-311-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Achieve BIG GOALS with Small Steps</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re like me, you’ve got big audacious goals. But sometimes, your big goals might bring you down because they&#8217;re overwhelming, abstract, and hard to know how to achieve. This week rather than thinking about the big goal, we look at the importance of knowing the next small step. Having the courage to break down [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-big-goals-steps-311-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Stop asking these 2 questions</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/stop-asking-these-2-questions/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jul 2023 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23324</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever find that the thing you thought you had to do, isn’t actually the right path forward? Rather than saying &#8220;what am I missing?&#8221; or &#8220;am I doing it right?&#8221; I encourage you to see beyond these binaries. We can always learn from experiences, get feedback, and make space for new solutions. Rather [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever find that the thing you thought you had to do, isn’t actually the right path forward? Rather than saying &#8220;what am I missing?&#8221; or &#8220;am I doing it right?&#8221; I encourage you to see beyond these binaries. We can always learn ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever find that the thing you thought you had to do, isn’t actually the right path forward? Rather than saying &#8220;what am I missing?&#8221; or &#8220;am I doing it right?&#8221; I encourage you to see beyond these binaries. We can always learn from experiences, get feedback, and make space for new solutions. Rather [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23324/stop-asking-these-2-questions.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever find that the thing you thought you had to do, isn’t actually the right path forward? Rather than saying &#8220;what am I missing?&#8221; or &#8220;am I doing it right?&#8221; I encourage you to see beyond these binaries. We can always learn from experiences, get feedback, and make space for new solutions. Rather [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaistis-asking-questions-310-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaistis-asking-questions-310-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Stop asking these 2 questions</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever find that the thing you thought you had to do, isn’t actually the right path forward? Rather than saying &#8220;what am I missing?&#8221; or &#8220;am I doing it right?&#8221; I encourage you to see beyond these binaries. We can always learn from experiences, get feedback, and make space for new solutions. Rather [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaistis-asking-questions-310-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Achieving your dreams</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/achieving-your-dreams/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jul 2023 10:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23317</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Are you hard on yourself? A perfectionist? Sometimes, we miss that we are already living our dreams because we are so busy with our heads down, moving on to whatever is next. Our goals and dreams are essential to identify, fight for, and then celebrate. By making space to recognize our successes (big and small), [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Are you hard on yourself? A perfectionist? Sometimes, we miss that we are already living our dreams because we are so busy with our heads down, moving on to whatever is next. Our goals and dreams are essential to identify, fight for, and then celebrate. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you hard on yourself? A perfectionist? Sometimes, we miss that we are already living our dreams because we are so busy with our heads down, moving on to whatever is next. Our goals and dreams are essential to identify, fight for, and then celebrate. By making space to recognize our successes (big and small), [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23317/achieving-your-dreams.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you hard on yourself? A perfectionist? Sometimes, we miss that we are already living our dreams because we are so busy with our heads down, moving on to whatever is next. Our goals and dreams are essential to identify, fight for, and then celebrate. By making space to recognize our successes (big and small), [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-achieving-your-dreams-309-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-achieving-your-dreams-309-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Achieving your dreams</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Are you hard on yourself? A perfectionist? Sometimes, we miss that we are already living our dreams because we are so busy with our heads down, moving on to whatever is next. Our goals and dreams are essential to identify, fight for, and then celebrate. By making space to recognize our successes (big and small), [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/koren-motekaitis-achieving-your-dreams-309-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Birthday Learnings + Unlearnings</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/birthday-learnings-unlearnings/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jun 2023 10:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23310</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[High-performers often have a habit of putting themselves last. I know this because I’ve lived this. So, this year for my birthday, I am committed to putting myself first for the next 30 years.  Birthdays provide us with time to reflect and cultivate clarity. I’ve found the more that I can be clear about my [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[High-performers often have a habit of putting themselves last. I know this because I’ve lived this. So, this year for my birthday, I am committed to putting myself first for the next 30 years.  Birthdays provide us with time to reflect and cultivate clar]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[High-performers often have a habit of putting themselves last. I know this because I’ve lived this. So, this year for my birthday, I am committed to putting myself first for the next 30 years.  Birthdays provide us with time to reflect and cultivate clarity. I’ve found the more that I can be clear about my [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23310/birthday-learnings-unlearnings.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[High-performers often have a habit of putting themselves last. I know this because I’ve lived this. So, this year for my birthday, I am committed to putting myself first for the next 30 years.  Birthdays provide us with time to reflect and cultivate clarity. I’ve found the more that I can be clear about my [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-birthday-learnings-unlearnings-308-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-birthday-learnings-unlearnings-308-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Birthday Learnings + Unlearnings</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[High-performers often have a habit of putting themselves last. I know this because I’ve lived this. So, this year for my birthday, I am committed to putting myself first for the next 30 years.  Birthdays provide us with time to reflect and cultivate clarity. I’ve found the more that I can be clear about my [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-birthday-learnings-unlearnings-308-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Creating resilient cultures</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/creating-resilient-cultures/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2023 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23292</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. When we can sit with and process through them, we build resilience. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. When we can sit with and process through them, we build resilience. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23292/creating-resilient-cultures.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. When we can sit with and process through them, we build resilience. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-resilient-cultures-306-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-resilient-cultures-306-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Creating resilient cultures</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Many of my clients have been telling me they&#8217;ve been feeling shame, anxiety, fear, and frustration lately. They feel grief for the world. And when things are going well, they are just waiting for the other shoe to drop. These emotions are intense. When we can sit with and process through them, we build resilience. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-resilient-cultures-306-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Making time for you</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/making-time-for-you/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jun 2023 10:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23288</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Unscheduled Sundays are sacred time. I am a high performer, and I know that a lot of downtime is required for me (and all high performers) to sustain performance over time.  This weekend, I shared time with two incredible friends of mine. It was so refreshing to take the time to learn from the lessons [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Unscheduled Sundays are sacred time. I am a high performer, and I know that a lot of downtime is required for me (and all high performers) to sustain performance over time.  This weekend, I shared time with two incredible friends of mine. It was so refre]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Unscheduled Sundays are sacred time. I am a high performer, and I know that a lot of downtime is required for me (and all high performers) to sustain performance over time.  This weekend, I shared time with two incredible friends of mine. It was so refreshing to take the time to learn from the lessons [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23288/making-time-for-you.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Unscheduled Sundays are sacred time. I am a high performer, and I know that a lot of downtime is required for me (and all high performers) to sustain performance over time.  This weekend, I shared time with two incredible friends of mine. It was so refreshing to take the time to learn from the lessons [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/HSRDI305Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/HSRDI305Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Making time for you</title>
	</image>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Unscheduled Sundays are sacred time. I am a high performer, and I know that a lot of downtime is required for me (and all high performers) to sustain performance over time.  This weekend, I shared time with two incredible friends of mine. It was so refreshing to take the time to learn from the lessons [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/HSRDI305Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Vulnerable Talk: Creating Communication Rules</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/communication-rules/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jun 2023 10:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23281</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatigue. Finding time to reach out by picking up the phone can be a generous, great way [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatig]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatigue. Finding time to reach out by picking up the phone can be a generous, great way [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatigue. Finding time to reach out by picking up the phone can be a generous, great way [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-communication-rules-304-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Vulnerable Talk: Creating Communication Rules</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Cell phone, landline, text, WhatsApp, email, Zoom&#8230; the list goes on of how to reach out and connect. These methods are all great ways to communicate, but without boundaries in your communication techniques and channels, you risk communication fatigue. Finding time to reach out by picking up the phone can be a generous, great way [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/koren-motekaitis-creating-communication-rules-304-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What celebrating looks like</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-celebrating-looks-like/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 May 2023 10:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23269</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Wins come in all shapes and sizes: big goals to “yay me” moments. My clients are high-performers who are hard on themselves and unfortunately, this keeps them from celebrating their wins. Finding the time to honor and celebrate makes all the difference. Even in your busiest moments, you have the time to celebrate. It can [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Wins come in all shapes and sizes: big goals to “yay me” moments. My clients are high-performers who are hard on themselves and unfortunately, this keeps them from celebrating their wins. Finding the time to honor and celebrate makes all the difference. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Wins come in all shapes and sizes: big goals to “yay me” moments. My clients are high-performers who are hard on themselves and unfortunately, this keeps them from celebrating their wins. Finding the time to honor and celebrate makes all the difference. Even in your busiest moments, you have the time to celebrate. It can [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23269/what-celebrating-looks-like.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Wins come in all shapes and sizes: big goals to “yay me” moments. My clients are high-performers who are hard on themselves and unfortunately, this keeps them from celebrating their wins. Finding the time to honor and celebrate makes all the difference. Even in your busiest moments, you have the time to celebrate. It can [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-celebrating-celebration-celebrate-303-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-celebrating-celebration-celebrate-303-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>What celebrating looks like</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Wins come in all shapes and sizes: big goals to “yay me” moments. My clients are high-performers who are hard on themselves and unfortunately, this keeps them from celebrating their wins. Finding the time to honor and celebrate makes all the difference. Even in your busiest moments, you have the time to celebrate. It can [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-celebrating-celebration-celebrate-303-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Why traveling to Europe as a family may not be ideal</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/tips-traveling-europe-family/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 May 2023 10:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23265</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Family travel can be hard to manage for many reasons. Your money mindset, scheduling time, and assumed parental obligations all impact your trip. When my kids were in high school, I noticed a lot of families taking their kids to Europe, and a lot of emotional fallback afterwards due to different expectations for the trip. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Family travel can be hard to manage for many reasons. Your money mindset, scheduling time, and assumed parental obligations all impact your trip. When my kids were in high school, I noticed a lot of families taking their kids to Europe, and a lot of emot]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Family travel can be hard to manage for many reasons. Your money mindset, scheduling time, and assumed parental obligations all impact your trip. When my kids were in high school, I noticed a lot of families taking their kids to Europe, and a lot of emotional fallback afterwards due to different expectations for the trip. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23265/tips-traveling-europe-family.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Family travel can be hard to manage for many reasons. Your money mindset, scheduling time, and assumed parental obligations all impact your trip. When my kids were in high school, I noticed a lot of families taking their kids to Europe, and a lot of emotional fallback afterwards due to different expectations for the trip. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-family-travelling-tips-302-fullsizev2.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-family-travelling-tips-302-fullsizev2.jpg</url>
		<title>Why traveling to Europe as a family may not be ideal</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Family travel can be hard to manage for many reasons. Your money mindset, scheduling time, and assumed parental obligations all impact your trip. When my kids were in high school, I noticed a lot of families taking their kids to Europe, and a lot of emotional fallback afterwards due to different expectations for the trip. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-family-travelling-tips-302-fullsizev2.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Grant yourself permission to care deeply</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/permission-care-deeply/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 May 2023 10:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23262</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As we confront different situations in life, what if we used the tools of awe and wonder? Kindness and compassion? Giving yourself permission to care for yourself is huge but it doesn&#8217;t have to be extravagant. It can be simple enjoyments and wonder-building moments that allow us to settle, breathe, and observe. Being kind to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As we confront different situations in life, what if we used the tools of awe and wonder? Kindness and compassion? Giving yourself permission to care for yourself is huge but it doesn&#8217;t have to be extravagant. It can be simple enjoyments and wonder]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As we confront different situations in life, what if we used the tools of awe and wonder? Kindness and compassion? Giving yourself permission to care for yourself is huge but it doesn&#8217;t have to be extravagant. It can be simple enjoyments and wonder-building moments that allow us to settle, breathe, and observe. Being kind to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23262/permission-care-deeply.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As we confront different situations in life, what if we used the tools of awe and wonder? Kindness and compassion? Giving yourself permission to care for yourself is huge but it doesn&#8217;t have to be extravagant. It can be simple enjoyments and wonder-building moments that allow us to settle, breathe, and observe. Being kind to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-permission-care-deeply-301-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-permission-care-deeply-301-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Grant yourself permission to care deeply</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As we confront different situations in life, what if we used the tools of awe and wonder? Kindness and compassion? Giving yourself permission to care for yourself is huge but it doesn&#8217;t have to be extravagant. It can be simple enjoyments and wonder-building moments that allow us to settle, breathe, and observe. Being kind to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-permission-care-deeply-301-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Spring clean your home &#038; your mindset</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/spring-clean-home-mindset/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 May 2023 10:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23257</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Celebrating wins, small and large, is essential. It fills us up and allows us to see our successes in the midst of challenging times. One thing I’m celebrating this week is spring cleaning. Decluttering is a skill that takes time to cultivate. This week I am using a thought introduced to me by Peter Walsh: [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Celebrating wins, small and large, is essential. It fills us up and allows us to see our successes in the midst of challenging times. One thing I’m celebrating this week is spring cleaning. Decluttering is a skill that takes time to cultivate. This week ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Celebrating wins, small and large, is essential. It fills us up and allows us to see our successes in the midst of challenging times. One thing I’m celebrating this week is spring cleaning. Decluttering is a skill that takes time to cultivate. This week I am using a thought introduced to me by Peter Walsh: [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23257/spring-clean-home-mindset.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Celebrating wins, small and large, is essential. It fills us up and allows us to see our successes in the midst of challenging times. One thing I’m celebrating this week is spring cleaning. Decluttering is a skill that takes time to cultivate. This week I am using a thought introduced to me by Peter Walsh: [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-spring-clean-mindset-300-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-spring-clean-mindset-300-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Spring clean your home &#038; your mindset</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Celebrating wins, small and large, is essential. It fills us up and allows us to see our successes in the midst of challenging times. One thing I’m celebrating this week is spring cleaning. Decluttering is a skill that takes time to cultivate. This week I am using a thought introduced to me by Peter Walsh: [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/koren-motekaitis-spring-clean-mindset-300-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Navigating cultural barriers to achieve the life of your dreams</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/cultural-barriers-dreams/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Apr 2023 10:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23254</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Life is no fairytale. It is filled with ups and downs, sadness and joy. The messiness of life is also where we find beauty and meaning; it is where our leadership shines. Leadership takes time and practice. We learn from experiences, showing up, doing the work, and making adjustments. How we choose to confront challenges [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Life is no fairytale. It is filled with ups and downs, sadness and joy. The messiness of life is also where we find beauty and meaning; it is where our leadership shines. Leadership takes time and practice. We learn from experiences, showing up, doing th]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Life is no fairytale. It is filled with ups and downs, sadness and joy. The messiness of life is also where we find beauty and meaning; it is where our leadership shines. Leadership takes time and practice. We learn from experiences, showing up, doing the work, and making adjustments. How we choose to confront challenges [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23254/cultural-barriers-dreams.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is no fairytale. It is filled with ups and downs, sadness and joy. The messiness of life is also where we find beauty and meaning; it is where our leadership shines. Leadership takes time and practice. We learn from experiences, showing up, doing the work, and making adjustments. How we choose to confront challenges [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-cultural-barrier-dreams-299-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-cultural-barrier-dreams-299-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Navigating cultural barriers to achieve the life of your dreams</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Life is no fairytale. It is filled with ups and downs, sadness and joy. The messiness of life is also where we find beauty and meaning; it is where our leadership shines. Leadership takes time and practice. We learn from experiences, showing up, doing the work, and making adjustments. How we choose to confront challenges [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-cultural-barrier-dreams-299-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The family field trip</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-family-field-trip/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Apr 2023 10:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23229</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I couldn&#8217;t have done my most recent trip at any other time of my life. I went with 20 of my family members to Korea, 7 households, all different schedules. We took my mom to Korea, her home country. Sometimes the time to go is now. My mom at 82 had not been back to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I couldn&#8217;t have done my most recent trip at any other time of my life. I went with 20 of my family members to Korea, 7 households, all different schedules. We took my mom to Korea, her home country. Sometimes the time to go is now. My mom at 82 had]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I couldn&#8217;t have done my most recent trip at any other time of my life. I went with 20 of my family members to Korea, 7 households, all different schedules. We took my mom to Korea, her home country. Sometimes the time to go is now. My mom at 82 had not been back to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23229/the-family-field-trip.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I couldn&#8217;t have done my most recent trip at any other time of my life. I went with 20 of my family members to Korea, 7 households, all different schedules. We took my mom to Korea, her home country. Sometimes the time to go is now. My mom at 82 had not been back to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-family-field-trip-298-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-family-field-trip-298-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>The family field trip</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I couldn&#8217;t have done my most recent trip at any other time of my life. I went with 20 of my family members to Korea, 7 households, all different schedules. We took my mom to Korea, her home country. Sometimes the time to go is now. My mom at 82 had not been back to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-family-field-trip-298-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Travel + busy schedules</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/travel-busy-schedules/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Apr 2023 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23225</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Travel can be exhausting. Systems to help us travel with care are essential. I just experienced 5 trips in 7 weeks, none of which were vacations, and it was a tiresome time but I’ve found methods that encourage me to learn from my mistakes and travel with more ease. It is important to schedule our [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Travel can be exhausting. Systems to help us travel with care are essential. I just experienced 5 trips in 7 weeks, none of which were vacations, and it was a tiresome time but I’ve found methods that encourage me to learn from my mistakes and travel wit]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Travel can be exhausting. Systems to help us travel with care are essential. I just experienced 5 trips in 7 weeks, none of which were vacations, and it was a tiresome time but I’ve found methods that encourage me to learn from my mistakes and travel with more ease. It is important to schedule our [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23225/travel-busy-schedules.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Travel can be exhausting. Systems to help us travel with care are essential. I just experienced 5 trips in 7 weeks, none of which were vacations, and it was a tiresome time but I’ve found methods that encourage me to learn from my mistakes and travel with more ease. It is important to schedule our [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-travel-busy-schedules-297-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-travel-busy-schedules-297-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Travel + busy schedules</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Travel can be exhausting. Systems to help us travel with care are essential. I just experienced 5 trips in 7 weeks, none of which were vacations, and it was a tiresome time but I’ve found methods that encourage me to learn from my mistakes and travel with more ease. It is important to schedule our [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-travel-busy-schedules-297-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Living the dream</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/living-the-dream/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 07 Apr 2023 10:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23219</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Dreams are multifaceted, wonderful, and challenging. Sometimes we arrive at a dream and realize that this dream changed, or does not satisfy us how we thought it would. Living the dream does not mean living in the promised land without any problems. It is both a challenge and an accomplishment worth celebrating. The tension of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Dreams are multifaceted, wonderful, and challenging. Sometimes we arrive at a dream and realize that this dream changed, or does not satisfy us how we thought it would. Living the dream does not mean living in the promised land without any problems. It i]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Dreams are multifaceted, wonderful, and challenging. Sometimes we arrive at a dream and realize that this dream changed, or does not satisfy us how we thought it would. Living the dream does not mean living in the promised land without any problems. It is both a challenge and an accomplishment worth celebrating. The tension of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dreams are multifaceted, wonderful, and challenging. Sometimes we arrive at a dream and realize that this dream changed, or does not satisfy us how we thought it would. Living the dream does not mean living in the promised land without any problems. It is both a challenge and an accomplishment worth celebrating. The tension of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/04/koren-motekaitis-living-the-dream-296-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Allowing wonder to make a mark</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/allowing-wonder-make-mark/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 31 Mar 2023 10:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23213</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We can be so judgmental and quick to raise our armor by shutting down great opportunities before they can bloom. This week I uncover the wonders of living a curious life, and the gifts that await us when we do.  With the power of retrospect I see how lucky I am that I was curious [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We can be so judgmental and quick to raise our armor by shutting down great opportunities before they can bloom. This week I uncover the wonders of living a curious life, and the gifts that await us when we do.  With the power of retrospect I see how luc]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We can be so judgmental and quick to raise our armor by shutting down great opportunities before they can bloom. This week I uncover the wonders of living a curious life, and the gifts that await us when we do.  With the power of retrospect I see how lucky I am that I was curious [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We can be so judgmental and quick to raise our armor by shutting down great opportunities before they can bloom. This week I uncover the wonders of living a curious life, and the gifts that await us when we do.  With the power of retrospect I see how lucky I am that I was curious [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-allowing-wonder-295-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-allowing-wonder-295-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Allowing wonder to make a mark</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We can be so judgmental and quick to raise our armor by shutting down great opportunities before they can bloom. This week I uncover the wonders of living a curious life, and the gifts that await us when we do.  With the power of retrospect I see how lucky I am that I was curious [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-allowing-wonder-295-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The truth about parenting</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/truth-about-parenting/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 24 Mar 2023 10:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23209</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Being a parent is not for the faint of heart. Many of us find that parenthood isn’t the fairytale sold to us by our culture, and when it really gets hard, we tend to ask ourselves a lot of the same questions: Am I doing it right? Will I damage my kid? Am I a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Being a parent is not for the faint of heart. Many of us find that parenthood isn’t the fairytale sold to us by our culture, and when it really gets hard, we tend to ask ourselves a lot of the same questions: Am I doing it right? Will I damage my kid? Am]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Being a parent is not for the faint of heart. Many of us find that parenthood isn’t the fairytale sold to us by our culture, and when it really gets hard, we tend to ask ourselves a lot of the same questions: Am I doing it right? Will I damage my kid? Am I a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23209/truth-about-parenting.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Being a parent is not for the faint of heart. Many of us find that parenthood isn’t the fairytale sold to us by our culture, and when it really gets hard, we tend to ask ourselves a lot of the same questions: Am I doing it right? Will I damage my kid? Am I a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-truth-about-parenting-294-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-truth-about-parenting-294-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>The truth about parenting</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Being a parent is not for the faint of heart. Many of us find that parenthood isn’t the fairytale sold to us by our culture, and when it really gets hard, we tend to ask ourselves a lot of the same questions: Am I doing it right? Will I damage my kid? Am I a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-truth-about-parenting-294-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The importance of being a newbie + play</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/newbie-play/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2023 10:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23206</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentality allows us to confront barriers of perfectionism while opening [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentalit]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentality allows us to confront barriers of perfectionism while opening [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23206/newbie-play.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As children we are encouraged to play as a means of exploring and integrating our world. I’m at it again in my 50&#8217;s and finding that play is essential. This week I explore the dopamine hits of being a newbie on the Pickleball Court. Newbie mentality allows us to confront barriers of perfectionism while opening [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-newbie-play-293-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>The importance of being a newbie + play</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-newbie-play-293-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Creating space for work travel</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/creating-space-work-travel/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Mar 2023 10:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23192</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Travel can bring so many benefits. It can encourage you to connect with yourself as well as connect with others. But when you travel, how do you take care of yourself? We often go all in on work and our personal lives take a huge loss. But it doesn’t have to be this way. We [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Travel can bring so many benefits. It can encourage you to connect with yourself as well as connect with others. But when you travel, how do you take care of yourself? We often go all in on work and our personal lives take a huge loss. But it doesn’t hav]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Travel can bring so many benefits. It can encourage you to connect with yourself as well as connect with others. But when you travel, how do you take care of yourself? We often go all in on work and our personal lives take a huge loss. But it doesn’t have to be this way. We [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23192/creating-space-work-travel.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Travel can bring so many benefits. It can encourage you to connect with yourself as well as connect with others. But when you travel, how do you take care of yourself? We often go all in on work and our personal lives take a huge loss. But it doesn’t have to be this way. We [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-creating-space-travel-292-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Creating space for work travel</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Travel can bring so many benefits. It can encourage you to connect with yourself as well as connect with others. But when you travel, how do you take care of yourself? We often go all in on work and our personal lives take a huge loss. But it doesn’t have to be this way. We [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-creating-space-travel-292-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Email Overload</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/email-overload/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Mar 2023 10:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23186</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[So many of us have text, email, social media, and other communication mediums on our phones, meaning there are so many different ways nowadays for people to get hold of us. With all of these methods of communication, there is an invisible, unspoken demand that we need to respond to everyone right away, and it [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[So many of us have text, email, social media, and other communication mediums on our phones, meaning there are so many different ways nowadays for people to get hold of us. With all of these methods of communication, there is an invisible, unspoken deman]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[So many of us have text, email, social media, and other communication mediums on our phones, meaning there are so many different ways nowadays for people to get hold of us. With all of these methods of communication, there is an invisible, unspoken demand that we need to respond to everyone right away, and it [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23186/email-overload.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[So many of us have text, email, social media, and other communication mediums on our phones, meaning there are so many different ways nowadays for people to get hold of us. With all of these methods of communication, there is an invisible, unspoken demand that we need to respond to everyone right away, and it [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-email-overload-boundaries-291-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-email-overload-boundaries-291-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Email Overload</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[So many of us have text, email, social media, and other communication mediums on our phones, meaning there are so many different ways nowadays for people to get hold of us. With all of these methods of communication, there is an invisible, unspoken demand that we need to respond to everyone right away, and it [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/koren-motekaitis-email-overload-boundaries-291-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Affordability</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/affordability/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2023 10:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23184</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We have received a lot of cultural programming that says talking about money is rude. But the more we can talk about it and get clear on it, the healthier the relationship we can have with it. So this week we’re talking about money. We have this magical thinking that rich people never have to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We have received a lot of cultural programming that says talking about money is rude. But the more we can talk about it and get clear on it, the healthier the relationship we can have with it. So this week we’re talking about money. We have this magical ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We have received a lot of cultural programming that says talking about money is rude. But the more we can talk about it and get clear on it, the healthier the relationship we can have with it. So this week we’re talking about money. We have this magical thinking that rich people never have to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23184/affordability.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We have received a lot of cultural programming that says talking about money is rude. But the more we can talk about it and get clear on it, the healthier the relationship we can have with it. So this week we’re talking about money. We have this magical thinking that rich people never have to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-affordability-permission-spending-290-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-affordability-permission-spending-290-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Affordability</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We have received a lot of cultural programming that says talking about money is rude. But the more we can talk about it and get clear on it, the healthier the relationship we can have with it. So this week we’re talking about money. We have this magical thinking that rich people never have to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-affordability-permission-spending-290-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Hope</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/hope/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2023 10:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23176</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I have recently shared some episodes about the fact that I’ve been struggling, and that life is challenging. But the reason I can share when I’m struggling is that I have hope that these challenging times will pass. It is important to talk about struggles and challenges, but in those moments it’s equally important to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I have recently shared some episodes about the fact that I’ve been struggling, and that life is challenging. But the reason I can share when I’m struggling is that I have hope that these challenging times will pass. It is important to talk about struggle]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have recently shared some episodes about the fact that I’ve been struggling, and that life is challenging. But the reason I can share when I’m struggling is that I have hope that these challenging times will pass. It is important to talk about struggles and challenges, but in those moments it’s equally important to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23176/hope.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I have recently shared some episodes about the fact that I’ve been struggling, and that life is challenging. But the reason I can share when I’m struggling is that I have hope that these challenging times will pass. It is important to talk about struggles and challenges, but in those moments it’s equally important to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-hope-289-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-hope-289-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>Hope</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I have recently shared some episodes about the fact that I’ve been struggling, and that life is challenging. But the reason I can share when I’m struggling is that I have hope that these challenging times will pass. It is important to talk about struggles and challenges, but in those moments it’s equally important to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-hope-289-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Life is challenging</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/life-is-challenging/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2023 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23155</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Life is challenging. It may not be all aspects or all the time, but there are definitely challenges, and we all face them. When life is challenging, it can be easy to slip into thinking that they are only happening to you and that you are alone in dealing with them. But thinking in this [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Life is challenging. It may not be all aspects or all the time, but there are definitely challenges, and we all face them. When life is challenging, it can be easy to slip into thinking that they are only happening to you and that you are alone in dealin]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Life is challenging. It may not be all aspects or all the time, but there are definitely challenges, and we all face them. When life is challenging, it can be easy to slip into thinking that they are only happening to you and that you are alone in dealing with them. But thinking in this [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23155/life-is-challenging.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is challenging. It may not be all aspects or all the time, but there are definitely challenges, and we all face them. When life is challenging, it can be easy to slip into thinking that they are only happening to you and that you are alone in dealing with them. But thinking in this [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-life-challenging-288-sq1080.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-life-challenging-288-sq1080.jpg</url>
		<title>Life is challenging</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Life is challenging. It may not be all aspects or all the time, but there are definitely challenges, and we all face them. When life is challenging, it can be easy to slip into thinking that they are only happening to you and that you are alone in dealing with them. But thinking in this [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-life-challenging-288-sq1080.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>I’m struggling</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/im-struggling/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2023 10:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23149</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>I’m struggling</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Often, when we read books, hear interviews, and see what’s projected on social media, we compare our insides to other people’s outsides. We look at other people who seem to have everything figured out, and we think we’re the only ones facing a struggle. When we are in our own struggle, we forget that everybody [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/koren-motekaitis-im-struggling-287-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>You aren’t being mean by having boundaries</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/mean-boundaries/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2023 10:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23140</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As part of my work, I get to really dig deep into the nitty-gritty of human behavior, and one area that is a constant obstacle in my clients’ lives is boundaries. Boundaries allow us to coexist and connect with each other versus dominate, power over, and take each other down. And when you understand the [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As part of my work, I get to really dig deep into the nitty-gritty of human behavior, and one area that is a constant obstacle in my clients’ lives is boundaries. Boundaries allow us to coexist and connect with each other versus dominate, power over, and]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As part of my work, I get to really dig deep into the nitty-gritty of human behavior, and one area that is a constant obstacle in my clients’ lives is boundaries. Boundaries allow us to coexist and connect with each other versus dominate, power over, and take each other down. And when you understand the [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As part of my work, I get to really dig deep into the nitty-gritty of human behavior, and one area that is a constant obstacle in my clients’ lives is boundaries. Boundaries allow us to coexist and connect with each other versus dominate, power over, and take each other down. And when you understand the [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/koren-motekaitis-being-mean-boundaries-286-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>You aren’t being mean by having boundaries</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As part of my work, I get to really dig deep into the nitty-gritty of human behavior, and one area that is a constant obstacle in my clients’ lives is boundaries. Boundaries allow us to coexist and connect with each other versus dominate, power over, and take each other down. And when you understand the [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/koren-motekaitis-being-mean-boundaries-286-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The myth of confidence</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/myth-of-confidence/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2023 10:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23136</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Culturally, we are programmed to believe that once you achieve something, you’ll feel confident. Whether it’s a bestselling book, the job of your dreams, or becoming a star-studded athlete, we believe that when we get there, we’ll be confident. But even when you hit these high achievements, they aren’t without vulnerability and pain. We think [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Culturally, we are programmed to believe that once you achieve something, you’ll feel confident. Whether it’s a bestselling book, the job of your dreams, or becoming a star-studded athlete, we believe that when we get there, we’ll be confident. But even ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Culturally, we are programmed to believe that once you achieve something, you’ll feel confident. Whether it’s a bestselling book, the job of your dreams, or becoming a star-studded athlete, we believe that when we get there, we’ll be confident. But even when you hit these high achievements, they aren’t without vulnerability and pain. We think [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23136/myth-of-confidence.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Culturally, we are programmed to believe that once you achieve something, you’ll feel confident. Whether it’s a bestselling book, the job of your dreams, or becoming a star-studded athlete, we believe that when we get there, we’ll be confident. But even when you hit these high achievements, they aren’t without vulnerability and pain. We think [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/koren-motekaitis-myth-confidence-285-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>The myth of confidence</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Culturally, we are programmed to believe that once you achieve something, you’ll feel confident. Whether it’s a bestselling book, the job of your dreams, or becoming a star-studded athlete, we believe that when we get there, we’ll be confident. But even when you hit these high achievements, they aren’t without vulnerability and pain. We think [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/koren-motekaitis-myth-confidence-285-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Sharing with others</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/sharing-with-others/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2023 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23128</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We are hardwired for connection. Whether it’s with family, an intimate partnership, friendships, or colleagues at work, we want to connect. Yet most of us aren’t great at connecting. We don’t know how to do it, and we’ve been trying to figure it out, yet still not quite understanding. When it comes to sharing our [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are hardwired for connection. Whether it’s with family, an intimate partnership, friendships, or colleagues at work, we want to connect. Yet most of us aren’t great at connecting. We don’t know how to do it, and we’ve been trying to figure it out, yet]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are hardwired for connection. Whether it’s with family, an intimate partnership, friendships, or colleagues at work, we want to connect. Yet most of us aren’t great at connecting. We don’t know how to do it, and we’ve been trying to figure it out, yet still not quite understanding. When it comes to sharing our [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23128/sharing-with-others.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are hardwired for connection. Whether it’s with family, an intimate partnership, friendships, or colleagues at work, we want to connect. Yet most of us aren’t great at connecting. We don’t know how to do it, and we’ve been trying to figure it out, yet still not quite understanding. When it comes to sharing our [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/koren-motekaitis-sharing-with-others-284-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Sharing with others</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We are hardwired for connection. Whether it’s with family, an intimate partnership, friendships, or colleagues at work, we want to connect. Yet most of us aren’t great at connecting. We don’t know how to do it, and we’ve been trying to figure it out, yet still not quite understanding. When it comes to sharing our [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/koren-motekaitis-sharing-with-others-284-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>We aren’t supposed to go it alone</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/go-alone/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2023 10:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23125</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As humans, we are not supposed to go it alone. Many of us do, but we are social beings and wired for connection. We need teams. And most of us have them, even if we don’t see them. When we think of celebrities like Oprah Winfrey, we think of her as one influential person. But [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As humans, we are not supposed to go it alone. Many of us do, but we are social beings and wired for connection. We need teams. And most of us have them, even if we don’t see them. When we think of celebrities like Oprah Winfrey, we think of her as one i]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As humans, we are not supposed to go it alone. Many of us do, but we are social beings and wired for connection. We need teams. And most of us have them, even if we don’t see them. When we think of celebrities like Oprah Winfrey, we think of her as one influential person. But [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23125/go-alone.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As humans, we are not supposed to go it alone. Many of us do, but we are social beings and wired for connection. We need teams. And most of us have them, even if we don’t see them. When we think of celebrities like Oprah Winfrey, we think of her as one influential person. But [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/koren-motekaitis-supposed-go-alone-283-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>We aren’t supposed to go it alone</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As humans, we are not supposed to go it alone. Many of us do, but we are social beings and wired for connection. We need teams. And most of us have them, even if we don’t see them. When we think of celebrities like Oprah Winfrey, we think of her as one influential person. But [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/koren-motekaitis-supposed-go-alone-283-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The cost of verbal vomiting</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/cost-verbal-vomiting/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2022 10:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23122</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Life is challenging; it’s hard. We’re all going through this life that has beautiful things and challenges that can both lead to lots of thoughts and emotions. Do you have a container where you can let it all out? When I was younger, I was shy and believed there was something wrong with me. So [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Life is challenging; it’s hard. We’re all going through this life that has beautiful things and challenges that can both lead to lots of thoughts and emotions. Do you have a container where you can let it all out? When I was younger, I was shy and believ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Life is challenging; it’s hard. We’re all going through this life that has beautiful things and challenges that can both lead to lots of thoughts and emotions. Do you have a container where you can let it all out? When I was younger, I was shy and believed there was something wrong with me. So [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23122/cost-verbal-vomiting.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is challenging; it’s hard. We’re all going through this life that has beautiful things and challenges that can both lead to lots of thoughts and emotions. Do you have a container where you can let it all out? When I was younger, I was shy and believed there was something wrong with me. So [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/koren-motekaitis-cost-verbal-vomitting-282-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/koren-motekaitis-cost-verbal-vomitting-282-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>The cost of verbal vomiting</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Life is challenging; it’s hard. We’re all going through this life that has beautiful things and challenges that can both lead to lots of thoughts and emotions. Do you have a container where you can let it all out? When I was younger, I was shy and believed there was something wrong with me. So [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/koren-motekaitis-cost-verbal-vomitting-282-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Vulnerability of White Space</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/vulnerability-white-space/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Dec 2022 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23117</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you feel like you are constantly busy in your life? How often do you have downtime and lean into the ebbs and flows of being busy and resting? We all need downtime, and having white space in our lives is so important. There is tremendous vulnerability in white space, and we may find this [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you feel like you are constantly busy in your life? How often do you have downtime and lean into the ebbs and flows of being busy and resting? We all need downtime, and having white space in our lives is so important. There is tremendous vulnerability]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you feel like you are constantly busy in your life? How often do you have downtime and lean into the ebbs and flows of being busy and resting? We all need downtime, and having white space in our lives is so important. There is tremendous vulnerability in white space, and we may find this [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23117/vulnerability-white-space.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you feel like you are constantly busy in your life? How often do you have downtime and lean into the ebbs and flows of being busy and resting? We all need downtime, and having white space in our lives is so important. There is tremendous vulnerability in white space, and we may find this [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/koren-motekaitis-vulnerability-white-space-281-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/koren-motekaitis-vulnerability-white-space-281-fullsize.jpg</url>
		<title>The Vulnerability of White Space</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you feel like you are constantly busy in your life? How often do you have downtime and lean into the ebbs and flows of being busy and resting? We all need downtime, and having white space in our lives is so important. There is tremendous vulnerability in white space, and we may find this [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/koren-motekaitis-vulnerability-white-space-281-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Holiday obligations and expectations</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/holiday-obligations-expectations/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2022 10:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23104</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Throughout my years of coaching, the holidays have always been a topic that is brought to sessions. My clients are always dealing with things they don’t want to be dealing with around this time of year. Maybe it’s the endless purchasing and giving of gifts. Maybe it’s the agony of having to go back to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Throughout my years of coaching, the holidays have always been a topic that is brought to sessions. My clients are always dealing with things they don’t want to be dealing with around this time of year. Maybe it’s the endless purchasing and giving of gif]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Throughout my years of coaching, the holidays have always been a topic that is brought to sessions. My clients are always dealing with things they don’t want to be dealing with around this time of year. Maybe it’s the endless purchasing and giving of gifts. Maybe it’s the agony of having to go back to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23104/holiday-obligations-expectations.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Throughout my years of coaching, the holidays have always been a topic that is brought to sessions. My clients are always dealing with things they don’t want to be dealing with around this time of year. Maybe it’s the endless purchasing and giving of gifts. Maybe it’s the agony of having to go back to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/koren-motekaitis-holiday-obligations-expectations-280-fullsize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Holiday obligations and expectations</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Throughout my years of coaching, the holidays have always been a topic that is brought to sessions. My clients are always dealing with things they don’t want to be dealing with around this time of year. Maybe it’s the endless purchasing and giving of gifts. Maybe it’s the agony of having to go back to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/koren-motekaitis-holiday-obligations-expectations-280-fullsize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Unnecessary suffering</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/unnecessary-suffering/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2022 10:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23097</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Are you experiencing unnecessary suffering in your life? Would you even recognize what unnecessary suffering looked like? We can do hard things, and we do them daily. Whether it’s supporting family members through health crises, ensuring financial wellbeing for ourselves and our loved ones, raising children, or tackling whatever obstacles we experience, we are all [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Are you experiencing unnecessary suffering in your life? Would you even recognize what unnecessary suffering looked like? We can do hard things, and we do them daily. Whether it’s supporting family members through health crises, ensuring financial wellbe]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you experiencing unnecessary suffering in your life? Would you even recognize what unnecessary suffering looked like? We can do hard things, and we do them daily. Whether it’s supporting family members through health crises, ensuring financial wellbeing for ourselves and our loved ones, raising children, or tackling whatever obstacles we experience, we are all [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23097/unnecessary-suffering.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you experiencing unnecessary suffering in your life? Would you even recognize what unnecessary suffering looked like? We can do hard things, and we do them daily. Whether it’s supporting family members through health crises, ensuring financial wellbeing for ourselves and our loved ones, raising children, or tackling whatever obstacles we experience, we are all [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/HSRDI279Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Unnecessary suffering</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
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<item>
	<title>It&#8217;s time to stop hustling with Jadah Sellner</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/stop-hustling-jadah-sellner/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2022 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[Hustle culture isn’t working for anyone, and the great news is you can opt out of it and instead, create a life that is fulfilling while also doing meaningful work. This is exactly what this week’s guest did and what inspired her to write her new book She Builds: The Anti-Hustle Guide to Grow Your Business [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Hustle culture isn’t working for anyone, and the great news is you can opt out of it and instead, create a life that is fulfilling while also doing meaningful work. This is exactly what this week’s guest did and what inspired her to write her new book Sh]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hustle culture isn’t working for anyone, and the great news is you can opt out of it and instead, create a life that is fulfilling while also doing meaningful work. This is exactly what this week’s guest did and what inspired her to write her new book She Builds: The Anti-Hustle Guide to Grow Your Business [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Hustle culture isn’t working for anyone, and the great news is you can opt out of it and instead, create a life that is fulfilling while also doing meaningful work. This is exactly what this week’s guest did and what inspired her to write her new book She Builds: The Anti-Hustle Guide to Grow Your Business [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/HSRDI278Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Your past doesn’t have to create your future</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/past-doesnt-create-future/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Nov 2022 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23076</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How often do you tell yourself you can’t have something in your future because you have never had it before in your life? Whatever you want in life, whether it is to manage your money more effectively or have a better relationship with loved ones, we are always becoming more of who we are. We [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How often do you tell yourself you can’t have something in your future because you have never had it before in your life? Whatever you want in life, whether it is to manage your money more effectively or have a better relationship with loved ones, we are]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How often do you tell yourself you can’t have something in your future because you have never had it before in your life? Whatever you want in life, whether it is to manage your money more effectively or have a better relationship with loved ones, we are always becoming more of who we are. We [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How often do you tell yourself you can’t have something in your future because you have never had it before in your life? Whatever you want in life, whether it is to manage your money more effectively or have a better relationship with loved ones, we are always becoming more of who we are. We [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI277Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Your past doesn’t have to create your future</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How often do you tell yourself you can’t have something in your future because you have never had it before in your life? Whatever you want in life, whether it is to manage your money more effectively or have a better relationship with loved ones, we are always becoming more of who we are. We [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI277Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>When you are great, and others are NOT&#8230;</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/when-you-great-others-not/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2022 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23072</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Last week we spoke about the fact that many of us are not okay. And if we are not okay, we must own it and love ourselves anyway. But what about when you are okay, but someone around you is not? How do you show up? Life is constantly moving, changing, and evolving. While you or someone [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Last week we spoke about the fact that many of us are not okay. And if we are not okay, we must own it and love ourselves anyway. But what about when you are okay, but someone around you is not? How do you show up? Life is constantly moving, changing, an]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Last week we spoke about the fact that many of us are not okay. And if we are not okay, we must own it and love ourselves anyway. But what about when you are okay, but someone around you is not? How do you show up? Life is constantly moving, changing, and evolving. While you or someone [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Last week we spoke about the fact that many of us are not okay. And if we are not okay, we must own it and love ourselves anyway. But what about when you are okay, but someone around you is not? How do you show up? Life is constantly moving, changing, and evolving. While you or someone [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI276Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>When you are great, and others are NOT&#8230;</title>
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	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Last week we spoke about the fact that many of us are not okay. And if we are not okay, we must own it and love ourselves anyway. But what about when you are okay, but someone around you is not? How do you show up? Life is constantly moving, changing, and evolving. While you or someone [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI276Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>We are not okay…</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/we-are-not-okay/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2022 10:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23069</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlight reels and assume what’s going on, but [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlig]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlight reels and assume what’s going on, but [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As a life and leadership coach, I get the privilege and honor of hearing about what really goes on in people’s lives behind the smile. I get to see behind the I’m fine, behind the facades of success. It is so easy for us to look at other people’s highlight reels and assume what’s going on, but [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI275Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>We are not okay…</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI275Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The other ending (we don’t think about)</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/other-ending-we-dont-think-about/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2022 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23057</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[So often, we spend our time pursuing our goals and dreams, and we think we know what’s best for us. We believe that what we strive for is the best option because it is what we so desperately want. But sometimes things can happen that prevent us from getting what we want, and it leads [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[So often, we spend our time pursuing our goals and dreams, and we think we know what’s best for us. We believe that what we strive for is the best option because it is what we so desperately want. But sometimes things can happen that prevent us from gett]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[So often, we spend our time pursuing our goals and dreams, and we think we know what’s best for us. We believe that what we strive for is the best option because it is what we so desperately want. But sometimes things can happen that prevent us from getting what we want, and it leads [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23057/other-ending-we-dont-think-about.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[So often, we spend our time pursuing our goals and dreams, and we think we know what’s best for us. We believe that what we strive for is the best option because it is what we so desperately want. But sometimes things can happen that prevent us from getting what we want, and it leads [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI274Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The other ending (we don’t think about)</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[So often, we spend our time pursuing our goals and dreams, and we think we know what’s best for us. We believe that what we strive for is the best option because it is what we so desperately want. But sometimes things can happen that prevent us from getting what we want, and it leads [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/11/HSRDI274Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Integration</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/integration/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2022 10:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23049</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Something I’ve learned to own about myself over the last 16 years is that I am really good at helping people integrate. If you’ve listened to the show, done the mindset work, and found it isn’t working, you’re likely wondering what you’re missing. But it’s not that you’re doing it wrong, there needs to just [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Something I’ve learned to own about myself over the last 16 years is that I am really good at helping people integrate. If you’ve listened to the show, done the mindset work, and found it isn’t working, you’re likely wondering what you’re missing. But it]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Something I’ve learned to own about myself over the last 16 years is that I am really good at helping people integrate. If you’ve listened to the show, done the mindset work, and found it isn’t working, you’re likely wondering what you’re missing. But it’s not that you’re doing it wrong, there needs to just [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/23049/integration.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Something I’ve learned to own about myself over the last 16 years is that I am really good at helping people integrate. If you’ve listened to the show, done the mindset work, and found it isn’t working, you’re likely wondering what you’re missing. But it’s not that you’re doing it wrong, there needs to just [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/HSRDI273Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Something I’ve learned to own about myself over the last 16 years is that I am really good at helping people integrate. If you’ve listened to the show, done the mindset work, and found it isn’t working, you’re likely wondering what you’re missing. But it’s not that you’re doing it wrong, there needs to just [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/HSRDI273Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Magical endings</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/magical-endings/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2022 10:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=23047</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Doing meaningful work is something that is really important to me. We all have the opportunity to do meaningful work, but often when we search for meaning and purpose, we can create magical thinking and dream of magical, happy endings. Magical thinking appears in many of the good intentions we have, but it doesn’t always [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Doing meaningful work is something that is really important to me. We all have the opportunity to do meaningful work, but often when we search for meaning and purpose, we can create magical thinking and dream of magical, happy endings. Magical thinking a]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Doing meaningful work is something that is really important to me. We all have the opportunity to do meaningful work, but often when we search for meaning and purpose, we can create magical thinking and dream of magical, happy endings. Magical thinking appears in many of the good intentions we have, but it doesn’t always [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Doing meaningful work is something that is really important to me. We all have the opportunity to do meaningful work, but often when we search for meaning and purpose, we can create magical thinking and dream of magical, happy endings. Magical thinking appears in many of the good intentions we have, but it doesn’t always [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/HSRDI272Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Magical endings</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Doing meaningful work is something that is really important to me. We all have the opportunity to do meaningful work, but often when we search for meaning and purpose, we can create magical thinking and dream of magical, happy endings. Magical thinking appears in many of the good intentions we have, but it doesn’t always [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/HSRDI272Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What do you need to overcome your anxiety?</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/overcome-your-anxiety/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2022 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22987</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Travel is a great teacher for me. It gets me out of my comfort zone and teaches me a lot about myself. But sometimes, it can bring me anxiety. I recently went on a solo trip to Italy, something I had been so looking forward to. Right before the trip, I woke up in a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Travel is a great teacher for me. It gets me out of my comfort zone and teaches me a lot about myself. But sometimes, it can bring me anxiety. I recently went on a solo trip to Italy, something I had been so looking forward to. Right before the trip, I w]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Travel is a great teacher for me. It gets me out of my comfort zone and teaches me a lot about myself. But sometimes, it can bring me anxiety. I recently went on a solo trip to Italy, something I had been so looking forward to. Right before the trip, I woke up in a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22987/overcome-your-anxiety.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Travel is a great teacher for me. It gets me out of my comfort zone and teaches me a lot about myself. But sometimes, it can bring me anxiety. I recently went on a solo trip to Italy, something I had been so looking forward to. Right before the trip, I woke up in a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/HSRDI271Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>What do you need to overcome your anxiety?</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Travel is a great teacher for me. It gets me out of my comfort zone and teaches me a lot about myself. But sometimes, it can bring me anxiety. I recently went on a solo trip to Italy, something I had been so looking forward to. Right before the trip, I woke up in a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/HSRDI271Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Key Learnings from 16 years of HSRDI</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/key-learnings-16-years-hsrdi/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2022 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22971</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We are sweet 16! How She Really Does It is celebrating its 16th birthday, and to celebrate, I am joined this week by the incredible woman behind the podcast. This is the woman I’ve talked about over the years, and I have often shared how she is the voice and person behind the story of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are sweet 16! How She Really Does It is celebrating its 16th birthday, and to celebrate, I am joined this week by the incredible woman behind the podcast. This is the woman I’ve talked about over the years, and I have often shared how she is the voice]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are sweet 16! How She Really Does It is celebrating its 16th birthday, and to celebrate, I am joined this week by the incredible woman behind the podcast. This is the woman I’ve talked about over the years, and I have often shared how she is the voice and person behind the story of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are sweet 16! How She Really Does It is celebrating its 16th birthday, and to celebrate, I am joined this week by the incredible woman behind the podcast. This is the woman I’ve talked about over the years, and I have often shared how she is the voice and person behind the story of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/HSRDI270Full-Sizev2.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Key Learnings from 16 years of HSRDI</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
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	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
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<item>
	<title>Wasting time (on vacation)</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/wasting-time-on-vacation/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2022 10:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[As you know, I recently went on vacation where I spent two and a half weeks with my family on an action-oriented trip with lots going on, followed by some downtime with my husband in Mexico. I couldn’t wait to get to Mexico to rest and restore, and the whole week was designed for me [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As you know, I recently went on vacation where I spent two and a half weeks with my family on an action-oriented trip with lots going on, followed by some downtime with my husband in Mexico. I couldn’t wait to get to Mexico to rest and restore, and the w]]></itunes:subtitle>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/HSRDI269Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What do I need?</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-do-i-need/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Sep 2022 10:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[While I was on vacation, we went biking as a family. My kids have biked their whole lives, we feel really comfortable, and I am proud that my family has such a great skillset when it comes to this. I have two collegiate athlete daughters, aged 20 and 22. They are young, fit, strong, and [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[While I was on vacation, we went biking as a family. My kids have biked their whole lives, we feel really comfortable, and I am proud that my family has such a great skillset when it comes to this. I have two collegiate athlete daughters, aged 20 and 22.]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[While I was on vacation, we went biking as a family. My kids have biked their whole lives, we feel really comfortable, and I am proud that my family has such a great skillset when it comes to this. I have two collegiate athlete daughters, aged 20 and 22. They are young, fit, strong, and [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The highlight reel</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/highlight-reel/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2022 10:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22961</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We learn so much from other people’s stories. These are the windows of possibility that enable us to envision what we could have in our own lives. And there are also the highlight reels.  Since I got back from my time off, everyone has been asking how my vacation was. I could say that it [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We learn so much from other people’s stories. These are the windows of possibility that enable us to envision what we could have in our own lives. And there are also the highlight reels.  Since I got back from my time off, everyone has been asking how my]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We learn so much from other people’s stories. These are the windows of possibility that enable us to envision what we could have in our own lives. And there are also the highlight reels.  Since I got back from my time off, everyone has been asking how my vacation was. I could say that it [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We learn so much from other people’s stories. These are the windows of possibility that enable us to envision what we could have in our own lives. And there are also the highlight reels.  Since I got back from my time off, everyone has been asking how my vacation was. I could say that it [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/HSRDI267Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We learn so much from other people’s stories. These are the windows of possibility that enable us to envision what we could have in our own lives. And there are also the highlight reels.  Since I got back from my time off, everyone has been asking how my vacation was. I could say that it [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/HSRDI267Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Suitcase + Boundaries + Tension</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/suitcase-boundaries-tension/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Sep 2022 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22952</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Life is a classroom, and there are always opportunities to continue learning. For me, August led to a lot of learning and insights as well as my re-entry back to work after some time off. So over the next few episodes, I’ll be unpacking everything I learned in August. When we are struggling with something, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Life is a classroom, and there are always opportunities to continue learning. For me, August led to a lot of learning and insights as well as my re-entry back to work after some time off. So over the next few episodes, I’ll be unpacking everything I lear]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Life is a classroom, and there are always opportunities to continue learning. For me, August led to a lot of learning and insights as well as my re-entry back to work after some time off. So over the next few episodes, I’ll be unpacking everything I learned in August. When we are struggling with something, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is a classroom, and there are always opportunities to continue learning. For me, August led to a lot of learning and insights as well as my re-entry back to work after some time off. So over the next few episodes, I’ll be unpacking everything I learned in August. When we are struggling with something, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/HSRDI266Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/HSRDI266Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Flowing with life vs. struggling to survive</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/flowing-life-struggling-survive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2022 10:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22914</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[A lot of us are good at struggling. We know how to do it, we work really hard with grit and resilience, and it is familiar to us. One of the things that can happen to us as humans is our strengths can become our weaknesses. We know how to work hard and struggle, but [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[A lot of us are good at struggling. We know how to do it, we work really hard with grit and resilience, and it is familiar to us. One of the things that can happen to us as humans is our strengths can become our weaknesses. We know how to work hard and s]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[A lot of us are good at struggling. We know how to do it, we work really hard with grit and resilience, and it is familiar to us. One of the things that can happen to us as humans is our strengths can become our weaknesses. We know how to work hard and struggle, but [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[A lot of us are good at struggling. We know how to do it, we work really hard with grit and resilience, and it is familiar to us. One of the things that can happen to us as humans is our strengths can become our weaknesses. We know how to work hard and struggle, but [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[A lot of us are good at struggling. We know how to do it, we work really hard with grit and resilience, and it is familiar to us. One of the things that can happen to us as humans is our strengths can become our weaknesses. We know how to work hard and struggle, but [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/HSRDI265Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Create a relationship with yourself</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/create-relationship-yourself/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Aug 2022 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22912</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you know that you are someone who you can trust to get things done for you? You’ve often heard me say that your relationship with yourself is the most important relationship in your life. It’s the foundation for everything else. We have been culturally programmed to believe we must put ourselves last. We take [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you know that you are someone who you can trust to get things done for you? You’ve often heard me say that your relationship with yourself is the most important relationship in your life. It’s the foundation for everything else. We have been culturall]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you know that you are someone who you can trust to get things done for you? You’ve often heard me say that your relationship with yourself is the most important relationship in your life. It’s the foundation for everything else. We have been culturally programmed to believe we must put ourselves last. We take [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you know that you are someone who you can trust to get things done for you? You’ve often heard me say that your relationship with yourself is the most important relationship in your life. It’s the foundation for everything else. We have been culturally programmed to believe we must put ourselves last. We take [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/HSRDI264Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Create a relationship with yourself</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you know that you are someone who you can trust to get things done for you? You’ve often heard me say that your relationship with yourself is the most important relationship in your life. It’s the foundation for everything else. We have been culturally programmed to believe we must put ourselves last. We take [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/HSRDI264Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Summer of 11</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/summer-of-11/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2022 10:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22906</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you remember those carefree days of being 11? There was so much time to squander, nothing to do, and no stress; the days were magical and amazing. As we grow, we find ourselves with more to do, more responsibility, and less of the freedom we had in the summer of 11. We long for [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you remember those carefree days of being 11? There was so much time to squander, nothing to do, and no stress; the days were magical and amazing. As we grow, we find ourselves with more to do, more responsibility, and less of the freedom we had in th]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you remember those carefree days of being 11? There was so much time to squander, nothing to do, and no stress; the days were magical and amazing. As we grow, we find ourselves with more to do, more responsibility, and less of the freedom we had in the summer of 11. We long for [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22906/summer-of-11.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you remember those carefree days of being 11? There was so much time to squander, nothing to do, and no stress; the days were magical and amazing. As we grow, we find ourselves with more to do, more responsibility, and less of the freedom we had in the summer of 11. We long for [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/HSRDI263Full-Size2.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The Summer of 11</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you remember those carefree days of being 11? There was so much time to squander, nothing to do, and no stress; the days were magical and amazing. As we grow, we find ourselves with more to do, more responsibility, and less of the freedom we had in the summer of 11. We long for [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/HSRDI263Full-Size2.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What’s your responsibility?</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/whats-your-responsibility/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2022 10:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22898</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you have the weight of the world on your shoulders? Do you take on more than your share of responsibility?  My clients are people who deeply care and take on a huge amount of responsibility, but predominantly doing what serves other people and not what you need or desire can have great impacts further [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you have the weight of the world on your shoulders? Do you take on more than your share of responsibility?  My clients are people who deeply care and take on a huge amount of responsibility, but predominantly doing what serves other people and not wha]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you have the weight of the world on your shoulders? Do you take on more than your share of responsibility?  My clients are people who deeply care and take on a huge amount of responsibility, but predominantly doing what serves other people and not what you need or desire can have great impacts further [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22898/whats-your-responsibility.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you have the weight of the world on your shoulders? Do you take on more than your share of responsibility?  My clients are people who deeply care and take on a huge amount of responsibility, but predominantly doing what serves other people and not what you need or desire can have great impacts further [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/HSRDI262Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>What’s your responsibility?</title>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you have the weight of the world on your shoulders? Do you take on more than your share of responsibility?  My clients are people who deeply care and take on a huge amount of responsibility, but predominantly doing what serves other people and not what you need or desire can have great impacts further [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/HSRDI262Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What’s wrong with me?</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/whats-wrong-with-me/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Aug 2022 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22897</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[It is so important that we love all parts of ourselves: our strengths and our weaknesses, our beauty and imperfections, our blind spots and undesirable qualities. Brené Brown further supports this when she states that we must own our stories and love ourselves. Yet, despite all this, a question I get asked a lot as [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[It is so important that we love all parts of ourselves: our strengths and our weaknesses, our beauty and imperfections, our blind spots and undesirable qualities. Brené Brown further supports this when she states that we must own our stories and love our]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[It is so important that we love all parts of ourselves: our strengths and our weaknesses, our beauty and imperfections, our blind spots and undesirable qualities. Brené Brown further supports this when she states that we must own our stories and love ourselves. Yet, despite all this, a question I get asked a lot as [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22897/whats-wrong-with-me.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[It is so important that we love all parts of ourselves: our strengths and our weaknesses, our beauty and imperfections, our blind spots and undesirable qualities. Brené Brown further supports this when she states that we must own our stories and love ourselves. Yet, despite all this, a question I get asked a lot as [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/HSRDI261Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>What’s wrong with me?</title>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[It is so important that we love all parts of ourselves: our strengths and our weaknesses, our beauty and imperfections, our blind spots and undesirable qualities. Brené Brown further supports this when she states that we must own our stories and love ourselves. Yet, despite all this, a question I get asked a lot as [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/HSRDI261Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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	<title>You can do hard things…does it mean you have to?</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/can-do-hard-things/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2022 10:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[About 10 to 12 years ago, I saw a sign that I loved and I bought it. It is still in my kitchen because it contained such an important quote for me to remember. It was a sign that says “We can do hard things.” I have always done hard things. But over the years, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[About 10 to 12 years ago, I saw a sign that I loved and I bought it. It is still in my kitchen because it contained such an important quote for me to remember. It was a sign that says “We can do hard things.” I have always done hard things. But over the ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[About 10 to 12 years ago, I saw a sign that I loved and I bought it. It is still in my kitchen because it contained such an important quote for me to remember. It was a sign that says “We can do hard things.” I have always done hard things. But over the years, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[About 10 to 12 years ago, I saw a sign that I loved and I bought it. It is still in my kitchen because it contained such an important quote for me to remember. It was a sign that says “We can do hard things.” I have always done hard things. But over the years, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[About 10 to 12 years ago, I saw a sign that I loved and I bought it. It is still in my kitchen because it contained such an important quote for me to remember. It was a sign that says “We can do hard things.” I have always done hard things. But over the years, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI260Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The chosen one</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-chosen-one/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2022 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22891</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Before I started this show back in the early 2000s, I naively thought that successful people were the chosen ones. I thought that we all had something we needed to learn to discover their secrets so we could have the life they have. But since then, I’ve come to learn that this isn’t the case. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Before I started this show back in the early 2000s, I naively thought that successful people were the chosen ones. I thought that we all had something we needed to learn to discover their secrets so we could have the life they have. But since then, I’ve ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Before I started this show back in the early 2000s, I naively thought that successful people were the chosen ones. I thought that we all had something we needed to learn to discover their secrets so we could have the life they have. But since then, I’ve come to learn that this isn’t the case. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Before I started this show back in the early 2000s, I naively thought that successful people were the chosen ones. I thought that we all had something we needed to learn to discover their secrets so we could have the life they have. But since then, I’ve come to learn that this isn’t the case. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI259Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The chosen one</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Before I started this show back in the early 2000s, I naively thought that successful people were the chosen ones. I thought that we all had something we needed to learn to discover their secrets so we could have the life they have. But since then, I’ve come to learn that this isn’t the case. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI259Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Allowing money to support you</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/allowing-money-support-you/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jul 2022 10:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22886</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Life is relentless. We need to make sure we fill ourselves up with things that delight us, and a way to do this is to save our money to buy things that light us up. Budgeting often feels restrictive, but it doesn’t have to feel this way. Having money set aside gives you the freedom [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Life is relentless. We need to make sure we fill ourselves up with things that delight us, and a way to do this is to save our money to buy things that light us up. Budgeting often feels restrictive, but it doesn’t have to feel this way. Having money set]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Life is relentless. We need to make sure we fill ourselves up with things that delight us, and a way to do this is to save our money to buy things that light us up. Budgeting often feels restrictive, but it doesn’t have to feel this way. Having money set aside gives you the freedom [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22886/allowing-money-support-you.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is relentless. We need to make sure we fill ourselves up with things that delight us, and a way to do this is to save our money to buy things that light us up. Budgeting often feels restrictive, but it doesn’t have to feel this way. Having money set aside gives you the freedom [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI258Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Allowing money to support you</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Life is relentless. We need to make sure we fill ourselves up with things that delight us, and a way to do this is to save our money to buy things that light us up. Budgeting often feels restrictive, but it doesn’t have to feel this way. Having money set aside gives you the freedom [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI258Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Space to achieve</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/space-to-achieve/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jul 2022 10:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22864</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow uncertainty. But sometimes uncertainty is where [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow uncertainty. But sometimes uncertainty is where [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22864/space-to-achieve.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow uncertainty. But sometimes uncertainty is where [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI257Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Space to achieve</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I spend a lot of time with people. I have the tremendous privilege of learning a great deal from researchers, but also from the people in my life – both adults and children. So often we’re trying to be productive, or be a good parent, and we don’t allow uncertainty. But sometimes uncertainty is where [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI257Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What if it could be easy?</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-if-it-could-be-easy/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2022 10:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22861</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you find yourself working really hard? Do you believe your effort is only valuable if it’s hard? The world we’re living in has lots of obstacles, and life is hard. It can be relentless, and for those of us who are or have been perfectionists, it can feel even harder. The truth is, life [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you find yourself working really hard? Do you believe your effort is only valuable if it’s hard? The world we’re living in has lots of obstacles, and life is hard. It can be relentless, and for those of us who are or have been perfectionists, it can f]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you find yourself working really hard? Do you believe your effort is only valuable if it’s hard? The world we’re living in has lots of obstacles, and life is hard. It can be relentless, and for those of us who are or have been perfectionists, it can feel even harder. The truth is, life [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22861/what-if-it-could-be-easy.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you find yourself working really hard? Do you believe your effort is only valuable if it’s hard? The world we’re living in has lots of obstacles, and life is hard. It can be relentless, and for those of us who are or have been perfectionists, it can feel even harder. The truth is, life [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI256Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>What if it could be easy?</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you find yourself working really hard? Do you believe your effort is only valuable if it’s hard? The world we’re living in has lots of obstacles, and life is hard. It can be relentless, and for those of us who are or have been perfectionists, it can feel even harder. The truth is, life [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HSRDI256Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Windows of possibility</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/windows-of-possibility/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2022 10:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22857</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How do you want to live your life? What do you want life to look like? How can you do it in your way? I believe there are many ways to live life. There are many journeys for all of us to take. And we can learn from other people to see what is possible [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How do you want to live your life? What do you want life to look like? How can you do it in your way? I believe there are many ways to live life. There are many journeys for all of us to take. And we can learn from other people to see what is possible ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How do you want to live your life? What do you want life to look like? How can you do it in your way? I believe there are many ways to live life. There are many journeys for all of us to take. And we can learn from other people to see what is possible [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22857/windows-of-possibility.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How do you want to live your life? What do you want life to look like? How can you do it in your way? I believe there are many ways to live life. There are many journeys for all of us to take. And we can learn from other people to see what is possible [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/HSRDI255Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Windows of possibility</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How do you want to live your life? What do you want life to look like? How can you do it in your way? I believe there are many ways to live life. There are many journeys for all of us to take. And we can learn from other people to see what is possible [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/HSRDI255Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Stop waiting for someday</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/stop-waiting-for-someday/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2022 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22852</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[What are you waiting for? So often, we know what we want, but we tell ourselves, “Someday, but not right now.” Whether it’s traveling, buying something you truly want, or even just switching off from the world and spending time with family or friends, what are you waiting for? I recorded this on the week [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[What are you waiting for? So often, we know what we want, but we tell ourselves, “Someday, but not right now.” Whether it’s traveling, buying something you truly want, or even just switching off from the world and spending time with family or friends, wh]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[What are you waiting for? So often, we know what we want, but we tell ourselves, “Someday, but not right now.” Whether it’s traveling, buying something you truly want, or even just switching off from the world and spending time with family or friends, what are you waiting for? I recorded this on the week [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22852/stop-waiting-for-someday.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[What are you waiting for? So often, we know what we want, but we tell ourselves, “Someday, but not right now.” Whether it’s traveling, buying something you truly want, or even just switching off from the world and spending time with family or friends, what are you waiting for? I recorded this on the week [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/HSRDI254Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Stop waiting for someday</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[What are you waiting for? So often, we know what we want, but we tell ourselves, “Someday, but not right now.” Whether it’s traveling, buying something you truly want, or even just switching off from the world and spending time with family or friends, what are you waiting for? I recorded this on the week [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/HSRDI254Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Disappointment keeps us small</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/disappointment-keeps-us-small/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jun 2022 10:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22840</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Everybody has different ingredients for what lights them up and feels good. We also have a lot of cultural programming about what’s allowed. 10 years ago I didn’t know how to ask for what I wanted for myself. I could do it for others, but not for myself, and it was due to my own [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Everybody has different ingredients for what lights them up and feels good. We also have a lot of cultural programming about what’s allowed. 10 years ago I didn’t know how to ask for what I wanted for myself. I could do it for others, but not for myself,]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Everybody has different ingredients for what lights them up and feels good. We also have a lot of cultural programming about what’s allowed. 10 years ago I didn’t know how to ask for what I wanted for myself. I could do it for others, but not for myself, and it was due to my own [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22840/disappointment-keeps-us-small.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Everybody has different ingredients for what lights them up and feels good. We also have a lot of cultural programming about what’s allowed. 10 years ago I didn’t know how to ask for what I wanted for myself. I could do it for others, but not for myself, and it was due to my own [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/HSRDI253Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Disappointment keeps us small</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Everybody has different ingredients for what lights them up and feels good. We also have a lot of cultural programming about what’s allowed. 10 years ago I didn’t know how to ask for what I wanted for myself. I could do it for others, but not for myself, and it was due to my own [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/HSRDI253Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Being a taker of our bodies</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/taker-of-our-bodies/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2022 10:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22828</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Summer is here for many of us, and I can already hear what’s in the back of so many women’s heads: What will I wear? There is a lot of cultural programming as well as systems in place that were created to make us think a specific way about ourselves and our bodies. We fall [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Summer is here for many of us, and I can already hear what’s in the back of so many women’s heads: What will I wear? There is a lot of cultural programming as well as systems in place that were created to make us think a specific way about ourselves and ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Summer is here for many of us, and I can already hear what’s in the back of so many women’s heads: What will I wear? There is a lot of cultural programming as well as systems in place that were created to make us think a specific way about ourselves and our bodies. We fall [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22828/taker-of-our-bodies.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Summer is here for many of us, and I can already hear what’s in the back of so many women’s heads: What will I wear? There is a lot of cultural programming as well as systems in place that were created to make us think a specific way about ourselves and our bodies. We fall [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/HSRDI252FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Being a taker of our bodies</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Summer is here for many of us, and I can already hear what’s in the back of so many women’s heads: What will I wear? There is a lot of cultural programming as well as systems in place that were created to make us think a specific way about ourselves and our bodies. We fall [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/HSRDI252FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Turning 50</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/turning-50/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 27 May 2022 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22812</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I am turning 50 next month, and I’m pretty excited about it. When I used to think about 50, it meant old. But what it really means now as I almost reach it is so different. As I enter my 50th year, there is one priority that I am focusing on: myself. When it comes [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I am turning 50 next month, and I’m pretty excited about it. When I used to think about 50, it meant old. But what it really means now as I almost reach it is so different. As I enter my 50th year, there is one priority that I am focusing on: myself. Whe]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I am turning 50 next month, and I’m pretty excited about it. When I used to think about 50, it meant old. But what it really means now as I almost reach it is so different. As I enter my 50th year, there is one priority that I am focusing on: myself. When it comes [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I am turning 50 next month, and I’m pretty excited about it. When I used to think about 50, it meant old. But what it really means now as I almost reach it is so different. As I enter my 50th year, there is one priority that I am focusing on: myself. When it comes [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Turning 50</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I am turning 50 next month, and I’m pretty excited about it. When I used to think about 50, it meant old. But what it really means now as I almost reach it is so different. As I enter my 50th year, there is one priority that I am focusing on: myself. When it comes [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/HSRDI251Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What to do when you feel overwhelmed</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/feel-overwhelmed/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 13 May 2022 10:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22801</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point of feeling unable to function. And often we don’t even [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point of feeling unable to function. And often we don’t even [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point of feeling unable to function. And often we don’t even [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>What to do when you feel overwhelmed</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel overwhelmed? When we feel overwhelmed, we end up doing too much, taking more on than we should, and hurting ourselves in the process. Overwhelm is when we feel an extreme level of stress and emotional or cognitive intensity to the point of feeling unable to function. And often we don’t even [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/HSRDI249Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Other people’s judgments</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/other-peoples-judgments/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2022 10:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22777</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and we think it is protecting us. We [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and we think it is protecting us. We [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22777/other-peoples-judgments.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and we think it is protecting us. We [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/HSRDI248Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Other people’s judgments</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you let other people’s judgments hold you back from doing what you want? Are you afraid to speak up because of what others will think? We spend so much time concerned about what other people think and we think it is protecting us. We [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/HSRDI248Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Creating change</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/creating-change/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2022 10:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22766</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When it’s far away, creating change can feel dreamy and magical. We think it will be beautiful, great, and an overall wonderful experience. But then we make the change in our lives and discover that things aren’t quite as we expected. Change is exhausting, and there is a lot of vulnerability that comes with it. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When it’s far away, creating change can feel dreamy and magical. We think it will be beautiful, great, and an overall wonderful experience. But then we make the change in our lives and discover that things aren’t quite as we expected. Change is exhaustin]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When it’s far away, creating change can feel dreamy and magical. We think it will be beautiful, great, and an overall wonderful experience. But then we make the change in our lives and discover that things aren’t quite as we expected. Change is exhausting, and there is a lot of vulnerability that comes with it. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22766/creating-change.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When it’s far away, creating change can feel dreamy and magical. We think it will be beautiful, great, and an overall wonderful experience. But then we make the change in our lives and discover that things aren’t quite as we expected. Change is exhausting, and there is a lot of vulnerability that comes with it. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI247Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Creating change</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When it’s far away, creating change can feel dreamy and magical. We think it will be beautiful, great, and an overall wonderful experience. But then we make the change in our lives and discover that things aren’t quite as we expected. Change is exhausting, and there is a lot of vulnerability that comes with it. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI247Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Boundaries to put into place</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/boundaries-to-put-into-place/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2022 10:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22758</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce them and keep them strong. There is a lot of resistance [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce t]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce them and keep them strong. There is a lot of resistance [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22758/boundaries-to-put-into-place.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce them and keep them strong. There is a lot of resistance [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI246Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Boundaries to put into place</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Prentis Hemphill says “Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” Boundaries are like fence posts, it’s your job to maintain them. People will push against them even though they shouldn’t, but it is up to you to enforce them and keep them strong. There is a lot of resistance [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI246Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Leader of Your Life podcast playlist</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/leader-of-your-life-playlist/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2022 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22731</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How She Really Does It has been in existence for over 15 and a half years, and we have over 800 shows. It’s so overwhelming to know what episodes to listen to when you need them, where do you start? We have something new and exciting for you. We’ve created a podcast playlist where you [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How She Really Does It has been in existence for over 15 and a half years, and we have over 800 shows. It’s so overwhelming to know what episodes to listen to when you need them, where do you start? We have something new and exciting for you. We’ve creat]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How She Really Does It has been in existence for over 15 and a half years, and we have over 800 shows. It’s so overwhelming to know what episodes to listen to when you need them, where do you start? We have something new and exciting for you. We’ve created a podcast playlist where you [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22731/leader-of-your-life-playlist.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How She Really Does It has been in existence for over 15 and a half years, and we have over 800 shows. It’s so overwhelming to know what episodes to listen to when you need them, where do you start? We have something new and exciting for you. We’ve created a podcast playlist where you [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI245Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI245Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Leader of Your Life podcast playlist</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How She Really Does It has been in existence for over 15 and a half years, and we have over 800 shows. It’s so overwhelming to know what episodes to listen to when you need them, where do you start? We have something new and exciting for you. We’ve created a podcast playlist where you [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI245Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Sports myths and fairy tales</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/sports-myths-and-fairy-tales/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2022 10:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22728</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Success is steady and linear. You have to be perfect to win and be successful. Successful athletes don’t have adversity. Successful athletes don’t have injuries. If it’s meant to be it’ll be easy. These are just some examples of sports myths we experience throughout our lives. They cause so much pain and discomfort, and they [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Success is steady and linear. You have to be perfect to win and be successful. Successful athletes don’t have adversity. Successful athletes don’t have injuries. If it’s meant to be it’ll be easy. These are just some examples of sports myths we experienc]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Success is steady and linear. You have to be perfect to win and be successful. Successful athletes don’t have adversity. Successful athletes don’t have injuries. If it’s meant to be it’ll be easy. These are just some examples of sports myths we experience throughout our lives. They cause so much pain and discomfort, and they [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22728/sports-myths-and-fairy-tales.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Success is steady and linear. You have to be perfect to win and be successful. Successful athletes don’t have adversity. Successful athletes don’t have injuries. If it’s meant to be it’ll be easy. These are just some examples of sports myths we experience throughout our lives. They cause so much pain and discomfort, and they [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI244Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Sports myths and fairy tales</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Success is steady and linear. You have to be perfect to win and be successful. Successful athletes don’t have adversity. Successful athletes don’t have injuries. If it’s meant to be it’ll be easy. These are just some examples of sports myths we experience throughout our lives. They cause so much pain and discomfort, and they [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI244Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Living happily ever after</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/living-happily-ever-after/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Apr 2022 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22719</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How many of the movies from your childhood involved living happily ever after? In these shows, the characters overcome hardship, get married and they live happily ever after. We all have this cultural programming that we should chase the fairy tale ending, and when we get it, we’ll live happily ever after. But there will [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How many of the movies from your childhood involved living happily ever after? In these shows, the characters overcome hardship, get married and they live happily ever after. We all have this cultural programming that we should chase the fairy tale endin]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How many of the movies from your childhood involved living happily ever after? In these shows, the characters overcome hardship, get married and they live happily ever after. We all have this cultural programming that we should chase the fairy tale ending, and when we get it, we’ll live happily ever after. But there will [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22719/living-happily-ever-after.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How many of the movies from your childhood involved living happily ever after? In these shows, the characters overcome hardship, get married and they live happily ever after. We all have this cultural programming that we should chase the fairy tale ending, and when we get it, we’ll live happily ever after. But there will [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI243Full-Size3.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Living happily ever after</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How many of the movies from your childhood involved living happily ever after? In these shows, the characters overcome hardship, get married and they live happily ever after. We all have this cultural programming that we should chase the fairy tale ending, and when we get it, we’ll live happily ever after. But there will [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/HSRDI243Full-Size3.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Instead of dress rehearsing tragedy…</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/dress-rehearsing-tragedy/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Mar 2022 10:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22706</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Are you good at dress rehearsing tragedy? Thinking about the worst thing that could happen and letting it spin in your brain over and over? You are not the only one; I’m very good at it too. But I’ve learned to recognize it and overcome it, and not let it take me down. Life has [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Are you good at dress rehearsing tragedy? Thinking about the worst thing that could happen and letting it spin in your brain over and over? You are not the only one; I’m very good at it too. But I’ve learned to recognize it and overcome it, and not let i]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you good at dress rehearsing tragedy? Thinking about the worst thing that could happen and letting it spin in your brain over and over? You are not the only one; I’m very good at it too. But I’ve learned to recognize it and overcome it, and not let it take me down. Life has [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22706/dress-rehearsing-tragedy.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you good at dress rehearsing tragedy? Thinking about the worst thing that could happen and letting it spin in your brain over and over? You are not the only one; I’m very good at it too. But I’ve learned to recognize it and overcome it, and not let it take me down. Life has [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI242Full-Sizev3.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Instead of dress rehearsing tragedy…</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Are you good at dress rehearsing tragedy? Thinking about the worst thing that could happen and letting it spin in your brain over and over? You are not the only one; I’m very good at it too. But I’ve learned to recognize it and overcome it, and not let it take me down. Life has [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI242Full-Sizev3.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The cost of indecision</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-cost-of-indecision/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2022 10:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22694</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How often do you push something to the side when you can’t decide on what to do or what you want, simply because you don’t want to face having to make the decision? Indecision is something we all experience, and it can be crippling. It’s often the small things in our lives that create some [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How often do you push something to the side when you can’t decide on what to do or what you want, simply because you don’t want to face having to make the decision? Indecision is something we all experience, and it can be crippling. It’s often the small ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How often do you push something to the side when you can’t decide on what to do or what you want, simply because you don’t want to face having to make the decision? Indecision is something we all experience, and it can be crippling. It’s often the small things in our lives that create some [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How often do you push something to the side when you can’t decide on what to do or what you want, simply because you don’t want to face having to make the decision? Indecision is something we all experience, and it can be crippling. It’s often the small things in our lives that create some [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>The cost of indecision</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How often do you push something to the side when you can’t decide on what to do or what you want, simply because you don’t want to face having to make the decision? Indecision is something we all experience, and it can be crippling. It’s often the small things in our lives that create some [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI241Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Laugh with ourselves</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/laugh-with-ourselves/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2022 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22686</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice and cause ourselves harm. Some of us [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice a]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice and cause ourselves harm. Some of us [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice and cause ourselves harm. Some of us [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI240Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Laugh with ourselves</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[So many of us are practiced at laughing at ourselves and making fun of ourselves at the cost of the essence of who we are. But laughing at ourselves is not actually fun. When we make ourselves the butt of the joke, we actually do ourselves a disservice and cause ourselves harm. Some of us [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI240Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The myths of working hard</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/myths-working-hard/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Mar 2022 10:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22678</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As women, we have receive the cultural programming throughout our lives that working hard is what will get us to where we want to be, and we aren’t supposed to take time for ourselves. We are told that it is selfish and that we should prioritize working hard and looking after others. So we work [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As women, we have receive the cultural programming throughout our lives that working hard is what will get us to where we want to be, and we aren’t supposed to take time for ourselves. We are told that it is selfish and that we should prioritize working ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As women, we have receive the cultural programming throughout our lives that working hard is what will get us to where we want to be, and we aren’t supposed to take time for ourselves. We are told that it is selfish and that we should prioritize working hard and looking after others. So we work [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22678/myths-working-hard.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As women, we have receive the cultural programming throughout our lives that working hard is what will get us to where we want to be, and we aren’t supposed to take time for ourselves. We are told that it is selfish and that we should prioritize working hard and looking after others. So we work [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI239Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>The myths of working hard</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As women, we have receive the cultural programming throughout our lives that working hard is what will get us to where we want to be, and we aren’t supposed to take time for ourselves. We are told that it is selfish and that we should prioritize working hard and looking after others. So we work [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/HSRDI239Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Stand with yourself not against yourself</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/stand-with-yourself-not-against/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2022 10:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22665</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Since I was 9 years old, swimming for me was a safe space. It was a place of belonging, and as a shy little girl, it was my savior. Swimming taught me how to create belonging for myself and other people, to create a space for people to come together and build on themselves. This [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Since I was 9 years old, swimming for me was a safe space. It was a place of belonging, and as a shy little girl, it was my savior. Swimming taught me how to create belonging for myself and other people, to create a space for people to come together and ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Since I was 9 years old, swimming for me was a safe space. It was a place of belonging, and as a shy little girl, it was my savior. Swimming taught me how to create belonging for myself and other people, to create a space for people to come together and build on themselves. This [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22665/stand-with-yourself-not-against.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Since I was 9 years old, swimming for me was a safe space. It was a place of belonging, and as a shy little girl, it was my savior. Swimming taught me how to create belonging for myself and other people, to create a space for people to come together and build on themselves. This [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI238Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Stand with yourself not against yourself</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Since I was 9 years old, swimming for me was a safe space. It was a place of belonging, and as a shy little girl, it was my savior. Swimming taught me how to create belonging for myself and other people, to create a space for people to come together and build on themselves. This [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI238Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Am I doing it right?</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/am-i-doing-it-right/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2022 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22641</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There is a question I get all week long from my clients, and while they don’t say it explicitly, it comes through as they talk. And that question is “am I doing it right?” This has been an ongoing question for many years because it is so culturally programmed into us that there is a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There is a question I get all week long from my clients, and while they don’t say it explicitly, it comes through as they talk. And that question is “am I doing it right?” This has been an ongoing question for many years because it is so culturally progr]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There is a question I get all week long from my clients, and while they don’t say it explicitly, it comes through as they talk. And that question is “am I doing it right?” This has been an ongoing question for many years because it is so culturally programmed into us that there is a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22641/am-i-doing-it-right.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a question I get all week long from my clients, and while they don’t say it explicitly, it comes through as they talk. And that question is “am I doing it right?” This has been an ongoing question for many years because it is so culturally programmed into us that there is a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI237Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Am I doing it right?</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There is a question I get all week long from my clients, and while they don’t say it explicitly, it comes through as they talk. And that question is “am I doing it right?” This has been an ongoing question for many years because it is so culturally programmed into us that there is a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI237Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Trust me, you’re lovely</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/trust-me-youre-lovely/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2022 10:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22634</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Life is precious, and it is full of all sorts of experiences. There are challenging, difficult moments, and there are moments of ease, calmness, and often overlooked joy. There will always be great things, and there will always be not-so-great things. It is important to recognize and receive the good in our life and then [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Life is precious, and it is full of all sorts of experiences. There are challenging, difficult moments, and there are moments of ease, calmness, and often overlooked joy. There will always be great things, and there will always be not-so-great things. It]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Life is precious, and it is full of all sorts of experiences. There are challenging, difficult moments, and there are moments of ease, calmness, and often overlooked joy. There will always be great things, and there will always be not-so-great things. It is important to recognize and receive the good in our life and then [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22634/trust-me-youre-lovely.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Life is precious, and it is full of all sorts of experiences. There are challenging, difficult moments, and there are moments of ease, calmness, and often overlooked joy. There will always be great things, and there will always be not-so-great things. It is important to recognize and receive the good in our life and then [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI236Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI236Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Trust me, you’re lovely</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Life is precious, and it is full of all sorts of experiences. There are challenging, difficult moments, and there are moments of ease, calmness, and often overlooked joy. There will always be great things, and there will always be not-so-great things. It is important to recognize and receive the good in our life and then [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI236Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Two big issues in business + life</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/two-big-issues/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2022 10:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22615</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I truly believe we are leaders of our lives, whether you have that specific title or not. Whatever you do in life, you have the power to lead your life as you want. But there are two issues that I see coming up constantly that hold people back. I coach a range of executives, entrepreneurs, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I truly believe we are leaders of our lives, whether you have that specific title or not. Whatever you do in life, you have the power to lead your life as you want. But there are two issues that I see coming up constantly that hold people back. I coach a]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I truly believe we are leaders of our lives, whether you have that specific title or not. Whatever you do in life, you have the power to lead your life as you want. But there are two issues that I see coming up constantly that hold people back. I coach a range of executives, entrepreneurs, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22615/two-big-issues.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I truly believe we are leaders of our lives, whether you have that specific title or not. Whatever you do in life, you have the power to lead your life as you want. But there are two issues that I see coming up constantly that hold people back. I coach a range of executives, entrepreneurs, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI235Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI235Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Two big issues in business + life</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I truly believe we are leaders of our lives, whether you have that specific title or not. Whatever you do in life, you have the power to lead your life as you want. But there are two issues that I see coming up constantly that hold people back. I coach a range of executives, entrepreneurs, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/HSRDI235Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>It’s the little things</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-little-things/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2022 10:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22607</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We often think that it’s the big, shaming things that create our pain and suffering. We think that these big events cause the issues we face, but often, this isn’t the case. Often, it’s the little things. When little things come up and we don’t acknowledge them, they can stir into a shame storm or [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We often think that it’s the big, shaming things that create our pain and suffering. We think that these big events cause the issues we face, but often, this isn’t the case. Often, it’s the little things. When little things come up and we don’t acknowled]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We often think that it’s the big, shaming things that create our pain and suffering. We think that these big events cause the issues we face, but often, this isn’t the case. Often, it’s the little things. When little things come up and we don’t acknowledge them, they can stir into a shame storm or [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22607/the-little-things.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We often think that it’s the big, shaming things that create our pain and suffering. We think that these big events cause the issues we face, but often, this isn’t the case. Often, it’s the little things. When little things come up and we don’t acknowledge them, they can stir into a shame storm or [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI234Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI234Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>It’s the little things</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We often think that it’s the big, shaming things that create our pain and suffering. We think that these big events cause the issues we face, but often, this isn’t the case. Often, it’s the little things. When little things come up and we don’t acknowledge them, they can stir into a shame storm or [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI234Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What to do when in fear</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-to-do-when-in-fear/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jan 2022 10:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22579</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#8217;ve desired it for a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#821]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#8217;ve desired it for a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22579/what-to-do-when-in-fear.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#8217;ve desired it for a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI233Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>What to do when in fear</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How do you respond to fear? Do you hide away, or fight, or flee? Fear is an emotion, and it is powerful. It is here in our bodies to keep us alive, but that doesn’t always mean it feels good. Maybe you have a job interview or a new relationship. You&#8217;ve desired it for a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI233Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Set yourself up for success</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/set-yourself-up-for-success/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2022 10:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22570</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Many people mistakenly think that success just happens to people if they’re lucky. I have spent 15 years on this show breaking through that myth. Success looks different to everybody, and there are several ways to set yourself up for success. And you get to determine what it looks like and what it means to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Many people mistakenly think that success just happens to people if they’re lucky. I have spent 15 years on this show breaking through that myth. Success looks different to everybody, and there are several ways to set yourself up for success. And you get]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Many people mistakenly think that success just happens to people if they’re lucky. I have spent 15 years on this show breaking through that myth. Success looks different to everybody, and there are several ways to set yourself up for success. And you get to determine what it looks like and what it means to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many people mistakenly think that success just happens to people if they’re lucky. I have spent 15 years on this show breaking through that myth. Success looks different to everybody, and there are several ways to set yourself up for success. And you get to determine what it looks like and what it means to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI232Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Embrace what you love</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/embrace-what-you-love/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jan 2022 10:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[We’ve said goodbye to 2021 and hello to 2022! Who knows what this year will bring? One thing that I will continue doing this year is embracing what I love. I was recently gifted a gift card to my favorite coffee shop, and I was so overjoyed to receive it because the person who purchased [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We’ve said goodbye to 2021 and hello to 2022! Who knows what this year will bring? One thing that I will continue doing this year is embracing what I love. I was recently gifted a gift card to my favorite coffee shop, and I was so overjoyed to receive it]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We’ve said goodbye to 2021 and hello to 2022! Who knows what this year will bring? One thing that I will continue doing this year is embracing what I love. I was recently gifted a gift card to my favorite coffee shop, and I was so overjoyed to receive it because the person who purchased [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’ve said goodbye to 2021 and hello to 2022! Who knows what this year will bring? One thing that I will continue doing this year is embracing what I love. I was recently gifted a gift card to my favorite coffee shop, and I was so overjoyed to receive it because the person who purchased [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/HSRDI231Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Finally&#8230; space for you</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/finally-space-for-you/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 31 Dec 2021 10:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22540</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Over the course of our lives, we have learned to be busy, and we think that being busy is the pathway to our dreams. But space is just as important, and it’s something I’ll be exploring more in 2022. When we don’t have space, we make rash decisions, and we settle for much less than [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Over the course of our lives, we have learned to be busy, and we think that being busy is the pathway to our dreams. But space is just as important, and it’s something I’ll be exploring more in 2022. When we don’t have space, we make rash decisions, and ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Over the course of our lives, we have learned to be busy, and we think that being busy is the pathway to our dreams. But space is just as important, and it’s something I’ll be exploring more in 2022. When we don’t have space, we make rash decisions, and we settle for much less than [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Over the course of our lives, we have learned to be busy, and we think that being busy is the pathway to our dreams. But space is just as important, and it’s something I’ll be exploring more in 2022. When we don’t have space, we make rash decisions, and we settle for much less than [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI230FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The fairy tale of life balance</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/fairy-tale-life-balance/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 24 Dec 2021 10:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22539</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We all have this magical thinking where we believe that once we get life balance, and everything we want in our lives, we’ll be happy. Everything will become easy, and we’ll get to live in the promised land. And we think like this because of the cultural programming around fairy tales that we receive from [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We all have this magical thinking where we believe that once we get life balance, and everything we want in our lives, we’ll be happy. Everything will become easy, and we’ll get to live in the promised land. And we think like this because of the cultural]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We all have this magical thinking where we believe that once we get life balance, and everything we want in our lives, we’ll be happy. Everything will become easy, and we’ll get to live in the promised land. And we think like this because of the cultural programming around fairy tales that we receive from [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all have this magical thinking where we believe that once we get life balance, and everything we want in our lives, we’ll be happy. Everything will become easy, and we’ll get to live in the promised land. And we think like this because of the cultural programming around fairy tales that we receive from [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We all have this magical thinking where we believe that once we get life balance, and everything we want in our lives, we’ll be happy. Everything will become easy, and we’ll get to live in the promised land. And we think like this because of the cultural programming around fairy tales that we receive from [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI229FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Commit to the best-case scenario</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/commit-best-case-scenario/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Dec 2021 10:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22533</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As we’re winding down the year and we have a new year to look upon, you might be feeling excited about the year ahead and reflecting on a great year. Or you might be disappointed, and 2021 might not have been the year you wanted. I tend to think of life in different arenas, and [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As we’re winding down the year and we have a new year to look upon, you might be feeling excited about the year ahead and reflecting on a great year. Or you might be disappointed, and 2021 might not have been the year you wanted. I tend to think of life ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As we’re winding down the year and we have a new year to look upon, you might be feeling excited about the year ahead and reflecting on a great year. Or you might be disappointed, and 2021 might not have been the year you wanted. I tend to think of life in different arenas, and [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22533/commit-best-case-scenario.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As we’re winding down the year and we have a new year to look upon, you might be feeling excited about the year ahead and reflecting on a great year. Or you might be disappointed, and 2021 might not have been the year you wanted. I tend to think of life in different arenas, and [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI228FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Commit to the best-case scenario</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As we’re winding down the year and we have a new year to look upon, you might be feeling excited about the year ahead and reflecting on a great year. Or you might be disappointed, and 2021 might not have been the year you wanted. I tend to think of life in different arenas, and [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI228FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Structures for the 3 areas of life</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/structures-3-areas-life/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2021 10:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22513</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As we go into this holiday season and wrap up 2021, many of us are thinking about how we can optimize the structures in the different areas of our lives as we enter 2022. When it comes to creating structures, I like to think of the 3 main areas of your life: yourself, your family, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As we go into this holiday season and wrap up 2021, many of us are thinking about how we can optimize the structures in the different areas of our lives as we enter 2022. When it comes to creating structures, I like to think of the 3 main areas of your l]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As we go into this holiday season and wrap up 2021, many of us are thinking about how we can optimize the structures in the different areas of our lives as we enter 2022. When it comes to creating structures, I like to think of the 3 main areas of your life: yourself, your family, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22513/structures-3-areas-life.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As we go into this holiday season and wrap up 2021, many of us are thinking about how we can optimize the structures in the different areas of our lives as we enter 2022. When it comes to creating structures, I like to think of the 3 main areas of your life: yourself, your family, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI227Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Structures for the 3 areas of life</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As we go into this holiday season and wrap up 2021, many of us are thinking about how we can optimize the structures in the different areas of our lives as we enter 2022. When it comes to creating structures, I like to think of the 3 main areas of your life: yourself, your family, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI227Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The steps to overcoming obstacles</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/steps-to-overcoming-obstacles/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Dec 2021 10:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22500</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and they can be great teachers. They can teach [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and they can be great teachers. They can teach [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22500/steps-to-overcoming-obstacles.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and they can be great teachers. They can teach [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI226Full-Sizev2.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The steps to overcoming obstacles</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There are a lot of obstacles in our lives, and I frequently work on overcoming them with my clients. So often, we dislike or even hate obstacles because they are messy, uncomfortable, and not part of the plan. &#160; But obstacles are a part of life, and they can be great teachers. They can teach [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/12/HSRDI226Full-Sizev2.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The holidays</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-holidays/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2021 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22490</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like that?   We may have this cultural programming [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like that?   We may have this cultural programming [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22490/the-holidays.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like that?   We may have this cultural programming [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/HSRDI224Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The holidays</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[The holidays are a hard time. We have the idealism of how they’re supposed to be – the connection, the joy, the fulfillment. We’ve seen the commercials about how it should look and what it’s supposed to be like. But what happens when it doesn’t look like that?   We may have this cultural programming [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/HSRDI224Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Before gratitude</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/before-gratitude/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Nov 2021 10:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22475</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As we approach this time of the year, I tend to go inward and become reflective about the year and the journey that I and those around me have been on. Which experiences have been difficult? What am I grateful for? Something I see quite often is when people are facing hardship or difficulty in [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As we approach this time of the year, I tend to go inward and become reflective about the year and the journey that I and those around me have been on. Which experiences have been difficult? What am I grateful for? Something I see quite often is when peo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As we approach this time of the year, I tend to go inward and become reflective about the year and the journey that I and those around me have been on. Which experiences have been difficult? What am I grateful for? Something I see quite often is when people are facing hardship or difficulty in [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22475/before-gratitude.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As we approach this time of the year, I tend to go inward and become reflective about the year and the journey that I and those around me have been on. Which experiences have been difficult? What am I grateful for? Something I see quite often is when people are facing hardship or difficulty in [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/HSRDI223Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Before gratitude</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As we approach this time of the year, I tend to go inward and become reflective about the year and the journey that I and those around me have been on. Which experiences have been difficult? What am I grateful for? Something I see quite often is when people are facing hardship or difficulty in [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/HSRDI223Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The obstacles of boundary setting with Laura Boyd</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/obstacles-boundary-laura-boyd/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2021 10:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22452</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Boundaries are such an important part of my life, but that’s not the story for everyone. I’ve worked for years to develop the skill of dealing with the discomfort that comes up around outlining priorities and establishing them. And it wasn’t easy. But getting clear on your responsibilities and bravely establishing boundaries will make a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Boundaries are such an important part of my life, but that’s not the story for everyone. I’ve worked for years to develop the skill of dealing with the discomfort that comes up around outlining priorities and establishing them. And it wasn’t easy. But ge]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Boundaries are such an important part of my life, but that’s not the story for everyone. I’ve worked for years to develop the skill of dealing with the discomfort that comes up around outlining priorities and establishing them. And it wasn’t easy. But getting clear on your responsibilities and bravely establishing boundaries will make a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Boundaries are such an important part of my life, but that’s not the story for everyone. I’ve worked for years to develop the skill of dealing with the discomfort that comes up around outlining priorities and establishing them. And it wasn’t easy. But getting clear on your responsibilities and bravely establishing boundaries will make a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/HSRDI222FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The obstacles of boundary setting with Laura Boyd</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/HSRDI222FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Building sustainable + trustworthy relationships with Pamela Slim</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/relationships-pamela-slim/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2021 10:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22438</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We’ve reached the final celebration for 15 years of the podcast, and who better to bring back than Pamela Slim. Pamela was on the show several times back in the early days, and she’s coming back to talk about doing purposeful work and building sustainable, trustworthy relationships. Pamela Slim is a community builder, consultant, business [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We’ve reached the final celebration for 15 years of the podcast, and who better to bring back than Pamela Slim. Pamela was on the show several times back in the early days, and she’s coming back to talk about doing purposeful work and building sustainabl]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We’ve reached the final celebration for 15 years of the podcast, and who better to bring back than Pamela Slim. Pamela was on the show several times back in the early days, and she’s coming back to talk about doing purposeful work and building sustainable, trustworthy relationships. Pamela Slim is a community builder, consultant, business [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’ve reached the final celebration for 15 years of the podcast, and who better to bring back than Pamela Slim. Pamela was on the show several times back in the early days, and she’s coming back to talk about doing purposeful work and building sustainable, trustworthy relationships. Pamela Slim is a community builder, consultant, business [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Building sustainable + trustworthy relationships with Pamela Slim</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI221FullSizev2.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Celebrating 15 years + transformation with Michele Woodward</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/transformation-michele-woodward/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Oct 2021 10:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22432</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[In this episode of our four-part celebration of 15 years of How She Really Does It, we&#8217;re discussing transformation. I’m bringing on an old favorite and very good friend of mine, Michele Woodward. Michelle is wise, gracious, and my heart is always so full after speaking with her. Michele Woodward is an executive coach and [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[In this episode of our four-part celebration of 15 years of How She Really Does It, we&#8217;re discussing transformation. I’m bringing on an old favorite and very good friend of mine, Michele Woodward. Michelle is wise, gracious, and my heart is always ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[In this episode of our four-part celebration of 15 years of How She Really Does It, we&#8217;re discussing transformation. I’m bringing on an old favorite and very good friend of mine, Michele Woodward. Michelle is wise, gracious, and my heart is always so full after speaking with her. Michele Woodward is an executive coach and [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22432/transformation-michele-woodward.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode of our four-part celebration of 15 years of How She Really Does It, we&#8217;re discussing transformation. I’m bringing on an old favorite and very good friend of mine, Michele Woodward. Michelle is wise, gracious, and my heart is always so full after speaking with her. Michele Woodward is an executive coach and [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI220FullSizev2.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Celebrating 15 years + transformation with Michele Woodward</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI220FullSizev2.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Where it began – 15 years</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/where-it-began-15-years/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2021 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22429</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Last week, I had my friend Anna on the podcast and we celebrated 15 years of this show. And today, I’m going solo and taking you through my own transformation, evolution, growth, grit and resilience, and celebrating it all. I spent so much of my life avoiding celebration, but since I stopped hiding from it, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Last week, I had my friend Anna on the podcast and we celebrated 15 years of this show. And today, I’m going solo and taking you through my own transformation, evolution, growth, grit and resilience, and celebrating it all. I spent so much of my life avo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Last week, I had my friend Anna on the podcast and we celebrated 15 years of this show. And today, I’m going solo and taking you through my own transformation, evolution, growth, grit and resilience, and celebrating it all. I spent so much of my life avoiding celebration, but since I stopped hiding from it, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22429/where-it-began-15-years.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Last week, I had my friend Anna on the podcast and we celebrated 15 years of this show. And today, I’m going solo and taking you through my own transformation, evolution, growth, grit and resilience, and celebrating it all. I spent so much of my life avoiding celebration, but since I stopped hiding from it, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI219FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Where it began – 15 years</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI219FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>15 years &#8211; then to now with Anna Vocino</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/15-years-anna-vocino/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Oct 2021 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22414</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Friday, October 7th, 2006 was the day I started this podcast, a whole 15 years ago. It didn’t make sense at the time, I just wanted to do it for myself. 15 years on, the show is still going strong and we’re reflecting this week.   We all have a story that matters, and I [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Friday, October 7th, 2006 was the day I started this podcast, a whole 15 years ago. It didn’t make sense at the time, I just wanted to do it for myself. 15 years on, the show is still going strong and we’re reflecting this week.   We all have a story tha]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Friday, October 7th, 2006 was the day I started this podcast, a whole 15 years ago. It didn’t make sense at the time, I just wanted to do it for myself. 15 years on, the show is still going strong and we’re reflecting this week.   We all have a story that matters, and I [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22414/15-years-anna-vocino.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Friday, October 7th, 2006 was the day I started this podcast, a whole 15 years ago. It didn’t make sense at the time, I just wanted to do it for myself. 15 years on, the show is still going strong and we’re reflecting this week.   We all have a story that matters, and I [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI218FullSizev2.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI218FullSizev2.jpg</url>
		<title>15 years &#8211; then to now with Anna Vocino</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI218FullSizev2.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Self-Care Capacity [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/self-care-capacity-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Oct 2021 10:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22403</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When I think about capacity, I like to think about mugs of coffee or my Hydro Flask. A coffee cup might be 12 or 16 ounces, while my Hydro Flask is 40. I like to fill those things up in the morning, so I have them easily accessible to me throughout the day. Some of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When I think about capacity, I like to think about mugs of coffee or my Hydro Flask. A coffee cup might be 12 or 16 ounces, while my Hydro Flask is 40. I like to fill those things up in the morning, so I have them easily accessible to me throughout the d]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When I think about capacity, I like to think about mugs of coffee or my Hydro Flask. A coffee cup might be 12 or 16 ounces, while my Hydro Flask is 40. I like to fill those things up in the morning, so I have them easily accessible to me throughout the day. Some of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22403/self-care-capacity-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When I think about capacity, I like to think about mugs of coffee or my Hydro Flask. A coffee cup might be 12 or 16 ounces, while my Hydro Flask is 40. I like to fill those things up in the morning, so I have them easily accessible to me throughout the day. Some of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI217FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Self-Care Capacity [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When I think about capacity, I like to think about mugs of coffee or my Hydro Flask. A coffee cup might be 12 or 16 ounces, while my Hydro Flask is 40. I like to fill those things up in the morning, so I have them easily accessible to me throughout the day. Some of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/HSRDI217FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>The overused &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-overused-im-sorry-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2021 10:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22375</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often overused. I spend a fair amount of time helping my [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often ov]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often overused. I spend a fair amount of time helping my [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22375/the-overused-im-sorry-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often overused. I spend a fair amount of time helping my [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI215FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>The overused &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Something I find with so many of my clients is that they apologize. Sometimes they genuinely believe they are sorry for something, but other times, they use “I’m sorry” because there’s space, and they want to fill it.   The phrase “I’m sorry” is often overused. I spend a fair amount of time helping my [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI215FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>The truth about brave leadership [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/brave-leadership/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2021 10:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22348</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When we have problems, we tend to want to fix them immediately. We read leadership books or seek out trainings and become so absorbed and focused on the right way of doing things to get the outcome we want. But there is no right way and being a brave leader is more than reading a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When we have problems, we tend to want to fix them immediately. We read leadership books or seek out trainings and become so absorbed and focused on the right way of doing things to get the outcome we want. But there is no right way and being a brave lea]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When we have problems, we tend to want to fix them immediately. We read leadership books or seek out trainings and become so absorbed and focused on the right way of doing things to get the outcome we want. But there is no right way and being a brave leader is more than reading a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22348/brave-leadership.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When we have problems, we tend to want to fix them immediately. We read leadership books or seek out trainings and become so absorbed and focused on the right way of doing things to get the outcome we want. But there is no right way and being a brave leader is more than reading a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI213FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI213FullSize.jpg</url>
		<title>The truth about brave leadership [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When we have problems, we tend to want to fix them immediately. We read leadership books or seek out trainings and become so absorbed and focused on the right way of doing things to get the outcome we want. But there is no right way and being a brave leader is more than reading a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/HSRDI213FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Tapering for vacation [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/tapering-for-vacation-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2021 10:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22303</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When preparing for the Olympics, swimmers set up a four-year plan to train, race, and compete. And part of this plan includes tapering. Tapering is when we start to decrease the work we do and become more deliberate with invisible training: sleeping, resting, and really taking care of ourselves.   As a swimmer, taper time [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When preparing for the Olympics, swimmers set up a four-year plan to train, race, and compete. And part of this plan includes tapering. Tapering is when we start to decrease the work we do and become more deliberate with invisible training: sleeping, res]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When preparing for the Olympics, swimmers set up a four-year plan to train, race, and compete. And part of this plan includes tapering. Tapering is when we start to decrease the work we do and become more deliberate with invisible training: sleeping, resting, and really taking care of ourselves.   As a swimmer, taper time [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22303/tapering-for-vacation-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When preparing for the Olympics, swimmers set up a four-year plan to train, race, and compete. And part of this plan includes tapering. Tapering is when we start to decrease the work we do and become more deliberate with invisible training: sleeping, resting, and really taking care of ourselves.   As a swimmer, taper time [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/HSRDI209FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Tapering for vacation [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When preparing for the Olympics, swimmers set up a four-year plan to train, race, and compete. And part of this plan includes tapering. Tapering is when we start to decrease the work we do and become more deliberate with invisible training: sleeping, resting, and really taking care of ourselves.   As a swimmer, taper time [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/08/HSRDI209FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>It’s an invitation, not an obligation [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/invitation-not-obligation/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2021 10:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22271</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22271/invitation-not-obligation.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI206FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>It’s an invitation, not an obligation [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[After 2020 and early 2021, we are more than ready to connect. But we have to ensure that we cultivate the connection we want versus what we may be willing to settle for out of desperation. When we receive an invitation to do something, we should want to do it, not do it out of obligation. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI206FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Emotional health [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/emotional-health/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2021 10:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22255</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more abou]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22255/emotional-health.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI205FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI205FullSize.jpg</url>
		<title>Emotional health [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There was a message that I heard consistently when I was growing up and that was this: there is no place for emotion here. As a result, I spent a lifetime not being connected to my emotions. Our emotions are data points that we can use to learn more about ourselves but we have been [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI205FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Compartmentalizing: stop surviving and start thriving [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/compartmentalizing/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2021 10:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22248</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentali]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22248/compartmentalizing.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI204FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI204FullSize.jpg</url>
		<title>Compartmentalizing: stop surviving and start thriving [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Many of us have been so focused on surviving a global pandemic over the last 16 months that we have pushed down our emotions in an attempt to keep on moving forward. We have learned how to survive using a process called compartmentalizing. Compartmentalizing is a defense mechanism where we suppress our thoughts and emotions. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/HSRDI204FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Being proud of yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/being-proud-of-yourself/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2021 10:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22241</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over somet]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22241/being-proud-of-yourself.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI203FullSize.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI203FullSize.jpg</url>
		<title>Being proud of yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I want you to think about the last time you achieved a goal you set. Did you feel proud of yourself? Did you take it in and own it, or did you move straight onto the next thing? Being proud of yourself involves feeling pleasure or satisfaction over something regarded as highly honorable or credible [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI203FullSize.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What you seek&#8230;is inside of you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-you-seek/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2021 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22236</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite y]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22236/what-you-seek.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI202Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI202Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>What you seek&#8230;is inside of you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We all have needs or things we’re seeking. Sometimes it’s belonging, love, appreciation, or tenderness. Sometimes it’s accountability, ownership, and validation. Instead of looking externally for these things like we’ve been conditioned to do, I invite you to look inwards. Because friends, the truth is that everything you seek is already inside of you. Now [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI202Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Fierce Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/self-compassion-kristin-neff/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2021 10:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22207</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As women, we have been culturally programmed to believe that our worth is subordinate to other people’s and that we must prioritize everybody else’s needs and wants above our own. These messages have been used to disempower us, but the world is changing, and it’s time for a shift. Today’s guest is here to discuss [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As women, we have been culturally programmed to believe that our worth is subordinate to other people’s and that we must prioritize everybody else’s needs and wants above our own. These messages have been used to disempower us, but the world is changing,]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As women, we have been culturally programmed to believe that our worth is subordinate to other people’s and that we must prioritize everybody else’s needs and wants above our own. These messages have been used to disempower us, but the world is changing, and it’s time for a shift. Today’s guest is here to discuss [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22207/self-compassion-kristin-neff.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As women, we have been culturally programmed to believe that our worth is subordinate to other people’s and that we must prioritize everybody else’s needs and wants above our own. These messages have been used to disempower us, but the world is changing, and it’s time for a shift. Today’s guest is here to discuss [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI201Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI201Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Fierce Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As women, we have been culturally programmed to believe that our worth is subordinate to other people’s and that we must prioritize everybody else’s needs and wants above our own. These messages have been used to disempower us, but the world is changing, and it’s time for a shift. Today’s guest is here to discuss [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI201Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Step-mom vs. bonus mom [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/step-mom-bonus-mom/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jun 2021 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22197</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[For the woman who never wanted to have children, I’ve been raising kids a pretty long time. Being a parent is challenging and vulnerable, and being a step-parent in some ways poses even more challenges. Cultural programming paints step-moms as evil, which only adds to the difficulties. For a long time, I would compare my [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[For the woman who never wanted to have children, I’ve been raising kids a pretty long time. Being a parent is challenging and vulnerable, and being a step-parent in some ways poses even more challenges. Cultural programming paints step-moms as evil, whic]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[For the woman who never wanted to have children, I’ve been raising kids a pretty long time. Being a parent is challenging and vulnerable, and being a step-parent in some ways poses even more challenges. Cultural programming paints step-moms as evil, which only adds to the difficulties. For a long time, I would compare my [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22197/step-mom-bonus-mom.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[For the woman who never wanted to have children, I’ve been raising kids a pretty long time. Being a parent is challenging and vulnerable, and being a step-parent in some ways poses even more challenges. Cultural programming paints step-moms as evil, which only adds to the difficulties. For a long time, I would compare my [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI200Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI200Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Step-mom vs. bonus mom [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[For the woman who never wanted to have children, I’ve been raising kids a pretty long time. Being a parent is challenging and vulnerable, and being a step-parent in some ways poses even more challenges. Cultural programming paints step-moms as evil, which only adds to the difficulties. For a long time, I would compare my [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/HSRDI200Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Where do we go now? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/where-do-we-go-now/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2021 10:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22187</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Have you ever noticed that when you go through something hard, you keep on going, then suddenly when there’s nothing that needs to be done urgently anymore, you fall apart? As though your mind or body just stops functioning? It happened to me recently after going through a particularly difficult time. I kept it together [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Have you ever noticed that when you go through something hard, you keep on going, then suddenly when there’s nothing that needs to be done urgently anymore, you fall apart? As though your mind or body just stops functioning? It happened to me recently af]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Have you ever noticed that when you go through something hard, you keep on going, then suddenly when there’s nothing that needs to be done urgently anymore, you fall apart? As though your mind or body just stops functioning? It happened to me recently after going through a particularly difficult time. I kept it together [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22187/where-do-we-go-now.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever noticed that when you go through something hard, you keep on going, then suddenly when there’s nothing that needs to be done urgently anymore, you fall apart? As though your mind or body just stops functioning? It happened to me recently after going through a particularly difficult time. I kept it together [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI199Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI199Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Where do we go now? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Have you ever noticed that when you go through something hard, you keep on going, then suddenly when there’s nothing that needs to be done urgently anymore, you fall apart? As though your mind or body just stops functioning? It happened to me recently after going through a particularly difficult time. I kept it together [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI199Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>So less alone: behind the scenes with Kate Wood</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/so-less-alone-kate-wood/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2021 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22184</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I know how much you love hearing client case studies and what happens in life coaching, and I truly believe we learn so much from peoples’ stories. So, I’m bringing my former client Kate onto the show this week to share her brave journey with you all. Faced with the prospect of losing something extremely [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I know how much you love hearing client case studies and what happens in life coaching, and I truly believe we learn so much from peoples’ stories. So, I’m bringing my former client Kate onto the show this week to share her brave journey with you all. Fa]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know how much you love hearing client case studies and what happens in life coaching, and I truly believe we learn so much from peoples’ stories. So, I’m bringing my former client Kate onto the show this week to share her brave journey with you all. Faced with the prospect of losing something extremely [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22184/so-less-alone-kate-wood.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I know how much you love hearing client case studies and what happens in life coaching, and I truly believe we learn so much from peoples’ stories. So, I’m bringing my former client Kate onto the show this week to share her brave journey with you all. Faced with the prospect of losing something extremely [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI198Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI198Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>So less alone: behind the scenes with Kate Wood</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I know how much you love hearing client case studies and what happens in life coaching, and I truly believe we learn so much from peoples’ stories. So, I’m bringing my former client Kate onto the show this week to share her brave journey with you all. Faced with the prospect of losing something extremely [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/HSRDI198Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Death by a thousand cuts [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/death-by-a-thousand-cuts/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2021 10:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite sayings in recent months is ‘death by a thousand cuts.&#8217; It’s the concept of small cuts building up over time that can lead to the death of our souls. How we talk to ourselves can be a cut, and life is hard enough without cutting ourselves. How often do you show [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[One of my favorite sayings in recent months is ‘death by a thousand cuts.&#8217; It’s the concept of small cuts building up over time that can lead to the death of our souls. How we talk to ourselves can be a cut, and life is hard enough without cutting ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[One of my favorite sayings in recent months is ‘death by a thousand cuts.&#8217; It’s the concept of small cuts building up over time that can lead to the death of our souls. How we talk to ourselves can be a cut, and life is hard enough without cutting ourselves. How often do you show [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[One of my favorite sayings in recent months is ‘death by a thousand cuts.&#8217; It’s the concept of small cuts building up over time that can lead to the death of our souls. How we talk to ourselves can be a cut, and life is hard enough without cutting ourselves. How often do you show [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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<item>
	<title>Michael Phelps &#8211; After the Race [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/michael-phelps-after-the-race/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2021 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22173</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens after the race, and I’m sharing how this is relevant in our lives. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens afte]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens after the race, and I’m sharing how this is relevant in our lives. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I recently watched Michael Phelps: Medals, Memories &#38; More and there are so many lessons we can capture from this three-part series that I wanted to explore it further on the podcast this week. His story alludes to the importance of what happens after the race, and I’m sharing how this is relevant in our lives. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
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<item>
	<title>Developing your own potential [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/develop-your-potential/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2021 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22164</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When we think about leaders, we think about titles like CEO, CFO, and President. But leadership isn’t about titles, it’s not about hierarchy and it isn’t something that somebody gives you. It’s about taking care of ourselves so that we can take care of others and being willing to step up in our lives. Brené Brown defines a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When we think about leaders, we think about titles like CEO, CFO, and President. But leadership isn’t about titles, it’s not about hierarchy and it isn’t something that somebody gives you. It’s about taking care of ourselves so that we can take care of o]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When we think about leaders, we think about titles like CEO, CFO, and President. But leadership isn’t about titles, it’s not about hierarchy and it isn’t something that somebody gives you. It’s about taking care of ourselves so that we can take care of others and being willing to step up in our lives. Brené Brown defines a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When we think about leaders, we think about titles like CEO, CFO, and President. But leadership isn’t about titles, it’s not about hierarchy and it isn’t something that somebody gives you. It’s about taking care of ourselves so that we can take care of others and being willing to step up in our lives. Brené Brown defines a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
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<item>
	<title>Dropping the armor: A journey of transformation with Brenda</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/transformation-brenda/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2021 10:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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	<description><![CDATA[I have such a sweet treat for you this week, and I am thrilled to welcome my client Brenda onto the show. I know many of you enjoy when I bring clients on to talk about their journeys of transformation, and you’ll hear a really special story this week. Brenda and I started working together [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I have such a sweet treat for you this week, and I am thrilled to welcome my client Brenda onto the show. I know many of you enjoy when I bring clients on to talk about their journeys of transformation, and you’ll hear a really special story this week. B]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have such a sweet treat for you this week, and I am thrilled to welcome my client Brenda onto the show. I know many of you enjoy when I bring clients on to talk about their journeys of transformation, and you’ll hear a really special story this week. Brenda and I started working together [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I have such a sweet treat for you this week, and I am thrilled to welcome my client Brenda onto the show. I know many of you enjoy when I bring clients on to talk about their journeys of transformation, and you’ll hear a really special story this week. Brenda and I started working together [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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<item>
	<title>Stop fault finding [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/stop-fault-finding/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2021 10:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
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	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22110</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We weren’t brought into this world knowing how to do everything perfectly. We learn a lot from falling down and getting back up, but we must do so without looking back with regret. Falling down is an opportunity. Instead of blaming ourselves or finding fault, we must use these times as a chance to acknowledge [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We weren’t brought into this world knowing how to do everything perfectly. We learn a lot from falling down and getting back up, but we must do so without looking back with regret. Falling down is an opportunity. Instead of blaming ourselves or finding f]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We weren’t brought into this world knowing how to do everything perfectly. We learn a lot from falling down and getting back up, but we must do so without looking back with regret. Falling down is an opportunity. Instead of blaming ourselves or finding fault, we must use these times as a chance to acknowledge [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We weren’t brought into this world knowing how to do everything perfectly. We learn a lot from falling down and getting back up, but we must do so without looking back with regret. Falling down is an opportunity. Instead of blaming ourselves or finding fault, we must use these times as a chance to acknowledge [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/HSRDI193Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Brené Brown &#8211; The barriers to worthiness</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/brene-brown-barriers-worthiness/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Apr 2021 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22099</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We are conditioned to believe that to be worthy, there are some pre-requisites we have to meet. But worthiness does not have pre-requisites; it is a birthright, and we are all worthy. This week, I’m sharing my second interview with Brené Brown, where we explore this further. Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor at [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are conditioned to believe that to be worthy, there are some pre-requisites we have to meet. But worthiness does not have pre-requisites; it is a birthright, and we are all worthy. This week, I’m sharing my second interview with Brené Brown, where we ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are conditioned to believe that to be worthy, there are some pre-requisites we have to meet. But worthiness does not have pre-requisites; it is a birthright, and we are all worthy. This week, I’m sharing my second interview with Brené Brown, where we explore this further. Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor at [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are conditioned to believe that to be worthy, there are some pre-requisites we have to meet. But worthiness does not have pre-requisites; it is a birthright, and we are all worthy. This week, I’m sharing my second interview with Brené Brown, where we explore this further. Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor at [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/HSRDI192Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Brené Brown &#8211; Belonging + Self-Worth</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/brene-brown-belonging-self-worth/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2021 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22093</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I have been doing this show since 2006, and I love going back and listening to earlier episodes to see how they hold up 10 – 15 years later. Today’s episode is the very first interview I did with Brené Brown 10 years ago, and I had no idea how much she was going to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I have been doing this show since 2006, and I love going back and listening to earlier episodes to see how they hold up 10 – 15 years later. Today’s episode is the very first interview I did with Brené Brown 10 years ago, and I had no idea how much she w]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I have been doing this show since 2006, and I love going back and listening to earlier episodes to see how they hold up 10 – 15 years later. Today’s episode is the very first interview I did with Brené Brown 10 years ago, and I had no idea how much she was going to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I have been doing this show since 2006, and I love going back and listening to earlier episodes to see how they hold up 10 – 15 years later. Today’s episode is the very first interview I did with Brené Brown 10 years ago, and I had no idea how much she was going to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/HSRDI191Full-Sizev1.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Finish Line with my 81 year old self [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/finish-line-81-year-old-self/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2021 10:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22069</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[So often, we think about the finish lines in our life. Whether it’s the finish line for COVID, or when a project you’re working on is due to end, or your child is graduating from college. But what are you deferring for later that you could start practicing now? There was a point in my [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[So often, we think about the finish lines in our life. Whether it’s the finish line for COVID, or when a project you’re working on is due to end, or your child is graduating from college. But what are you deferring for later that you could start practici]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[So often, we think about the finish lines in our life. Whether it’s the finish line for COVID, or when a project you’re working on is due to end, or your child is graduating from college. But what are you deferring for later that you could start practicing now? There was a point in my [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[So often, we think about the finish lines in our life. Whether it’s the finish line for COVID, or when a project you’re working on is due to end, or your child is graduating from college. But what are you deferring for later that you could start practicing now? There was a point in my [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>The Finish Line with my 81 year old self [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/HSRDI190Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Letting go of social media with Alexandra Franzen [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/social-media-alexandra-franzen/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2021 10:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22063</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We’ve all felt that sensation of being sucked into the vortex of our phones. We will take a moment to scroll on social media, and before we know it, an hour has passed. It can feel like we are ruled by our technology, versus us being in control, and today’s guest joins me to share [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We’ve all felt that sensation of being sucked into the vortex of our phones. We will take a moment to scroll on social media, and before we know it, an hour has passed. It can feel like we are ruled by our technology, versus us being in control, and toda]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We’ve all felt that sensation of being sucked into the vortex of our phones. We will take a moment to scroll on social media, and before we know it, an hour has passed. It can feel like we are ruled by our technology, versus us being in control, and today’s guest joins me to share [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22063/social-media-alexandra-franzen.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’ve all felt that sensation of being sucked into the vortex of our phones. We will take a moment to scroll on social media, and before we know it, an hour has passed. It can feel like we are ruled by our technology, versus us being in control, and today’s guest joins me to share [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We’ve all felt that sensation of being sucked into the vortex of our phones. We will take a moment to scroll on social media, and before we know it, an hour has passed. It can feel like we are ruled by our technology, versus us being in control, and today’s guest joins me to share [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/HSRDI189Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>One year later [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/one-year-later/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2021 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22054</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[My friends, what a year! I, for sure, did not see that coming. When I think of 2020, it was clearly an extremely hard year. But it’s so important to reflect and think about things, and acknowledge our growth. This time a year ago, I couldn’t possibly imagine that we would be where we are [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[My friends, what a year! I, for sure, did not see that coming. When I think of 2020, it was clearly an extremely hard year. But it’s so important to reflect and think about things, and acknowledge our growth. This time a year ago, I couldn’t possibly ima]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[My friends, what a year! I, for sure, did not see that coming. When I think of 2020, it was clearly an extremely hard year. But it’s so important to reflect and think about things, and acknowledge our growth. This time a year ago, I couldn’t possibly imagine that we would be where we are [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22054/one-year-later.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[My friends, what a year! I, for sure, did not see that coming. When I think of 2020, it was clearly an extremely hard year. But it’s so important to reflect and think about things, and acknowledge our growth. This time a year ago, I couldn’t possibly imagine that we would be where we are [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/HSRDI188Full-Sizev3.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>One year later [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[My friends, what a year! I, for sure, did not see that coming. When I think of 2020, it was clearly an extremely hard year. But it’s so important to reflect and think about things, and acknowledge our growth. This time a year ago, I couldn’t possibly imagine that we would be where we are [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/HSRDI188Full-Sizev3.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Rise up [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/rise-up/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2021 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22025</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt as though you’re dragging a dead cow across the desert? It’s a great metaphor because so many of us can relate to it. It is easy to feel as though you’re constantly being held back or plowing through, which is why the concept of rising up is really important. Rising up [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Have you ever felt as though you’re dragging a dead cow across the desert? It’s a great metaphor because so many of us can relate to it. It is easy to feel as though you’re constantly being held back or plowing through, which is why the concept of rising]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Have you ever felt as though you’re dragging a dead cow across the desert? It’s a great metaphor because so many of us can relate to it. It is easy to feel as though you’re constantly being held back or plowing through, which is why the concept of rising up is really important. Rising up [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22025/rise-up.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever felt as though you’re dragging a dead cow across the desert? It’s a great metaphor because so many of us can relate to it. It is easy to feel as though you’re constantly being held back or plowing through, which is why the concept of rising up is really important. Rising up [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/HSRDI187Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Rise up [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Have you ever felt as though you’re dragging a dead cow across the desert? It’s a great metaphor because so many of us can relate to it. It is easy to feel as though you’re constantly being held back or plowing through, which is why the concept of rising up is really important. Rising up [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/HSRDI187Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Who are you becoming? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/who-are-you-becoming/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2021 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22018</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provide]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22018/who-are-you-becoming.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI186Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI186Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Who are you becoming? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We have faced tremendous loss in the last year, whether it’s the loss of people, connection, or day-to-day things. We can choose to focus on the loss we continue to face, or we could focus on who we are becoming in the process. This past year has provided us with the opportunity to really reflect [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI186Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>How to spend money [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/how-to-spend-money/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2021 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22013</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There is a lot of taboo around talking about money. You may have heard that good people don’t talk about money, or that you should never discuss your salary with co-workers. But today, we’re breaking the rules and talking about money. I’ve had to do a lot of work around this topic and work through [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There is a lot of taboo around talking about money. You may have heard that good people don’t talk about money, or that you should never discuss your salary with co-workers. But today, we’re breaking the rules and talking about money. I’ve had to do a lo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There is a lot of taboo around talking about money. You may have heard that good people don’t talk about money, or that you should never discuss your salary with co-workers. But today, we’re breaking the rules and talking about money. I’ve had to do a lot of work around this topic and work through [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22013/how-to-spend-money.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a lot of taboo around talking about money. You may have heard that good people don’t talk about money, or that you should never discuss your salary with co-workers. But today, we’re breaking the rules and talking about money. I’ve had to do a lot of work around this topic and work through [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI185Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI185Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>How to spend money [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There is a lot of taboo around talking about money. You may have heard that good people don’t talk about money, or that you should never discuss your salary with co-workers. But today, we’re breaking the rules and talking about money. I’ve had to do a lot of work around this topic and work through [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI185Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Making time for yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/making-time-for-yourself/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2021 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=22009</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How often do you make time for yourself? I know your life is busy, and you’re overwhelmed, but are you making the time you need to care for yourself? As women, we’ve been told that we must place everybody else’s needs above our own, but taking care of yourself is vital so you must make [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How often do you make time for yourself? I know your life is busy, and you’re overwhelmed, but are you making the time you need to care for yourself? As women, we’ve been told that we must place everybody else’s needs above our own, but taking care of yo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How often do you make time for yourself? I know your life is busy, and you’re overwhelmed, but are you making the time you need to care for yourself? As women, we’ve been told that we must place everybody else’s needs above our own, but taking care of yourself is vital so you must make [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/22009/making-time-for-yourself.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How often do you make time for yourself? I know your life is busy, and you’re overwhelmed, but are you making the time you need to care for yourself? As women, we’ve been told that we must place everybody else’s needs above our own, but taking care of yourself is vital so you must make [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI184Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI184Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>Making time for yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How often do you make time for yourself? I know your life is busy, and you’re overwhelmed, but are you making the time you need to care for yourself? As women, we’ve been told that we must place everybody else’s needs above our own, but taking care of yourself is vital so you must make [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI184Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What’s the right way? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/the-right-way/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2021 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21998</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[If you’ve ever pursued a goal of any type, you’ve likely found yourself up against some obstacles that temporarily stopped you from achieving your desired results. These obstacles can lead to you going against your own values and prevent you from showing up authentically. How you think about things can impact the action you take [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[If you’ve ever pursued a goal of any type, you’ve likely found yourself up against some obstacles that temporarily stopped you from achieving your desired results. These obstacles can lead to you going against your own values and prevent you from showing]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[If you’ve ever pursued a goal of any type, you’ve likely found yourself up against some obstacles that temporarily stopped you from achieving your desired results. These obstacles can lead to you going against your own values and prevent you from showing up authentically. How you think about things can impact the action you take [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21998/the-right-way.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’ve ever pursued a goal of any type, you’ve likely found yourself up against some obstacles that temporarily stopped you from achieving your desired results. These obstacles can lead to you going against your own values and prevent you from showing up authentically. How you think about things can impact the action you take [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI183Full-Size.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI183Full-Size.jpg</url>
		<title>What’s the right way? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[If you’ve ever pursued a goal of any type, you’ve likely found yourself up against some obstacles that temporarily stopped you from achieving your desired results. These obstacles can lead to you going against your own values and prevent you from showing up authentically. How you think about things can impact the action you take [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/HSRDI183Full-Size.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What you want + disappointment [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-you-want-disappointment/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2021 10:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21962</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare and [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare and [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21962/what-you-want-disappointment.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare and [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-182.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-182.jpg</url>
		<title>What you want + disappointment [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We are all leaders of our lives, and we get to choose to either let life happen to us or be deliberate in creating the life we really want. It takes a lot of courage to get clear on what you want and then go after it. When you are brave enough to declare and [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-182.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Overcoming resistance [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/overcoming-resistance/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2021 10:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21953</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Have you ever been in the position where you put off or resist doing something even though you want the results, because you feel overwhelmed, can’t be bothered, or don’t think you can do it? So many of my clients experience resistance in their lives, and they think they’re the only ones going through it. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Have you ever been in the position where you put off or resist doing something even though you want the results, because you feel overwhelmed, can’t be bothered, or don’t think you can do it? So many of my clients experience resistance in their lives, an]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Have you ever been in the position where you put off or resist doing something even though you want the results, because you feel overwhelmed, can’t be bothered, or don’t think you can do it? So many of my clients experience resistance in their lives, and they think they’re the only ones going through it. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21953/overcoming-resistance.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever been in the position where you put off or resist doing something even though you want the results, because you feel overwhelmed, can’t be bothered, or don’t think you can do it? So many of my clients experience resistance in their lives, and they think they’re the only ones going through it. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-181.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-181.jpg</url>
		<title>Overcoming resistance [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Have you ever been in the position where you put off or resist doing something even though you want the results, because you feel overwhelmed, can’t be bothered, or don’t think you can do it? So many of my clients experience resistance in their lives, and they think they’re the only ones going through it. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-181.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What kind of storyteller are you? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/storyteller/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2021 10:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21940</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I hear what [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I h]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I hear what [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21940/storyteller.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I hear what [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-180.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-180.jpg</url>
		<title>What kind of storyteller are you? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When you come home at the end of the day and begin to talk about how it went, what do you say? Do you only share the bad things and discount the good? Do you avoid sharing the bad? I spend a great deal of time listening to people’s stories each week. I hear what [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-180.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Am I winning? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/am-i-winning/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2021 10:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21924</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably leads to compare and despair. And this sends you down a spiral of shame, when the truth is, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably leads to compare and despair. And this sends you down a spiral of shame, when the truth is, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21924/am-i-winning.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably leads to compare and despair. And this sends you down a spiral of shame, when the truth is, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-179.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Am I winning? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Something I’ve noticed about many of my clients is that no matter how much success they achieve, there’s always someone farther ahead. No matter how far they’ve come, they’re still behind. Questioning if you’re successful &#8220;enough&#8221; inevitably leads to compare and despair. And this sends you down a spiral of shame, when the truth is, [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-179.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Focus forward [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/focus-forward/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2021 10:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21909</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of you are going to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of you are going to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21909/focus-forward.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of you are going to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-178.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Focus forward [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Well, we’ve made it to 2021. 2020 was challenging in so many different, very real ways. After arguably one of the hardest years in many of our lives, we made it through and now we have a brand new year ahead of us.  While this is exciting, I know many of you are going to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-178.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Shoulders we stand on [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/shoulders-we-stand-on/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2020 10:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21906</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the giants whose shoulders you stand on? [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the giants whose shoulders you stand on? [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21906/shoulders-we-stand-on.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the giants whose shoulders you stand on? [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-177.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-177.jpg</url>
		<title>Shoulders we stand on [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Sir Isaac Newton has a quote that has really resonated with me lately. He says, “If I had seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” By standing on the shoulders of those came before us, we can see further and achieve more. Who are the giants whose shoulders you stand on? [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-177.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What do you want? What do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-do-you-want/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2020 10:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21901</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, friends, I wasn’t giving myself permission or the space to get [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, fr]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, friends, I wasn’t giving myself permission or the space to get [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21901/what-do-you-want.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, friends, I wasn’t giving myself permission or the space to get [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-176.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-176.jpg</url>
		<title>What do you want? What do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I’ve spent 14 years asking people how they created what they wanted on this show. In the beginning, I wanted to know what made these people shiny unicorns who were special and could create what they wanted, because I certainly couldn’t.  The truth is, friends, I wasn’t giving myself permission or the space to get [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-176.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Giving Up [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/giving-up-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2020 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21881</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can keep going.  Does any of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can kee]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can keep going.  Does any of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21881/giving-up-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can keep going.  Does any of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-175.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-175.jpg</url>
		<title>Giving Up [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like giving up? Maybe you’ve worked so hard on closing a deal and now things are unraveling. Maybe you have a difficult boss and you just want to quit. Or maybe, your marriage has taken a beating in 2020 and you don’t know if you can keep going.  Does any of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-175.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Space: Types + why it&#8217;s important [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/space-types-why-its-important-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2020 10:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21859</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I want you to think about how much space you’re giving yourself right now [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I wa]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I want you to think about how much space you’re giving yourself right now [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21859/space-types-why-its-important-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I want you to think about how much space you’re giving yourself right now [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-174.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-174.jpg</url>
		<title>Space: Types + why it&#8217;s important [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[For some people, the holidays are when we reduce our workloads and give ourselves more time to relax and connect with our people. But for others, especially high-achievers, the holidays can feel like there’s even less space for ourselves than usual. I want you to think about how much space you’re giving yourself right now [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/Full-Size-HSRDI-174.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Holidays: COVID-Style [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/holidays-covid-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2020 10:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21811</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknown. My family’s holiday traditions have pivoted and evolved over the years. There [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknow]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknown. My family’s holiday traditions have pivoted and evolved over the years. There [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21811/holidays-covid-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknown. My family’s holiday traditions have pivoted and evolved over the years. There [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-172.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-172.jpg</url>
		<title>The Holidays: COVID-Style [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[With next week being Thanksgiving, I’m sure many of us have been thinking about how the holidays will look different this year. Depending on where you live, COVID constraints are forcing us to toss aside beloved rituals and traditions and face the unknown. My family’s holiday traditions have pivoted and evolved over the years. There [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-172.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Mom Guilt [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/mom-guilt-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2020 10:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21765</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with shame and worry. Like many of you, I was [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with sh]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with shame and worry. Like many of you, I was [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21765/mom-guilt-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with shame and worry. Like many of you, I was [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-171.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-171.jpg</url>
		<title>Mom Guilt [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Moms experience a ton of guilt as it is, but that guilt has gotten more intense during Covid-19. Not only are we managing our own emotions, but we’re trying to support our kids as they go through something we never have. Our guilt gets convoluted with shame and worry. Like many of you, I was [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-171.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What happens now??? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-happens-now-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2020 10:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21780</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. All eyes are on us. You might be [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. All eyes are on us. You might be [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21780/what-happens-now-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As of recording this episode, the election results have not been revealed and there is a lot of tension in our country. It’s not just our country; I have clients in different parts of the world who surprise me with how much they know about our politics. All eyes are on us. You might be [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Full-Size-HSRDI-170.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>What happens now??? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
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<item>
	<title>Self-care is not frivolous [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/self-care-not-frivolous-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2020 10:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. One of the ways to do this is through self-care. And, before you shut down [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. One of the ways to do this is through self-care. And, before you shut down [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are in some challenging times right now, my friends. There’s political issues, racism issues, economic realities, and so much more compounded into our lives. It’s never been so important to learn self-regulation and how to move through your emotions. One of the ways to do this is through self-care. And, before you shut down [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-168.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>14 things I’ve learned in 14 years of this show [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/things-learned/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2020 10:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21714</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This show has brought me [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This s]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This show has brought me [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21714/things-learned.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[14 years ago today, I started this show and began an amazing journey of self-discovery, growth, and service. And, 14 years ago today, I felt like a loser. I had no hope and I believed this was as good as it was going to get.  Well, I was so wrong. This show has brought me [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>14 things I’ve learned in 14 years of this show [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-166.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Ingredients vs. scripts for relationships [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/ingredients-vs-scripts/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2020 10:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21651</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Many of you tuned in to last week’s episode and really liked the concept of having relationships that rise up to meet you. But I also know some of you were having challenges with this concept so I’m going to dive deeper into it today. Having a relationship that rises up to meet you does [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Many of you tuned in to last week’s episode and really liked the concept of having relationships that rise up to meet you. But I also know some of you were having challenges with this concept so I’m going to dive deeper into it today. Having a relationsh]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Many of you tuned in to last week’s episode and really liked the concept of having relationships that rise up to meet you. But I also know some of you were having challenges with this concept so I’m going to dive deeper into it today. Having a relationship that rises up to meet you does [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21651/ingredients-vs-scripts.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Many of you tuned in to last week’s episode and really liked the concept of having relationships that rise up to meet you. But I also know some of you were having challenges with this concept so I’m going to dive deeper into it today. Having a relationship that rises up to meet you does [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-165.jpg"></itunes:image>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/10/Full-Size-HSRDI-165.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Cultivate relationships that rise up with you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/relationships-that-rise-up/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2020 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21642</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that drag us down. We all deserve relationships that rise [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that d]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that drag us down. We all deserve relationships that rise [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21642/relationships-that-rise-up.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that drag us down. We all deserve relationships that rise [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-164.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Cultivate relationships that rise up with you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you have that one friend who always shows up 15 minutes late? Or that co-worker that expects you to carry more of the workload? Maybe it’s your spouse that says they’ll make more time for you but never actually does. These are all relationships that drag us down. We all deserve relationships that rise [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-164.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>I thought I was past this! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/thought-i-was-past-this/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2020 10:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming up and causing a lot of pain and frustration, &#8220;I thought I [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming up and causing a lot of pain and frustration, &#8220;I thought I [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21630/thought-i-was-past-this.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming up and causing a lot of pain and frustration, &#8220;I thought I [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-162.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>I thought I was past this! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We are six months into COVID and to say this has been a challenging time would be an understatement. These are hard times; many of us are hitting decision fatigue, frustration, and self-judgement.  If you’re like me, this one simple sentence keeps coming up and causing a lot of pain and frustration, &#8220;I thought I [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-162.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Showing Up for Others [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/showing-up-others-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2020 10:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21515</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Connection is something we all need as humans. It may look different for each of us and our capacities for connection can vary, but it’s still something we hunger for. I’ve talked about showing up for yourself before on the podcast, and today I’m sharing how you can show up for others. We often tell [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Connection is something we all need as humans. It may look different for each of us and our capacities for connection can vary, but it’s still something we hunger for. I’ve talked about showing up for yourself before on the podcast, and today I’m sharing]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Connection is something we all need as humans. It may look different for each of us and our capacities for connection can vary, but it’s still something we hunger for. I’ve talked about showing up for yourself before on the podcast, and today I’m sharing how you can show up for others. We often tell [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21515/showing-up-others-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Connection is something we all need as humans. It may look different for each of us and our capacities for connection can vary, but it’s still something we hunger for. I’ve talked about showing up for yourself before on the podcast, and today I’m sharing how you can show up for others. We often tell [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-161.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Showing Up for Others [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Full-Size-HSRDI-161.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>All of Our Selves with Hiro Boga</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/standing-with-yourself-hiro-boga/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2020 10:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21210</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I’m bringing a listener favorite back on the podcast today, Hiro Boga. If you’ve listened to any past episodes with Hiro, you will know how beautiful her soul is and how much wisdom she has to share. Her joyful laugh and loving presence make learning about ourselves that much more enjoyable. In our conversation today, [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I’m bringing a listener favorite back on the podcast today, Hiro Boga. If you’ve listened to any past episodes with Hiro, you will know how beautiful her soul is and how much wisdom she has to share. Her joyful laugh and loving presence make learning abo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I’m bringing a listener favorite back on the podcast today, Hiro Boga. If you’ve listened to any past episodes with Hiro, you will know how beautiful her soul is and how much wisdom she has to share. Her joyful laugh and loving presence make learning about ourselves that much more enjoyable. In our conversation today, [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21210/standing-with-yourself-hiro-boga.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’m bringing a listener favorite back on the podcast today, Hiro Boga. If you’ve listened to any past episodes with Hiro, you will know how beautiful her soul is and how much wisdom she has to share. Her joyful laugh and loving presence make learning about ourselves that much more enjoyable. In our conversation today, [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-160.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>All of Our Selves with Hiro Boga</title>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-160.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Standing with Yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/standing-with-yourself/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2020 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21362</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resilient, we need to feel through all of our emotions, the negative [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resi]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resilient, we need to feel through all of our emotions, the negative [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/21362/standing-with-yourself.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resilient, we need to feel through all of our emotions, the negative [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-159.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Standing with Yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[This has been quite the summer, my friends. I’ve cried a lot, felt angry, stressed, overwhelmed, and frustrated. But I’ve also felt curious, empathetic, and in awe. I’ve felt all the feelings this year. If we want to become stronger, braver and more resilient, we need to feel through all of our emotions, the negative [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-159.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>How We Get Out of This with Laura Boyd</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/get-out-of-this-laura-boyd/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2020 10:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=21255</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get out of this?” From an economic standpoint, there isn’t much I know [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get o]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get out of this?” From an economic standpoint, there isn’t much I know [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get out of this?” From an economic standpoint, there isn’t much I know [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>How We Get Out of This with Laura Boyd</title>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We’re still in the midst of the COVID pandemic and its effects are evident everywhere you look. Unemployment, economic crises, uncertainty felt by all, but especially by parents. If you’re like me, you may find yourself asking, “How are we going to get out of this?” From an economic standpoint, there isn’t much I know [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-158.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Evict the squatters in your brain [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/evict-squatters-brain-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2020 10:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20773</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s okay and not okay than to not speak up. That voice [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s okay and not okay than to not speak up. That voice [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20773/evict-squatters-brain-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s okay and not okay than to not speak up. That voice [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-154.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Evict the squatters in your brain [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There’s this mantra that I’ve heard Brené Brown use that says “Clear is kind.” And I think that applies to so many situations, like your communication with family members, emails, and the thoughts in your brain. It’s much kinder to be clear about what’s okay and not okay than to not speak up. That voice [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-154.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Invisible Soldier [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/invisible-soldier/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2020 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20681</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your personal mission to solve their problem. This, friends, is [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your pe]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your personal mission to solve their problem. This, friends, is [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20681/invisible-soldier.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your personal mission to solve their problem. This, friends, is [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-153.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>The Invisible Soldier [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself doing all the work for someone else’s vision? The word “we” is thrown around in meetings, yet you’re the one taking responsibility for “our” goals and vision. Or, you get an angsty email from someone and you make it your personal mission to solve their problem. This, friends, is [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-153.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Feeling a lot&#8230; and being tired [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/feeling-tired-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2020 10:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20601</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the decision fatigue.  If you are feeling exhausted right now, it’s okay. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the dec]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the decision fatigue.  If you are feeling exhausted right now, it’s okay. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20601/feeling-tired-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the decision fatigue.  If you are feeling exhausted right now, it’s okay. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-152.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Feeling a lot&#8230; and being tired [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[2020 has been an emotional roller coaster. We began the year thinking this would be an exciting start to a new decade only to experience a pandemic. But it’s not just COVID wearing us down. It’s our government, the economy, the racial injustices, the decision fatigue.  If you are feeling exhausted right now, it’s okay. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-152.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Know your WHY [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/know-your-why/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2020 10:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20506</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of them. But, my friends, I [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of them. But, my friends, I [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20506/know-your-why.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of them. But, my friends, I [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-151.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-151.jpg</url>
		<title>Know your WHY [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Right now in my state, people are having a civil outcry about being forced to wear masks. And I get it, they’re hot. They add more laundry to my workload and require me to remember to bring them everywhere. I don’t like wearing masks and I’m not a fan of them. But, my friends, I [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-151.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Confused and overwhelmed to seeing clearly [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/confused-overwhelmed/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2020 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20429</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think back to my brain in [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think ba]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think back to my brain in [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20429/confused-overwhelmed.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think back to my brain in [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-150.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Confused and overwhelmed to seeing clearly [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There is a lot going on in the world right now. From the pandemic to the Black Lives Matter movement to figuring out what the new normal is supposed to be, it’s a lot. But it’s okay. Every moment doesn’t have to be a yippy skippy moment.  When I think back to my brain in [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-150.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Just because you know it&#8230; doesn’t mean you live it [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/just-because-you-know-it/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2020 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20209</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it into our lives. We struggle because we expect ourselves to do it [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it into our lives. We struggle because we expect ourselves to do it [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20209/just-because-you-know-it.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it into our lives. We struggle because we expect ourselves to do it [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-149.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Just because you know it&#8230; doesn’t mean you live it [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We all have beliefs about how we should be living our lives. We get those beliefs from the intellectual knowledge we gain from school, reading, conferences, and more. And even though we’ve learned that knowledge, many of us still struggle to implement it into our lives. We struggle because we expect ourselves to do it [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-149.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>I will not be silent</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/i-will-not-be-silent/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2020 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20261</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m listening. And [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m list]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m listening. And [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20261/i-will-not-be-silent.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m listening. And [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-148.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>I will not be silent</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I’ve always believed in using my voice, but last week I found myself frozen. I was scared I didn’t know enough or that I would say the wrong thing. The reason I was frozen is because I had fear and shame in me. I want you to know that I see you. I’m listening. And [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-148.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Control + Uncertainty [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/control-uncertainty-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2020 10:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20082</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all want certainty because it gives [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all want certainty because it gives [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20082/control-uncertainty-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all want certainty because it gives [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-147.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Control + Uncertainty [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Up until the pandemic, many of us thought we were in control of our lives. Then the virus happened and it gave a lot of us anxiety because we realized we aren’t in control. But the thing is, we were never in control and things were never certain. We all want certainty because it gives [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-147.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What are you feeding your brain? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/feeding-brain-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2020 10:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=20010</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right now, we can’t give that [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right now, we can’t give that [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/20010/feeding-brain-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right now, we can’t give that [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-146.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-146.jpg</url>
		<title>What are you feeding your brain? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When you wake up in the morning, what’s rumbling in your brain? Do you feel overwhelmed or like you just want to hide in bed? Most of us reach for our phones the second we wake up, but what does that feed our brains? Our brains love certainty, and right now, we can’t give that [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-146.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What permission do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-permission-do-you-need/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2020 10:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19925</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now. One of the ways to show yourself compassion [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now. One of the ways to show yourself compassion [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19925/what-permission-do-you-need.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now. One of the ways to show yourself compassion [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-145.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-145.jpg</url>
		<title>What permission do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Each one of us is experiencing this pandemic in our own way. Some of us have never been more stressed out and anxious, others are living on a razor’s edge. No matter what your situation is, we all need a little more self-compassion and kindness right now. One of the ways to show yourself compassion [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-145.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Living on a razor edge [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/living-razors-edge/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2020 10:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19763</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And that metaphor just made [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And t]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And that metaphor just made [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19763/living-razors-edge.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And that metaphor just made [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-144.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-144.jpg</url>
		<title>Living on a razor edge [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever get the feeling that even when things are going okay, they could go bad at any second? You, like me, may have lots to be grateful for. But it’s like one bad mood could throw everything off. I was told it’s like living on a razor’s edge. And that metaphor just made [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-144.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What structure do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-structure-need-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2020 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19685</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To take it a step further, I want you to [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To take it a step further, I want you to [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19685/what-structure-need-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To take it a step further, I want you to [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-143.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-143.jpg</url>
		<title>What structure do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Well, friends, we’ve made it to week six of quarantine. It feels like my family is finally getting into a flow state and using better communication with each other. And, I’m taking the time to communicate better with myself and ask myself what I need. To take it a step further, I want you to [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-143.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What you need to believe in yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/believe-in-yourself-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2020 10:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19574</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? It all boils down to your confidence in yourself. If [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? It all boils down to your confidence in yourself. If [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19574/believe-in-yourself-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? It all boils down to your confidence in yourself. If [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-142.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-142.jpg</url>
		<title>What you need to believe in yourself [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Let me ask you an important question: Are you achieving to believe or believing to achieve? By that I mean, are you treating your achievements like proof that you should believe in yourself or are you believing in yourself so you can achieve your goals? It all boils down to your confidence in yourself. If [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-142.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>But you’ve already learned it!!! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/but-youve-already-learned-it/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2020 10:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19506</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thinking, circling back is not pointless. Going deeper into something you’ve already [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thin]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thinking, circling back is not pointless. Going deeper into something you’ve already [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19506/but-youve-already-learned-it.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thinking, circling back is not pointless. Going deeper into something you’ve already [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-141.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-141.jpg</url>
		<title>But you’ve already learned it!!! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Like most over-achievers, I like checking boxes and moving onto the next task or the next goal. Going back to something you’ve already learned can seem pointless. But, if you want something to be ingrained in your bones and to come naturally without thinking, circling back is not pointless. Going deeper into something you’ve already [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-141.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>What do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/what-do-you-need/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2020 10:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19402</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventing you from being vulnerable. We all need something, but many of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventi]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventing you from being vulnerable. We all need something, but many of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19402/what-do-you-need.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventing you from being vulnerable. We all need something, but many of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-140.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-140.jpg</url>
		<title>What do you need? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you think putting your needs first is selfish. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t have time for it. Raise your hand if you don&#8217;t think you need anything. If you raised your hand, your resistance to caring for yourself is preventing you from being vulnerable. We all need something, but many of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-140.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Grace is what we need right now [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/grace-is-what-we-need-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2020 10:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19342</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-achiever, you&#8217;re expecting yourself to maintain the same level of efficiency that you [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-a]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-achiever, you&#8217;re expecting yourself to maintain the same level of efficiency that you [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19342/grace-is-what-we-need-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-achiever, you&#8217;re expecting yourself to maintain the same level of efficiency that you [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-139.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-139.jpg</url>
		<title>Grace is what we need right now [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How many pandemics have you experienced in your lifetime? If you’re like me, this is your first. Yet for some reason, you’re expecting yourself to be an expert at working from home, keeping your family calm, and being productive. If you&#8217;re a high-achiever, you&#8217;re expecting yourself to maintain the same level of efficiency that you [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-139.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Managing all the emotions around you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/managing-emotions-around-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2020 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19241</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done while your kids want your [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done whil]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done while your kids want your [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/19241/managing-emotions-around-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done while your kids want your [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-138.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-138.jpg</url>
		<title>Managing all the emotions around you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I talk a lot about managing your own emotions on this podcast. But now that so many of us are working from home, the topic of managing others’ emotions has come up. You may be seeing your spouse more than you’re used to or be trying to get work done while your kids want your [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-138.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Cloaking from perfectionism [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/cloaking-perfectionism-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2020 10:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=19149</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When I was a teenager, I told myself that if I looked perfect, I would be safe. I would be loved and feel like I belonged. My perfectionism left me feeling burnt out and constantly unworthy. Although I’ve left the language of perfectionism behind, I realized something recently. My mindset has still been operating with [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When I was a teenager, I told myself that if I looked perfect, I would be safe. I would be loved and feel like I belonged. My perfectionism left me feeling burnt out and constantly unworthy. Although I’ve left the language of perfectionism behind, I real]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When I was a teenager, I told myself that if I looked perfect, I would be safe. I would be loved and feel like I belonged. My perfectionism left me feeling burnt out and constantly unworthy. Although I’ve left the language of perfectionism behind, I realized something recently. My mindset has still been operating with [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When I was a teenager, I told myself that if I looked perfect, I would be safe. I would be loved and feel like I belonged. My perfectionism left me feeling burnt out and constantly unworthy. Although I’ve left the language of perfectionism behind, I realized something recently. My mindset has still been operating with [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-137.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Cloaking from perfectionism [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When I was a teenager, I told myself that if I looked perfect, I would be safe. I would be loved and feel like I belonged. My perfectionism left me feeling burnt out and constantly unworthy. Although I’ve left the language of perfectionism behind, I realized something recently. My mindset has still been operating with [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-137.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Why your brain focuses on the worst that can happen [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/brain-focus-worst-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 13 Mar 2020 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18889</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Most of us are running around life worrying about the worst that can happen. We try to prepare ourselves for the worst by dress rehearsing tragedy so we can be &#8220;ready&#8221; when (not if!) it comes. We focus on all the things we don&#8217;t want to happen way more than we focus on the things we do.  [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Most of us are running around life worrying about the worst that can happen. We try to prepare ourselves for the worst by dress rehearsing tragedy so we can be &#8220;ready&#8221; when (not if!) it comes. We focus on all the things we don&#8217;t want to]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Most of us are running around life worrying about the worst that can happen. We try to prepare ourselves for the worst by dress rehearsing tragedy so we can be &#8220;ready&#8221; when (not if!) it comes. We focus on all the things we don&#8217;t want to happen way more than we focus on the things we do.  [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18889/brain-focus-worst-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most of us are running around life worrying about the worst that can happen. We try to prepare ourselves for the worst by dress rehearsing tragedy so we can be &#8220;ready&#8221; when (not if!) it comes. We focus on all the things we don&#8217;t want to happen way more than we focus on the things we do.  [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-136.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Why your brain focuses on the worst that can happen [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Most of us are running around life worrying about the worst that can happen. We try to prepare ourselves for the worst by dress rehearsing tragedy so we can be &#8220;ready&#8221; when (not if!) it comes. We focus on all the things we don&#8217;t want to happen way more than we focus on the things we do.  [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-136.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Think Time [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/think-time-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2020 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18888</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I used to have a story about myself that I wasn&#8217;t a creative person. And while I got over that a while ago and have embraced my creativity, creativity isn&#8217;t always given the time + space it deserves. That&#8217;s why I want to talk to you about one of the most necessary parts of the [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I used to have a story about myself that I wasn&#8217;t a creative person. And while I got over that a while ago and have embraced my creativity, creativity isn&#8217;t always given the time + space it deserves. That&#8217;s why I want to talk to you abo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I used to have a story about myself that I wasn&#8217;t a creative person. And while I got over that a while ago and have embraced my creativity, creativity isn&#8217;t always given the time + space it deserves. That&#8217;s why I want to talk to you about one of the most necessary parts of the [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18888/think-time-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I used to have a story about myself that I wasn&#8217;t a creative person. And while I got over that a while ago and have embraced my creativity, creativity isn&#8217;t always given the time + space it deserves. That&#8217;s why I want to talk to you about one of the most necessary parts of the [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-135.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-135.jpg</url>
		<title>Think Time [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I used to have a story about myself that I wasn&#8217;t a creative person. And while I got over that a while ago and have embraced my creativity, creativity isn&#8217;t always given the time + space it deserves. That&#8217;s why I want to talk to you about one of the most necessary parts of the [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-135.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Getting other people to believe in you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/getting-people-believe-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2020 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18741</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[From the time we&#8217;re young, we&#8217;re taught to value what other people think of us. We want our teachers to like us, our coaches to be proud of our effort, and our friends and family to like us. We want them to believe in us, but we aren&#8217;t taught to put the same emphasis on [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[From the time we&#8217;re young, we&#8217;re taught to value what other people think of us. We want our teachers to like us, our coaches to be proud of our effort, and our friends and family to like us. We want them to believe in us, but we aren&#8217;t ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[From the time we&#8217;re young, we&#8217;re taught to value what other people think of us. We want our teachers to like us, our coaches to be proud of our effort, and our friends and family to like us. We want them to believe in us, but we aren&#8217;t taught to put the same emphasis on [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18741/getting-people-believe-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[From the time we&#8217;re young, we&#8217;re taught to value what other people think of us. We want our teachers to like us, our coaches to be proud of our effort, and our friends and family to like us. We want them to believe in us, but we aren&#8217;t taught to put the same emphasis on [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-134.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-134.jpg</url>
		<title>Getting other people to believe in you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[From the time we&#8217;re young, we&#8217;re taught to value what other people think of us. We want our teachers to like us, our coaches to be proud of our effort, and our friends and family to like us. We want them to believe in us, but we aren&#8217;t taught to put the same emphasis on [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-134.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>It&#8217;s not supposed to happen that way&#8230; [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/not-supposed-to-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 21 Feb 2020 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18740</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever find yourself planning something with friends or family, and it seems impossibly difficult? We think to ourselves, &#8220;It&#8217;s not supposed to happen this way. It&#8217;s supposed to be easy!&#8221; We give up before we&#8217;ve even started, all because of this story. We use this idea &#8211; &#8220;it&#8217;s not supposed to happen that [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever find yourself planning something with friends or family, and it seems impossibly difficult? We think to ourselves, &#8220;It&#8217;s not supposed to happen this way. It&#8217;s supposed to be easy!&#8221; We give up before we&#8217;ve even st]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever find yourself planning something with friends or family, and it seems impossibly difficult? We think to ourselves, &#8220;It&#8217;s not supposed to happen this way. It&#8217;s supposed to be easy!&#8221; We give up before we&#8217;ve even started, all because of this story. We use this idea &#8211; &#8220;it&#8217;s not supposed to happen that [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18740/not-supposed-to-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever find yourself planning something with friends or family, and it seems impossibly difficult? We think to ourselves, &#8220;It&#8217;s not supposed to happen this way. It&#8217;s supposed to be easy!&#8221; We give up before we&#8217;ve even started, all because of this story. We use this idea &#8211; &#8220;it&#8217;s not supposed to happen that [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-133.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-133.jpg</url>
		<title>It&#8217;s not supposed to happen that way&#8230; [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever find yourself planning something with friends or family, and it seems impossibly difficult? We think to ourselves, &#8220;It&#8217;s not supposed to happen this way. It&#8217;s supposed to be easy!&#8221; We give up before we&#8217;ve even started, all because of this story. We use this idea &#8211; &#8220;it&#8217;s not supposed to happen that [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-133.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The one thing [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/one-thing-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2020 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18651</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip on many of our lives + drives so [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip o]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip on many of our lives + drives so [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18651/one-thing-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip on many of our lives + drives so [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-132.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-132.jpg</url>
		<title>The one thing [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I want to talk about shame on today&#8217;s episode, because this is something that we all deal with. I know when you&#8217;re caught in a shame spiral, it feels so isolating. But I promise that every single one of us deals with shame. Shame has a grip on many of our lives + drives so [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-132.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Our strength becomes our biggest weakness [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/strength-weakness-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jan 2020 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18486</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Most of us think that our strengths are what take us everywhere in life. We think that working hard, going above and beyond, and sacrificing ourselves for others are the strengths that will give us the results we really want. But for over-achievers, those &#8220;strengths&#8221; can quickly turn into our biggest weaknesses. When your biggest [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Most of us think that our strengths are what take us everywhere in life. We think that working hard, going above and beyond, and sacrificing ourselves for others are the strengths that will give us the results we really want. But for over-achievers, thos]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Most of us think that our strengths are what take us everywhere in life. We think that working hard, going above and beyond, and sacrificing ourselves for others are the strengths that will give us the results we really want. But for over-achievers, those &#8220;strengths&#8221; can quickly turn into our biggest weaknesses. When your biggest [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18486/strength-weakness-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Most of us think that our strengths are what take us everywhere in life. We think that working hard, going above and beyond, and sacrificing ourselves for others are the strengths that will give us the results we really want. But for over-achievers, those &#8220;strengths&#8221; can quickly turn into our biggest weaknesses. When your biggest [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-130.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-130.jpg</url>
		<title>Our strength becomes our biggest weakness [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Most of us think that our strengths are what take us everywhere in life. We think that working hard, going above and beyond, and sacrificing ourselves for others are the strengths that will give us the results we really want. But for over-achievers, those &#8220;strengths&#8221; can quickly turn into our biggest weaknesses. When your biggest [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-130.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Perfect + amazing [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/perfect-amazing-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jan 2020 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18368</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[A long time ago I eliminated the word &#8220;perfect&#8221; from my vocabulary. I had learned that perfection is the birthplace of shame, and that when we strive to be perfect we actually have to hustle harder while feeling worse. I planned to take &#8220;perfect&#8221; out of my vocabulary so I didn&#8217;t feel like I (or [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[A long time ago I eliminated the word &#8220;perfect&#8221; from my vocabulary. I had learned that perfection is the birthplace of shame, and that when we strive to be perfect we actually have to hustle harder while feeling worse. I planned to take &#822]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[A long time ago I eliminated the word &#8220;perfect&#8221; from my vocabulary. I had learned that perfection is the birthplace of shame, and that when we strive to be perfect we actually have to hustle harder while feeling worse. I planned to take &#8220;perfect&#8221; out of my vocabulary so I didn&#8217;t feel like I (or [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18368/perfect-amazing-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[A long time ago I eliminated the word &#8220;perfect&#8221; from my vocabulary. I had learned that perfection is the birthplace of shame, and that when we strive to be perfect we actually have to hustle harder while feeling worse. I planned to take &#8220;perfect&#8221; out of my vocabulary so I didn&#8217;t feel like I (or [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-129.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Perfect + amazing [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[A long time ago I eliminated the word &#8220;perfect&#8221; from my vocabulary. I had learned that perfection is the birthplace of shame, and that when we strive to be perfect we actually have to hustle harder while feeling worse. I planned to take &#8220;perfect&#8221; out of my vocabulary so I didn&#8217;t feel like I (or [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-129.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Do more, be more, live more [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/live-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jan 2020 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18284</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Today we&#8217;re going to be challenging our cultural programming + our brains. This is especially true for my high achievers out there. I want you to get off the hamster wheel and start living your dream life. And for you to do that, you need to slow down my friend. It is possible for you [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Today we&#8217;re going to be challenging our cultural programming + our brains. This is especially true for my high achievers out there. I want you to get off the hamster wheel and start living your dream life. And for you to do that, you need to slow d]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Today we&#8217;re going to be challenging our cultural programming + our brains. This is especially true for my high achievers out there. I want you to get off the hamster wheel and start living your dream life. And for you to do that, you need to slow down my friend. It is possible for you [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today we&#8217;re going to be challenging our cultural programming + our brains. This is especially true for my high achievers out there. I want you to get off the hamster wheel and start living your dream life. And for you to do that, you need to slow down my friend. It is possible for you [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>Do more, be more, live more [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Today we&#8217;re going to be challenging our cultural programming + our brains. This is especially true for my high achievers out there. I want you to get off the hamster wheel and start living your dream life. And for you to do that, you need to slow down my friend. It is possible for you [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-128.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Life balance [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/life-balance-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jan 2020 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18222</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I want to talk about a particular pet peeve of mine this week: the idea of life balance. For a long time, I totally bought into the idea that we could achieve life balance. A lot of my clients do, too &#8211; the idea of life balance is like catnip for high-achievers. That&#8217;s because achieving [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I want to talk about a particular pet peeve of mine this week: the idea of life balance. For a long time, I totally bought into the idea that we could achieve life balance. A lot of my clients do, too &#8211; the idea of life balance is like catnip for h]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I want to talk about a particular pet peeve of mine this week: the idea of life balance. For a long time, I totally bought into the idea that we could achieve life balance. A lot of my clients do, too &#8211; the idea of life balance is like catnip for high-achievers. That&#8217;s because achieving [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18222/life-balance-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I want to talk about a particular pet peeve of mine this week: the idea of life balance. For a long time, I totally bought into the idea that we could achieve life balance. A lot of my clients do, too &#8211; the idea of life balance is like catnip for high-achievers. That&#8217;s because achieving [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-127.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Life balance [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I want to talk about a particular pet peeve of mine this week: the idea of life balance. For a long time, I totally bought into the idea that we could achieve life balance. A lot of my clients do, too &#8211; the idea of life balance is like catnip for high-achievers. That&#8217;s because achieving [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-127.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Disappointment is part of the process [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/disappointment-process-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jan 2020 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=18170</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Welcome to a new decade everyone! I am so excited for what this new chapter has in store, for me and for all of you. I&#8217;m so grateful that you&#8217;re here. I wanted to kick off 2020 by talking about one of life&#8217;s inevitable feelings: disappointment. People are so afraid of disappointing themselves and others [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Welcome to a new decade everyone! I am so excited for what this new chapter has in store, for me and for all of you. I&#8217;m so grateful that you&#8217;re here. I wanted to kick off 2020 by talking about one of life&#8217;s inevitable feelings: disappo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Welcome to a new decade everyone! I am so excited for what this new chapter has in store, for me and for all of you. I&#8217;m so grateful that you&#8217;re here. I wanted to kick off 2020 by talking about one of life&#8217;s inevitable feelings: disappointment. People are so afraid of disappointing themselves and others [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/18170/disappointment-process-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to a new decade everyone! I am so excited for what this new chapter has in store, for me and for all of you. I&#8217;m so grateful that you&#8217;re here. I wanted to kick off 2020 by talking about one of life&#8217;s inevitable feelings: disappointment. People are so afraid of disappointing themselves and others [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-126.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-126.jpg</url>
		<title>Disappointment is part of the process [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Welcome to a new decade everyone! I am so excited for what this new chapter has in store, for me and for all of you. I&#8217;m so grateful that you&#8217;re here. I wanted to kick off 2020 by talking about one of life&#8217;s inevitable feelings: disappointment. People are so afraid of disappointing themselves and others [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-126.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Other people liking you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/people-liking-you-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Aug 2019 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=16439</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We spend a lot of time worrying about whether or not other people like us. We put so much energy into appearances to make sure everyone else has a positive opinion of us&#8230; and it’s exhausting. People liking (or not liking) us says nothing about who we are as people. Oftentimes, other people are simply [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We spend a lot of time worrying about whether or not other people like us. We put so much energy into appearances to make sure everyone else has a positive opinion of us&#8230; and it’s exhausting. People liking (or not liking) us says nothing about who ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We spend a lot of time worrying about whether or not other people like us. We put so much energy into appearances to make sure everyone else has a positive opinion of us&#8230; and it’s exhausting. People liking (or not liking) us says nothing about who we are as people. Oftentimes, other people are simply [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/16439/people-liking-you-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We spend a lot of time worrying about whether or not other people like us. We put so much energy into appearances to make sure everyone else has a positive opinion of us&#8230; and it’s exhausting. People liking (or not liking) us says nothing about who we are as people. Oftentimes, other people are simply [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-106.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-106.jpg</url>
		<title>Other people liking you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We spend a lot of time worrying about whether or not other people like us. We put so much energy into appearances to make sure everyone else has a positive opinion of us&#8230; and it’s exhausting. People liking (or not liking) us says nothing about who we are as people. Oftentimes, other people are simply [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-106.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>When shit happens [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/when-shit-happens/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Aug 2019 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=16437</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Things will not always go the way you want them to. That is a fact of life, as frustrating as it is, and the only thing we can control is how we react to it. When shit happens, we can choose how we let it affect us. Our immediate reaction to when things go wrong [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Things will not always go the way you want them to. That is a fact of life, as frustrating as it is, and the only thing we can control is how we react to it. When shit happens, we can choose how we let it affect us. Our immediate reaction to when things ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Things will not always go the way you want them to. That is a fact of life, as frustrating as it is, and the only thing we can control is how we react to it. When shit happens, we can choose how we let it affect us. Our immediate reaction to when things go wrong [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/16437/when-shit-happens.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Things will not always go the way you want them to. That is a fact of life, as frustrating as it is, and the only thing we can control is how we react to it. When shit happens, we can choose how we let it affect us. Our immediate reaction to when things go wrong [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-105.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-105.jpg</url>
		<title>When shit happens [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Things will not always go the way you want them to. That is a fact of life, as frustrating as it is, and the only thing we can control is how we react to it. When shit happens, we can choose how we let it affect us. Our immediate reaction to when things go wrong [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Full-Size-HSRDI-105.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Make it better [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/make-better-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jul 2019 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=16098</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We run into obstacles every day that can irritate us and test our patience&#8230; as long as we see them as problems, that is. When we go into these situations without being intentional, they can end up following us and weighing us down unnecessarily. Sometimes, we can’t change the obstacles we face, but we can [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We run into obstacles every day that can irritate us and test our patience&#8230; as long as we see them as problems, that is. When we go into these situations without being intentional, they can end up following us and weighing us down unnecessarily. So]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We run into obstacles every day that can irritate us and test our patience&#8230; as long as we see them as problems, that is. When we go into these situations without being intentional, they can end up following us and weighing us down unnecessarily. Sometimes, we can’t change the obstacles we face, but we can [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/16098/make-better-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We run into obstacles every day that can irritate us and test our patience&#8230; as long as we see them as problems, that is. When we go into these situations without being intentional, they can end up following us and weighing us down unnecessarily. Sometimes, we can’t change the obstacles we face, but we can [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-102.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-102.jpg</url>
		<title>Make it better [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We run into obstacles every day that can irritate us and test our patience&#8230; as long as we see them as problems, that is. When we go into these situations without being intentional, they can end up following us and weighing us down unnecessarily. Sometimes, we can’t change the obstacles we face, but we can [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-102.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Ghosted by a friend&#8230; now what? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/ghosted-friend-now-what-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jul 2019 10:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=15980</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Friendships can be tricky, especially for adults. We all have a million and one things going on at any time, so finding time to nurture our friendships can be tough. And, we&#8217;re all different people with varying expectations, time, needs, and interests. Sometimes, a friend might ghost us &#8211; either temporarily or permanently. If you&#8217;ve [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Friendships can be tricky, especially for adults. We all have a million and one things going on at any time, so finding time to nurture our friendships can be tough. And, we&#8217;re all different people with varying expectations, time, needs, and intere]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Friendships can be tricky, especially for adults. We all have a million and one things going on at any time, so finding time to nurture our friendships can be tough. And, we&#8217;re all different people with varying expectations, time, needs, and interests. Sometimes, a friend might ghost us &#8211; either temporarily or permanently. If you&#8217;ve [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/15980/ghosted-friend-now-what-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Friendships can be tricky, especially for adults. We all have a million and one things going on at any time, so finding time to nurture our friendships can be tough. And, we&#8217;re all different people with varying expectations, time, needs, and interests. Sometimes, a friend might ghost us &#8211; either temporarily or permanently. If you&#8217;ve [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-100.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-100.jpg</url>
		<title>Ghosted by a friend&#8230; now what? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Friendships can be tricky, especially for adults. We all have a million and one things going on at any time, so finding time to nurture our friendships can be tough. And, we&#8217;re all different people with varying expectations, time, needs, and interests. Sometimes, a friend might ghost us &#8211; either temporarily or permanently. If you&#8217;ve [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Full-Size-HSRDI-100.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What the f*ck is good enough? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/good-enough-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jun 2019 10:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=15836</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[In my work with clients, I get a backstage pass to the struggles of some really kind, smart, hard-working people. Some of them wouldn&#8217;t agree with that description because they&#8217;re relentlessly hard on themselves most of the time. That&#8217;s one thing they&#8217;d probably all agree that they have in common: they constantly feel like they&#8217;re [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[In my work with clients, I get a backstage pass to the struggles of some really kind, smart, hard-working people. Some of them wouldn&#8217;t agree with that description because they&#8217;re relentlessly hard on themselves most of the time. That&#8217;s]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[In my work with clients, I get a backstage pass to the struggles of some really kind, smart, hard-working people. Some of them wouldn&#8217;t agree with that description because they&#8217;re relentlessly hard on themselves most of the time. That&#8217;s one thing they&#8217;d probably all agree that they have in common: they constantly feel like they&#8217;re [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/15836/good-enough-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[In my work with clients, I get a backstage pass to the struggles of some really kind, smart, hard-working people. Some of them wouldn&#8217;t agree with that description because they&#8217;re relentlessly hard on themselves most of the time. That&#8217;s one thing they&#8217;d probably all agree that they have in common: they constantly feel like they&#8217;re [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-99.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-99.jpg</url>
		<title>What the f*ck is good enough? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[In my work with clients, I get a backstage pass to the struggles of some really kind, smart, hard-working people. Some of them wouldn&#8217;t agree with that description because they&#8217;re relentlessly hard on themselves most of the time. That&#8217;s one thing they&#8217;d probably all agree that they have in common: they constantly feel like they&#8217;re [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-99.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Capacity + energy [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/capacity-energy-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2019 10:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=15625</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Knowing how to manage your time is an important skill no matter what you do, but I&#8217;ve found traditional &#8220;time-blocking&#8221; time management techniques to be totally the wrong fit for me. I prefer to think about, and check in with, my capacity and my energy. Energy is exactly what it sounds like &#8211; all your energy [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Knowing how to manage your time is an important skill no matter what you do, but I&#8217;ve found traditional &#8220;time-blocking&#8221; time management techniques to be totally the wrong fit for me. I prefer to think about, and check in with, my capaci]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Knowing how to manage your time is an important skill no matter what you do, but I&#8217;ve found traditional &#8220;time-blocking&#8221; time management techniques to be totally the wrong fit for me. I prefer to think about, and check in with, my capacity and my energy. Energy is exactly what it sounds like &#8211; all your energy [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/15625/capacity-energy-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Knowing how to manage your time is an important skill no matter what you do, but I&#8217;ve found traditional &#8220;time-blocking&#8221; time management techniques to be totally the wrong fit for me. I prefer to think about, and check in with, my capacity and my energy. Energy is exactly what it sounds like &#8211; all your energy [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-97.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Capacity + energy [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Knowing how to manage your time is an important skill no matter what you do, but I&#8217;ve found traditional &#8220;time-blocking&#8221; time management techniques to be totally the wrong fit for me. I prefer to think about, and check in with, my capacity and my energy. Energy is exactly what it sounds like &#8211; all your energy [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Full-Size-HSRDI-97.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>White Knight syndrome [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/white-knight-syndrome-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2019 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=15519</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Do you ever wish someone would swoop in and save you from your life? Maybe work has been especially hard lately, or you&#8217;re going through a difficult time in a relationship. It&#8217;s tempting to want someone to come take care of you. We all do this. I call this White Knight syndrome &#8211; wanting someone [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Do you ever wish someone would swoop in and save you from your life? Maybe work has been especially hard lately, or you&#8217;re going through a difficult time in a relationship. It&#8217;s tempting to want someone to come take care of you. We all do thi]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you ever wish someone would swoop in and save you from your life? Maybe work has been especially hard lately, or you&#8217;re going through a difficult time in a relationship. It&#8217;s tempting to want someone to come take care of you. We all do this. I call this White Knight syndrome &#8211; wanting someone [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you ever wish someone would swoop in and save you from your life? Maybe work has been especially hard lately, or you&#8217;re going through a difficult time in a relationship. It&#8217;s tempting to want someone to come take care of you. We all do this. I call this White Knight syndrome &#8211; wanting someone [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-95.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>White Knight syndrome [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Do you ever wish someone would swoop in and save you from your life? Maybe work has been especially hard lately, or you&#8217;re going through a difficult time in a relationship. It&#8217;s tempting to want someone to come take care of you. We all do this. I call this White Knight syndrome &#8211; wanting someone [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-95.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Perfection is sneaky [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/perfection-sneaky-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 May 2019 10:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=15124</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been culturally programmed to believe that being perfect will make us safe. Valued. Successful. Loved. Perfection isn&#8217;t the source of any of those feelings. It&#8217;s an enemy of them. Chasing perfection is exhausting. It&#8217;s the birthplace of shame, and instead of making you feel valued, loved, or successful, it will put you under constant [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been culturally programmed to believe that being perfect will make us safe. Valued. Successful. Loved. Perfection isn&#8217;t the source of any of those feelings. It&#8217;s an enemy of them. Chasing perfection is exhausting. It&#8217;s the b]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been culturally programmed to believe that being perfect will make us safe. Valued. Successful. Loved. Perfection isn&#8217;t the source of any of those feelings. It&#8217;s an enemy of them. Chasing perfection is exhausting. It&#8217;s the birthplace of shame, and instead of making you feel valued, loved, or successful, it will put you under constant [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been culturally programmed to believe that being perfect will make us safe. Valued. Successful. Loved. Perfection isn&#8217;t the source of any of those feelings. It&#8217;s an enemy of them. Chasing perfection is exhausting. It&#8217;s the birthplace of shame, and instead of making you feel valued, loved, or successful, it will put you under constant [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-91.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Perfection is sneaky [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve been culturally programmed to believe that being perfect will make us safe. Valued. Successful. Loved. Perfection isn&#8217;t the source of any of those feelings. It&#8217;s an enemy of them. Chasing perfection is exhausting. It&#8217;s the birthplace of shame, and instead of making you feel valued, loved, or successful, it will put you under constant [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Full-Size-HSRDI-91.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The lens we look through [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/lens-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2019 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=15034</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. This quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite sayings in the world. It shifted things for me in some really amazing ways, and I think it may be helpful for you, too. This episode uses that quote as [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. This quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite sayings in the world. It shifted things for me in some really amazing ways, and I think it may be helpful for you, too. This epi]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. This quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite sayings in the world. It shifted things for me in some really amazing ways, and I think it may be helpful for you, too. This episode uses that quote as [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/15034/lens-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. This quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite sayings in the world. It shifted things for me in some really amazing ways, and I think it may be helpful for you, too. This episode uses that quote as [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-90.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The lens we look through [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. This quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer is one of my favorite sayings in the world. It shifted things for me in some really amazing ways, and I think it may be helpful for you, too. This episode uses that quote as [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-90.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Burnout&#8230; the cause [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/burnout-cause-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 05 Apr 2019 10:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14832</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Burnout is a really popular word these days and an even more popular worry. Parents worry that their kids are going to get burnt out on sports, and employees worry about feeling burnt out at work and needing to leave a perfectly good job. I think these worries about burnout are more often based in [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Burnout is a really popular word these days and an even more popular worry. Parents worry that their kids are going to get burnt out on sports, and employees worry about feeling burnt out at work and needing to leave a perfectly good job. I think these w]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Burnout is a really popular word these days and an even more popular worry. Parents worry that their kids are going to get burnt out on sports, and employees worry about feeling burnt out at work and needing to leave a perfectly good job. I think these worries about burnout are more often based in [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14832/burnout-cause-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Burnout is a really popular word these days and an even more popular worry. Parents worry that their kids are going to get burnt out on sports, and employees worry about feeling burnt out at work and needing to leave a perfectly good job. I think these worries about burnout are more often based in [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-87.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Burnout&#8230; the cause [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Burnout is a really popular word these days and an even more popular worry. Parents worry that their kids are going to get burnt out on sports, and employees worry about feeling burnt out at work and needing to leave a perfectly good job. I think these worries about burnout are more often based in [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/Full-Size-HSRDI-87.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Stop settling for &#8220;as good as it gets&#8221; [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/settling-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Mar 2019 10:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14766</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve never liked the idea that so many of us look at our life and think, &#8220;Well, this is as good as it gets.&#8221; I used to be one of those people. And now that I&#8217;m not, the idea of settling for a life that&#8217;s just &#8220;good enough&#8221; is scary. So often we settle for other people&#8217;s [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve never liked the idea that so many of us look at our life and think, &#8220;Well, this is as good as it gets.&#8221; I used to be one of those people. And now that I&#8217;m not, the idea of settling for a life that&#8217;s just &#8220;good eno]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve never liked the idea that so many of us look at our life and think, &#8220;Well, this is as good as it gets.&#8221; I used to be one of those people. And now that I&#8217;m not, the idea of settling for a life that&#8217;s just &#8220;good enough&#8221; is scary. So often we settle for other people&#8217;s [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14766/settling-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve never liked the idea that so many of us look at our life and think, &#8220;Well, this is as good as it gets.&#8221; I used to be one of those people. And now that I&#8217;m not, the idea of settling for a life that&#8217;s just &#8220;good enough&#8221; is scary. So often we settle for other people&#8217;s [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-86.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Stop settling for &#8220;as good as it gets&#8221; [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve never liked the idea that so many of us look at our life and think, &#8220;Well, this is as good as it gets.&#8221; I used to be one of those people. And now that I&#8217;m not, the idea of settling for a life that&#8217;s just &#8220;good enough&#8221; is scary. So often we settle for other people&#8217;s [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-86.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Change is possible for you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/change-possible-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Mar 2019 10:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14657</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Change is difficult. Not only are you often working to reshape old habits and create something entirely new &#8211; you have to defeat obstacles in your own brain, too. We often get in our own way when we&#8217;re trying to change by &#8220;story fondling&#8221; and looking for negative evidence about our abilities. Instead of focusing [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Change is difficult. Not only are you often working to reshape old habits and create something entirely new &#8211; you have to defeat obstacles in your own brain, too. We often get in our own way when we&#8217;re trying to change by &#8220;story fondlin]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Change is difficult. Not only are you often working to reshape old habits and create something entirely new &#8211; you have to defeat obstacles in your own brain, too. We often get in our own way when we&#8217;re trying to change by &#8220;story fondling&#8221; and looking for negative evidence about our abilities. Instead of focusing [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14657/change-possible-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Change is difficult. Not only are you often working to reshape old habits and create something entirely new &#8211; you have to defeat obstacles in your own brain, too. We often get in our own way when we&#8217;re trying to change by &#8220;story fondling&#8221; and looking for negative evidence about our abilities. Instead of focusing [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-85.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-85.jpg</url>
		<title>Change is possible for you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Change is difficult. Not only are you often working to reshape old habits and create something entirely new &#8211; you have to defeat obstacles in your own brain, too. We often get in our own way when we&#8217;re trying to change by &#8220;story fondling&#8221; and looking for negative evidence about our abilities. Instead of focusing [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-85.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Success [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/success-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Mar 2019 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14539</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When you hear the word &#8220;success,&#8221; what image does it conjure up for you? How does it make you feel? The concept of success is supposed to be motivating, but for many of us, it triggers tons of doubt, shame, and negative self-talk. I have some good news about success: it can look like whatever [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you hear the word &#8220;success,&#8221; what image does it conjure up for you? How does it make you feel? The concept of success is supposed to be motivating, but for many of us, it triggers tons of doubt, shame, and negative self-talk. I have some]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you hear the word &#8220;success,&#8221; what image does it conjure up for you? How does it make you feel? The concept of success is supposed to be motivating, but for many of us, it triggers tons of doubt, shame, and negative self-talk. I have some good news about success: it can look like whatever [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14539/success-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you hear the word &#8220;success,&#8221; what image does it conjure up for you? How does it make you feel? The concept of success is supposed to be motivating, but for many of us, it triggers tons of doubt, shame, and negative self-talk. I have some good news about success: it can look like whatever [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-84.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Success [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[When you hear the word &#8220;success,&#8221; what image does it conjure up for you? How does it make you feel? The concept of success is supposed to be motivating, but for many of us, it triggers tons of doubt, shame, and negative self-talk. I have some good news about success: it can look like whatever [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-84.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>How to cultivate confidence [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/cultivate-confidence-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Mar 2019 10:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14408</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been traveling a lot this month, connecting with listeners, friends, and clients from all over the country. It&#8217;s been wonderful seeing my community and discussing things with you in person. Something that&#8217;s come up consistently throughout my travels is the topic of confidence. Many of you have asked me, &#8220;How do I cultivate confidence? [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been traveling a lot this month, connecting with listeners, friends, and clients from all over the country. It&#8217;s been wonderful seeing my community and discussing things with you in person. Something that&#8217;s come up consistently thr]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been traveling a lot this month, connecting with listeners, friends, and clients from all over the country. It&#8217;s been wonderful seeing my community and discussing things with you in person. Something that&#8217;s come up consistently throughout my travels is the topic of confidence. Many of you have asked me, &#8220;How do I cultivate confidence? [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14408/cultivate-confidence-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been traveling a lot this month, connecting with listeners, friends, and clients from all over the country. It&#8217;s been wonderful seeing my community and discussing things with you in person. Something that&#8217;s come up consistently throughout my travels is the topic of confidence. Many of you have asked me, &#8220;How do I cultivate confidence? [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-83.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>How to cultivate confidence [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been traveling a lot this month, connecting with listeners, friends, and clients from all over the country. It&#8217;s been wonderful seeing my community and discussing things with you in person. Something that&#8217;s come up consistently throughout my travels is the topic of confidence. Many of you have asked me, &#8220;How do I cultivate confidence? [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-83.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>How to stop approval whoring [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/stop-approval-whoring-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Mar 2019 10:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14336</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s topic &#8211; how to stop approval whoring &#8211; is one that has been controversial to my listeners before. Many people use the term &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; for the kind of behavior I&#8217;m talking about on today&#8217;s episode, but I&#8217;ve got some good reasons for not using that terminology. I think the phrase &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; sounds a bit [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s topic &#8211; how to stop approval whoring &#8211; is one that has been controversial to my listeners before. Many people use the term &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; for the kind of behavior I&#8217;m talking about on today&#8217;s episode, ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s topic &#8211; how to stop approval whoring &#8211; is one that has been controversial to my listeners before. Many people use the term &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; for the kind of behavior I&#8217;m talking about on today&#8217;s episode, but I&#8217;ve got some good reasons for not using that terminology. I think the phrase &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; sounds a bit [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s topic &#8211; how to stop approval whoring &#8211; is one that has been controversial to my listeners before. Many people use the term &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; for the kind of behavior I&#8217;m talking about on today&#8217;s episode, but I&#8217;ve got some good reasons for not using that terminology. I think the phrase &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; sounds a bit [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-82.jpg"></itunes:image>
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		<title>How to stop approval whoring [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s topic &#8211; how to stop approval whoring &#8211; is one that has been controversial to my listeners before. Many people use the term &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; for the kind of behavior I&#8217;m talking about on today&#8217;s episode, but I&#8217;ve got some good reasons for not using that terminology. I think the phrase &#8220;people pleasing&#8221; sounds a bit [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/Full-Size-HSRDI-82.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Are you having courageous conversations? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/courageous-conversations-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2019 10:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14247</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Although we all want to connect with other people and to feel like we belong, this looks different for everybody: maybe you&#8217;re an introvert and prefer connecting with a small group in an intimate setting. Or, maybe you&#8217;re an extrovert and you love bouncing around a party, having conversations with all sorts of people. You [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Although we all want to connect with other people and to feel like we belong, this looks different for everybody: maybe you&#8217;re an introvert and prefer connecting with a small group in an intimate setting. Or, maybe you&#8217;re an extrovert and you]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Although we all want to connect with other people and to feel like we belong, this looks different for everybody: maybe you&#8217;re an introvert and prefer connecting with a small group in an intimate setting. Or, maybe you&#8217;re an extrovert and you love bouncing around a party, having conversations with all sorts of people. You [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14247/courageous-conversations-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Although we all want to connect with other people and to feel like we belong, this looks different for everybody: maybe you&#8217;re an introvert and prefer connecting with a small group in an intimate setting. Or, maybe you&#8217;re an extrovert and you love bouncing around a party, having conversations with all sorts of people. You [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-81.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-81.jpg</url>
		<title>Are you having courageous conversations? [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Although we all want to connect with other people and to feel like we belong, this looks different for everybody: maybe you&#8217;re an introvert and prefer connecting with a small group in an intimate setting. Or, maybe you&#8217;re an extrovert and you love bouncing around a party, having conversations with all sorts of people. You [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-81.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>I&#8217;m adulting [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/adulting-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2019 10:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14103</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We all know that sometimes being an adult can feel like too much. We have to work out, eat well, hang out with our friends, spend time with the kids, perform well at work, be a great partner&#8230; the list goes on. This is often called &#8220;adulting,&#8221; and I want to talk about what adulting [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We all know that sometimes being an adult can feel like too much. We have to work out, eat well, hang out with our friends, spend time with the kids, perform well at work, be a great partner&#8230; the list goes on. This is often called &#8220;adulting,&]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We all know that sometimes being an adult can feel like too much. We have to work out, eat well, hang out with our friends, spend time with the kids, perform well at work, be a great partner&#8230; the list goes on. This is often called &#8220;adulting,&#8221; and I want to talk about what adulting [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14103/adulting-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all know that sometimes being an adult can feel like too much. We have to work out, eat well, hang out with our friends, spend time with the kids, perform well at work, be a great partner&#8230; the list goes on. This is often called &#8220;adulting,&#8221; and I want to talk about what adulting [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-79.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-79.jpg</url>
		<title>I&#8217;m adulting [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We all know that sometimes being an adult can feel like too much. We have to work out, eat well, hang out with our friends, spend time with the kids, perform well at work, be a great partner&#8230; the list goes on. This is often called &#8220;adulting,&#8221; and I want to talk about what adulting [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-79.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The truth about authenticity [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/truth-authenticity-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2019 10:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=14039</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[It feels like so many of us are in search of true, authentic connections with others. We want the sense of belonging that comes from these supportive, loving relationships. But we&#8217;re often prevented from achieving this closeness by our own armor. In order to build authentic friendships and relationships, we first have to build a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[It feels like so many of us are in search of true, authentic connections with others. We want the sense of belonging that comes from these supportive, loving relationships. But we&#8217;re often prevented from achieving this closeness by our own armor. I]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like so many of us are in search of true, authentic connections with others. We want the sense of belonging that comes from these supportive, loving relationships. But we&#8217;re often prevented from achieving this closeness by our own armor. In order to build authentic friendships and relationships, we first have to build a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/14039/truth-authenticity-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[It feels like so many of us are in search of true, authentic connections with others. We want the sense of belonging that comes from these supportive, loving relationships. But we&#8217;re often prevented from achieving this closeness by our own armor. In order to build authentic friendships and relationships, we first have to build a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-78.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-78.jpg</url>
		<title>The truth about authenticity [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[It feels like so many of us are in search of true, authentic connections with others. We want the sense of belonging that comes from these supportive, loving relationships. But we&#8217;re often prevented from achieving this closeness by our own armor. In order to build authentic friendships and relationships, we first have to build a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Full-Size-HSRDI-78.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Two types of focus [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/focus-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2019 10:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=13960</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Recently, I&#8217;ve been working on a puzzle that a friend gave me over the holidays. And let me tell you, this puzzle has taught me a lot. Puzzles are such a useful metaphor for life, and this one has shown me how attached I can get to outcomes. On this episode, I&#8217;m talking about two types of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Recently, I&#8217;ve been working on a puzzle that a friend gave me over the holidays. And let me tell you, this puzzle has taught me a lot. Puzzles are such a useful metaphor for life, and this one has shown me how attached I can get to outcomes. On thi]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently, I&#8217;ve been working on a puzzle that a friend gave me over the holidays. And let me tell you, this puzzle has taught me a lot. Puzzles are such a useful metaphor for life, and this one has shown me how attached I can get to outcomes. On this episode, I&#8217;m talking about two types of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/13960/focus-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Recently, I&#8217;ve been working on a puzzle that a friend gave me over the holidays. And let me tell you, this puzzle has taught me a lot. Puzzles are such a useful metaphor for life, and this one has shown me how attached I can get to outcomes. On this episode, I&#8217;m talking about two types of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-77.jpg"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Two types of focus [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Recently, I&#8217;ve been working on a puzzle that a friend gave me over the holidays. And let me tell you, this puzzle has taught me a lot. Puzzles are such a useful metaphor for life, and this one has shown me how attached I can get to outcomes. On this episode, I&#8217;m talking about two types of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Full-Size-HSRDI-77.jpg"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Become the leader of your life [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/leader-your-life-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jan 2019 10:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=13785</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[What does it mean to be the leader of your life? It means living according to your values, without imposing them on others. It means doing things from a place of enoughness, rather than a place of shame. It means being you, instead of who you think everyone else wants you to be. Becoming the leader of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[What does it mean to be the leader of your life? It means living according to your values, without imposing them on others. It means doing things from a place of enoughness, rather than a place of shame. It means being you, instead of who you think every]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[What does it mean to be the leader of your life? It means living according to your values, without imposing them on others. It means doing things from a place of enoughness, rather than a place of shame. It means being you, instead of who you think everyone else wants you to be. Becoming the leader of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/13785/leader-your-life-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does it mean to be the leader of your life? It means living according to your values, without imposing them on others. It means doing things from a place of enoughness, rather than a place of shame. It means being you, instead of who you think everyone else wants you to be. Becoming the leader of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Becometheleaderofyourlife.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Becometheleaderofyourlife.png</url>
		<title>Become the leader of your life [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[What does it mean to be the leader of your life? It means living according to your values, without imposing them on others. It means doing things from a place of enoughness, rather than a place of shame. It means being you, instead of who you think everyone else wants you to be. Becoming the leader of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Becometheleaderofyourlife.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>I can change [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/can-change-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 07 Dec 2018 10:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=13448</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[You want to change. You really, really want to change. Do you believe you can change? And even if you did want to change and believed you could change you aren&#8217;t sure how to change. I have just the thing for you in today&#8217;s podcast: the process with real tangible stories for you to change. LISTEN [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You want to change. You really, really want to change. Do you believe you can change? And even if you did want to change and believed you could change you aren&#8217;t sure how to change. I have just the thing for you in today&#8217;s podcast: the proces]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[You want to change. You really, really want to change. Do you believe you can change? And even if you did want to change and believed you could change you aren&#8217;t sure how to change. I have just the thing for you in today&#8217;s podcast: the process with real tangible stories for you to change. LISTEN [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/13448/can-change-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[You want to change. You really, really want to change. Do you believe you can change? And even if you did want to change and believed you could change you aren&#8217;t sure how to change. I have just the thing for you in today&#8217;s podcast: the process with real tangible stories for you to change. LISTEN [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Icanchange.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Icanchange.png</url>
		<title>I can change [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[You want to change. You really, really want to change. Do you believe you can change? And even if you did want to change and believed you could change you aren&#8217;t sure how to change. I have just the thing for you in today&#8217;s podcast: the process with real tangible stories for you to change. LISTEN [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/Icanchange.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The beauty in the mess [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/beauty-mess-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Nov 2018 10:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=13308</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I used to believe once I &#8220;arrived&#8221; I would no longer have problems. If I planned, achieved, did it all perfectly there would no longer be any messes. One would believe this promise of no messes would create bliss in our lives. The reality is that it creates tremendous pain + frustration. In this episode I talk about [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I used to believe once I &#8220;arrived&#8221; I would no longer have problems. If I planned, achieved, did it all perfectly there would no longer be any messes. One would believe this promise of no messes would create bliss in our lives. The reality is ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I used to believe once I &#8220;arrived&#8221; I would no longer have problems. If I planned, achieved, did it all perfectly there would no longer be any messes. One would believe this promise of no messes would create bliss in our lives. The reality is that it creates tremendous pain + frustration. In this episode I talk about [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/13308/beauty-mess-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I used to believe once I &#8220;arrived&#8221; I would no longer have problems. If I planned, achieved, did it all perfectly there would no longer be any messes. One would believe this promise of no messes would create bliss in our lives. The reality is that it creates tremendous pain + frustration. In this episode I talk about [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/thebeautyinthemess.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/thebeautyinthemess.png</url>
		<title>The beauty in the mess [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[I used to believe once I &#8220;arrived&#8221; I would no longer have problems. If I planned, achieved, did it all perfectly there would no longer be any messes. One would believe this promise of no messes would create bliss in our lives. The reality is that it creates tremendous pain + frustration. In this episode I talk about [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/thebeautyinthemess.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>When you can wear fake UGGS!!! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/can-wear-fake-uggs-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Nov 2018 10:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=13165</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Why is Koren talking about FAKE UGGS??&#8221; Growing up poor with a lot of shame around money, Mocassin shoes and UGG boots were a big teacher for me.  In this podcast I talk about money shame, fitting in and belonging and the lessons you will learn from overcoming the shaming from our cultural beliefs. LISTEN [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[&#8220;Why is Koren talking about FAKE UGGS??&#8221; Growing up poor with a lot of shame around money, Mocassin shoes and UGG boots were a big teacher for me.  In this podcast I talk about money shame, fitting in and belonging and the lessons you will le]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[&#8220;Why is Koren talking about FAKE UGGS??&#8221; Growing up poor with a lot of shame around money, Mocassin shoes and UGG boots were a big teacher for me.  In this podcast I talk about money shame, fitting in and belonging and the lessons you will learn from overcoming the shaming from our cultural beliefs. LISTEN [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/13165/can-wear-fake-uggs-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[&#8220;Why is Koren talking about FAKE UGGS??&#8221; Growing up poor with a lot of shame around money, Mocassin shoes and UGG boots were a big teacher for me.  In this podcast I talk about money shame, fitting in and belonging and the lessons you will learn from overcoming the shaming from our cultural beliefs. LISTEN [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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		<title>When you can wear fake UGGS!!! [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[&#8220;Why is Koren talking about FAKE UGGS??&#8221; Growing up poor with a lot of shame around money, Mocassin shoes and UGG boots were a big teacher for me.  In this podcast I talk about money shame, fitting in and belonging and the lessons you will learn from overcoming the shaming from our cultural beliefs. LISTEN [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/WhenyoucanwearfakeUggs.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Deciding Ahead of Time [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/deciding-ahead-time-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Oct 2018 13:38:11 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=13038</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Reduce your brain juice drain. I&#8217;m sharing with you how deciding ahead of time supports your life and isn&#8217;t restrictive. Want to feel better? I have a special workbook for you. Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Making the wrong decision Reducing brain juice drain Deciding ahead of [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Reduce your brain juice drain. I&#8217;m sharing with you how deciding ahead of time supports your life and isn&#8217;t restrictive. Want to feel better? I have a special workbook for you. Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Reduce your brain juice drain. I&#8217;m sharing with you how deciding ahead of time supports your life and isn&#8217;t restrictive. Want to feel better? I have a special workbook for you. Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Making the wrong decision Reducing brain juice drain Deciding ahead of [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Reduce your brain juice drain. I&#8217;m sharing with you how deciding ahead of time supports your life and isn&#8217;t restrictive. Want to feel better? I have a special workbook for you. Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Making the wrong decision Reducing brain juice drain Deciding ahead of [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Decidingaheadoftime.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Deciding Ahead of Time [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Reduce your brain juice drain. I&#8217;m sharing with you how deciding ahead of time supports your life and isn&#8217;t restrictive. Want to feel better? I have a special workbook for you. Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Making the wrong decision Reducing brain juice drain Deciding ahead of [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Decidingaheadoftime.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>This shouldn&#8217;t be happening [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/thisshouldntbehappening/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2018 10:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12926</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself saying &#8220;This shouldn&#8217;t be happening.&#8221; What happens when you do that. What&#8217;s a better alternative. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER What happens when we resist + argue Byron [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself saying &#8220;This shouldn&#8217;t be happening.&#8221; What happens when you do that. What&#8217;s a better alternative. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself saying &#8220;This shouldn&#8217;t be happening.&#8221; What happens when you do that. What&#8217;s a better alternative. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER What happens when we resist + argue Byron [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12926/thisshouldntbehappening.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself saying &#8220;This shouldn&#8217;t be happening.&#8221; What happens when you do that. What&#8217;s a better alternative. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER What happens when we resist + argue Byron [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Thisshouldntbehappening.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Thisshouldntbehappening.png</url>
		<title>This shouldn&#8217;t be happening [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[How often do you find yourself saying &#8220;This shouldn&#8217;t be happening.&#8221; What happens when you do that. What&#8217;s a better alternative. Remember to grab the MINDSET PRACTICE workbook I use with my clients! Make sure you download it. FREE MINDSET PRACTICE LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER What happens when we resist + argue Byron [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/Thisshouldntbehappening.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Lies We Tell Ourselves [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/thelieswetellourselves/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2018 10:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12830</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[There are so many stories playing in our heads. They are often lies. Painful lies we listen to all day long. Let&#8217;s stop that. You want to build a relationship of trust with yourself. Join me&#8230;. LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Many lies we tell ourselves How to know if it&#8217;s a lile What [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[There are so many stories playing in our heads. They are often lies. Painful lies we listen to all day long. Let&#8217;s stop that. You want to build a relationship of trust with yourself. Join me&#8230;. LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Many lies we t]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[There are so many stories playing in our heads. They are often lies. Painful lies we listen to all day long. Let&#8217;s stop that. You want to build a relationship of trust with yourself. Join me&#8230;. LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Many lies we tell ourselves How to know if it&#8217;s a lile What [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12830/thelieswetellourselves.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are so many stories playing in our heads. They are often lies. Painful lies we listen to all day long. Let&#8217;s stop that. You want to build a relationship of trust with yourself. Join me&#8230;. LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Many lies we tell ourselves How to know if it&#8217;s a lile What [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/TheLiesWeTellOurselves.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/TheLiesWeTellOurselves.png</url>
		<title>The Lies We Tell Ourselves [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[There are so many stories playing in our heads. They are often lies. Painful lies we listen to all day long. Let&#8217;s stop that. You want to build a relationship of trust with yourself. Join me&#8230;. LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER Many lies we tell ourselves How to know if it&#8217;s a lile What [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/TheLiesWeTellOurselves.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>People liking you has nothing to do with you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/people-liking-nothing-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2018 10:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12714</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[A very important lesson I learned some years back&#8230; If people like you or don&#8217;t like you, it has nothing to do with you! LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER difference between not being liked and doing harm to others who we like when we don&#8217;t like others FEATURED ON THE SHOW Ready to join the ENOUGH [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[A very important lesson I learned some years back&#8230; If people like you or don&#8217;t like you, it has nothing to do with you! LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER difference between not being liked and doing harm to others who we like when we don&#82]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[A very important lesson I learned some years back&#8230; If people like you or don&#8217;t like you, it has nothing to do with you! LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER difference between not being liked and doing harm to others who we like when we don&#8217;t like others FEATURED ON THE SHOW Ready to join the ENOUGH [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12714/people-liking-nothing-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[A very important lesson I learned some years back&#8230; If people like you or don&#8217;t like you, it has nothing to do with you! LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER difference between not being liked and doing harm to others who we like when we don&#8217;t like others FEATURED ON THE SHOW Ready to join the ENOUGH [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/PeopleLikingYouHasNothingToDoWIthYou2.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>People liking you has nothing to do with you [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[A very important lesson I learned some years back&#8230; If people like you or don&#8217;t like you, it has nothing to do with you! LISTEN HERE WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER difference between not being liked and doing harm to others who we like when we don&#8217;t like others FEATURED ON THE SHOW Ready to join the ENOUGH [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/PeopleLikingYouHasNothingToDoWIthYou2.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Fear of Failure + Fear of Success [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/fearofsuccess/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 31 Aug 2018 10:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12617</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We all understand the fear of failure. We can talk the growth mindset about making mistakes growing and learning, but really how good are you at failing? How willing are you at sucking at something, especially something important? When you think of failure…what do you make it mean?     I&#8217;m not enough?     I&#8217;m a [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We all understand the fear of failure. We can talk the growth mindset about making mistakes growing and learning, but really how good are you at failing? How willing are you at sucking at something, especially something important? When you think of failu]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We all understand the fear of failure. We can talk the growth mindset about making mistakes growing and learning, but really how good are you at failing? How willing are you at sucking at something, especially something important? When you think of failure…what do you make it mean?     I&#8217;m not enough?     I&#8217;m a [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12617/fearofsuccess.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We all understand the fear of failure. We can talk the growth mindset about making mistakes growing and learning, but really how good are you at failing? How willing are you at sucking at something, especially something important? When you think of failure…what do you make it mean?     I&#8217;m not enough?     I&#8217;m a [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/FearFailureandSuccess.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/FearFailureandSuccess.png</url>
		<title>Fear of Failure + Fear of Success [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We all understand the fear of failure. We can talk the growth mindset about making mistakes growing and learning, but really how good are you at failing? How willing are you at sucking at something, especially something important? When you think of failure…what do you make it mean?     I&#8217;m not enough?     I&#8217;m a [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/FearFailureandSuccess.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>The pool is a mirror for what our kids believe about themselves [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/pool-mirror-kids-believe-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 10 Aug 2018 15:10:08 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12429</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[We have many areas in our lives. Family. Work. Marriage. Partners. Friends. Community. Sports. Parenting. In this Deep Dive, I discuss one arena that you can use as a metaphor for one of your own arena&#8217;s along with the steps of what to do to find out what you believe about yourself in your arena. [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[We have many areas in our lives. Family. Work. Marriage. Partners. Friends. Community. Sports. Parenting. In this Deep Dive, I discuss one arena that you can use as a metaphor for one of your own arena&#8217;s along with the steps of what to do to find o]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[We have many areas in our lives. Family. Work. Marriage. Partners. Friends. Community. Sports. Parenting. In this Deep Dive, I discuss one arena that you can use as a metaphor for one of your own arena&#8217;s along with the steps of what to do to find out what you believe about yourself in your arena. [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12429/pool-mirror-kids-believe-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[We have many areas in our lives. Family. Work. Marriage. Partners. Friends. Community. Sports. Parenting. In this Deep Dive, I discuss one arena that you can use as a metaphor for one of your own arena&#8217;s along with the steps of what to do to find out what you believe about yourself in your arena. [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ThePoolIsAMirror.png"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The pool is a mirror for what our kids believe about themselves [Deep Dive]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[We have many areas in our lives. Family. Work. Marriage. Partners. Friends. Community. Sports. Parenting. In this Deep Dive, I discuss one arena that you can use as a metaphor for one of your own arena&#8217;s along with the steps of what to do to find out what you believe about yourself in your arena. [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/ThePoolIsAMirror.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Be Responsible for Your Feelings [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/responsible-feelings-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Aug 2018 15:42:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12381</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW Offloading our emotions to others Hot potatoe effect Importance to understand [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHO]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW Offloading our emotions to others Hot potatoe effect Importance to understand [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12381/responsible-feelings-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW Offloading our emotions to others Hot potatoe effect Importance to understand [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/BeResponsibleForyourFeelings.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
		<url>https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/BeResponsibleForyourFeelings.png</url>
		<title>Be Responsible for Your Feelings [Deep Dive]</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Instead of offloading hurt to others, it&#8217;s about feeling your feelings and moving through them by standing your sacred ground. In this Deep Dive, I discuss how our feelings affect others and what we can do about it. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW Offloading our emotions to others Hot potatoe effect Importance to understand [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/BeResponsibleForyourFeelings.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
</item>

<item>
	<title>Seeing is NOT Believing</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/seeing-believing/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jul 2018 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">https://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=12319</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[You want guarantees that it will work. Then you will risk being vulnerable and start believing. However, that is not how you achieve the results you want. In this Deep Dive, I discuss why seeing is not believing and what you need to do instead. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW I&#8217;ll believe it when [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[You want guarantees that it will work. Then you will risk being vulnerable and start believing. However, that is not how you achieve the results you want. In this Deep Dive, I discuss why seeing is not believing and what you need to do instead. LISTEN HE]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[You want guarantees that it will work. Then you will risk being vulnerable and start believing. However, that is not how you achieve the results you want. In this Deep Dive, I discuss why seeing is not believing and what you need to do instead. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW I&#8217;ll believe it when [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/12319/seeing-believing.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[You want guarantees that it will work. Then you will risk being vulnerable and start believing. However, that is not how you achieve the results you want. In this Deep Dive, I discuss why seeing is not believing and what you need to do instead. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW I&#8217;ll believe it when [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/SeeingisNOTbelieving.png"></itunes:image>
	<image>
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		<title>Seeing is NOT Believing</title>
	</image>
	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[You want guarantees that it will work. Then you will risk being vulnerable and start believing. However, that is not how you achieve the results you want. In this Deep Dive, I discuss why seeing is not believing and what you need to do instead. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW I&#8217;ll believe it when [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
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	<title>Definition of Success</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/definition-success/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jul 2018 10:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[How often are you measuring your success by the definition of others? LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW What is the definition of success Steps to discover your own definition The Promise of Success Sign up for some LOVE&#8230;Sunday LOVE &#160; Thank You for Listening! There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[How often are you measuring your success by the definition of others? LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW What is the definition of success Steps to discover your own definition The Promise of Success Sign up for some LOVE&#8230;Sunday LOVE &#160; Thank Yo]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[How often are you measuring your success by the definition of others? LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW What is the definition of success Steps to discover your own definition The Promise of Success Sign up for some LOVE&#8230;Sunday LOVE &#160; Thank You for Listening! There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Belonging [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/belonging-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jun 2018 10:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11968</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[unsplash-logoSebastián Villegas The one thing I know for sure is we all want (and need) a place to belong. In this Deep Dive, I discuss the difference our desire to belong over fitting in. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW fitting in vs. belonging finding our tribe/community perfection + belonging our fear self-hatred creating belong [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[unsplash-logoSebastián Villegas The one thing I know for sure is we all want (and need) a place to belong. In this Deep Dive, I discuss the difference our desire to belong over fitting in. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW fitting in vs. belonging findin]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[unsplash-logoSebastián Villegas The one thing I know for sure is we all want (and need) a place to belong. In this Deep Dive, I discuss the difference our desire to belong over fitting in. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW fitting in vs. belonging finding our tribe/community perfection + belonging our fear self-hatred creating belong [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[unsplash-logoSebastián Villegas The one thing I know for sure is we all want (and need) a place to belong. In this Deep Dive, I discuss the difference our desire to belong over fitting in. LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW fitting in vs. belonging finding our tribe/community perfection + belonging our fear self-hatred creating belong [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/BELONGING-1.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Way of Conscious Living [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/way-conscious-living-deep-divef/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2018 10:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11654</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Conscious living does not have to be about meditating, being a yogi, organic + green foods human. In this episode, I discuss what conscious living is, why you will benefit it and how to do it! LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW What being brave looks like in real life Nancy Duarte: You have the power [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Conscious living does not have to be about meditating, being a yogi, organic + green foods human. In this episode, I discuss what conscious living is, why you will benefit it and how to do it! LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW What being brave looks like]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Conscious living does not have to be about meditating, being a yogi, organic + green foods human. In this episode, I discuss what conscious living is, why you will benefit it and how to do it! LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW What being brave looks like in real life Nancy Duarte: You have the power [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Conscious living does not have to be about meditating, being a yogi, organic + green foods human. In this episode, I discuss what conscious living is, why you will benefit it and how to do it! LISTEN HERE MENTIONED ON THE SHOW What being brave looks like in real life Nancy Duarte: You have the power [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/TheWayofConsciousLiving.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>What being brave looks like in real life</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/brave-looks-like-real-life/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2018 21:20:02 +0000</pubDate>
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	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11599</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[When you think of being brave what do you see? I used to see the movie Braveheart with Mel Gibson and his fellow actors running down hills with swords in their hand. But that is not being brave in my real life. However I am brave as I show up in my life, face challenges [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[When you think of being brave what do you see? I used to see the movie Braveheart with Mel Gibson and his fellow actors running down hills with swords in their hand. But that is not being brave in my real life. However I am brave as I show up in my life,]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[When you think of being brave what do you see? I used to see the movie Braveheart with Mel Gibson and his fellow actors running down hills with swords in their hand. But that is not being brave in my real life. However I am brave as I show up in my life, face challenges [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you think of being brave what do you see? I used to see the movie Braveheart with Mel Gibson and his fellow actors running down hills with swords in their hand. But that is not being brave in my real life. However I am brave as I show up in my life, face challenges [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>How to Face + Overcome the Silent Assassin Called Shame</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/face-overcome-silent-assassin-called-shame/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2018 10:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
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	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11541</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I talk a lot about shame here on How She Really Does It. It is so important to know shame and understand it. If you don&#8217;t shame will own you. In this episode, I go into where shame comes from, the feeling of shame, and how to overcome shame in your life. LISTEN HERE Join [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I talk a lot about shame here on How She Really Does It. It is so important to know shame and understand it. If you don&#8217;t shame will own you. In this episode, I go into where shame comes from, the feeling of shame, and how to overcome shame in your]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I talk a lot about shame here on How She Really Does It. It is so important to know shame and understand it. If you don&#8217;t shame will own you. In this episode, I go into where shame comes from, the feeling of shame, and how to overcome shame in your life. LISTEN HERE Join [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I talk a lot about shame here on How She Really Does It. It is so important to know shame and understand it. If you don&#8217;t shame will own you. In this episode, I go into where shame comes from, the feeling of shame, and how to overcome shame in your life. LISTEN HERE Join [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/HowtoFaceandOvercometheSilentAssassinCalledShame.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>How to Write A New Story About Who You Are + Where You&#8217;re Going</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/write-new-story-youre-going/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2018 21:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11522</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Let go of your past and focus forward. In this podcast, I talk about how you can do this. LISTEN HERE Mentioned in this Podcast Subscribe to Newsletter ENOUGH Thank You for Listening! There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine.  I am filled with gratitude for being [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Let go of your past and focus forward. In this podcast, I talk about how you can do this. LISTEN HERE Mentioned in this Podcast Subscribe to Newsletter ENOUGH Thank You for Listening! There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you c]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Let go of your past and focus forward. In this podcast, I talk about how you can do this. LISTEN HERE Mentioned in this Podcast Subscribe to Newsletter ENOUGH Thank You for Listening! There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine.  I am filled with gratitude for being [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/11522/write-new-story-youre-going.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Let go of your past and focus forward. In this podcast, I talk about how you can do this. LISTEN HERE Mentioned in this Podcast Subscribe to Newsletter ENOUGH Thank You for Listening! There are a lot of podcasts you could be listening to today, and you chose mine.  I am filled with gratitude for being [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/HowToWriteANewStory.png"></itunes:image>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/HowToWriteANewStory.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Structure to Support You [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/structure-support-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2018 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11422</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[I want to do what I want to do. No one is the boss of me. I must do it when I get inspired. I am not disciplined, those are Type A people and I refuse to be that way. That was my life before structure. Which also lead to a lot of frustration, overwhelm [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[I want to do what I want to do. No one is the boss of me. I must do it when I get inspired. I am not disciplined, those are Type A people and I refuse to be that way. That was my life before structure. Which also lead to a lot of frustration, overwhelm ]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[I want to do what I want to do. No one is the boss of me. I must do it when I get inspired. I am not disciplined, those are Type A people and I refuse to be that way. That was my life before structure. Which also lead to a lot of frustration, overwhelm [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[I want to do what I want to do. No one is the boss of me. I must do it when I get inspired. I am not disciplined, those are Type A people and I refuse to be that way. That was my life before structure. Which also lead to a lot of frustration, overwhelm [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/StructuretoSupportYou.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Burnout [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/burnout-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2018 10:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11329</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Burnout&#8230;.what causes it? LISTEN HERE Mentioned in this Podcast Subscribe to Newsletter ENOUGH &#8211; Sign up to be the first to know Managing Your Mindset  Thank You for Listening! It’s time to put this into practice in your life. Sign up to be the first to know about ENOUGH  Live your life in awe and with hopeful [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Burnout&#8230;.what causes it? LISTEN HERE Mentioned in this Podcast Subscribe to Newsletter ENOUGH &#8211; Sign up to be the first to know Managing Your Mindset  Thank You for Listening! It’s time to put this into practice in your life. Sign up to be th]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Burnout&#8230;.what causes it? LISTEN HERE Mentioned in this Podcast Subscribe to Newsletter ENOUGH &#8211; Sign up to be the first to know Managing Your Mindset  Thank You for Listening! It’s time to put this into practice in your life. Sign up to be the first to know about ENOUGH  Live your life in awe and with hopeful [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Burnout&#8230;.what causes it? LISTEN HERE Mentioned in this Podcast Subscribe to Newsletter ENOUGH &#8211; Sign up to be the first to know Managing Your Mindset  Thank You for Listening! It’s time to put this into practice in your life. Sign up to be the first to know about ENOUGH  Live your life in awe and with hopeful [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Burnout-stress.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Land of Apathy [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/land-apathy-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2018 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[What most people do is settle in the Land of Apathy. They let go of their enthusiasm and interest in pursuing the life they want to create and instead settle into the Land of Apathy. They believe this is as good as it gets. They believe it is safe to live here. In the Land [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[What most people do is settle in the Land of Apathy. They let go of their enthusiasm and interest in pursuing the life they want to create and instead settle into the Land of Apathy. They believe this is as good as it gets. They believe it is safe to liv]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[What most people do is settle in the Land of Apathy. They let go of their enthusiasm and interest in pursuing the life they want to create and instead settle into the Land of Apathy. They believe this is as good as it gets. They believe it is safe to live here. In the Land [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
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	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[What most people do is settle in the Land of Apathy. They let go of their enthusiasm and interest in pursuing the life they want to create and instead settle into the Land of Apathy. They believe this is as good as it gets. They believe it is safe to live here. In the Land [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[What most people do is settle in the Land of Apathy. They let go of their enthusiasm and interest in pursuing the life they want to create and instead settle into the Land of Apathy. They believe this is as good as it gets. They believe it is safe to live here. In the Land [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/LandOfApathy.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Focus + Commitment [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/focuscommitment/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 12 Jan 2018 10:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
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	<description><![CDATA[What most people do is try to find the perfect solution to their problem. They go to expert after expert after expert. They don’t commit yet because they don’t know if they have the right solution. This leads most people to lack of focus. Instead of doing, they are searching. Instead of commitment, they are [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[What most people do is try to find the perfect solution to their problem. They go to expert after expert after expert. They don’t commit yet because they don’t know if they have the right solution. This leads most people to lack of focus. Instead of doin]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[What most people do is try to find the perfect solution to their problem. They go to expert after expert after expert. They don’t commit yet because they don’t know if they have the right solution. This leads most people to lack of focus. Instead of doing, they are searching. Instead of commitment, they are [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/11287/focuscommitment.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[What most people do is try to find the perfect solution to their problem. They go to expert after expert after expert. They don’t commit yet because they don’t know if they have the right solution. This leads most people to lack of focus. Instead of doing, they are searching. Instead of commitment, they are [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Focusandcommitment.png"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Focus + Commitment [Deep Dive]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[What most people do is try to find the perfect solution to their problem. They go to expert after expert after expert. They don’t commit yet because they don’t know if they have the right solution. This leads most people to lack of focus. Instead of doing, they are searching. Instead of commitment, they are [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Focusandcommitment.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Be the Leader of Your Life [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/leader-life-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2017 21:01:49 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11276</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[As the leader of your life, you get to listen to you. What’s important to you? Who is it you really are on the inside? When you take off all the supposed to’s who is inside? Being the leader of your life is about being authentically you. It’s about letting go of the external rules [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[As the leader of your life, you get to listen to you. What’s important to you? Who is it you really are on the inside? When you take off all the supposed to’s who is inside? Being the leader of your life is about being authentically you. It’s about letti]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[As the leader of your life, you get to listen to you. What’s important to you? Who is it you really are on the inside? When you take off all the supposed to’s who is inside? Being the leader of your life is about being authentically you. It’s about letting go of the external rules [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/11276/leader-life-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[As the leader of your life, you get to listen to you. What’s important to you? Who is it you really are on the inside? When you take off all the supposed to’s who is inside? Being the leader of your life is about being authentically you. It’s about letting go of the external rules [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/BetheLeaderofYourLife.png"></itunes:image>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[As the leader of your life, you get to listen to you. What’s important to you? Who is it you really are on the inside? When you take off all the supposed to’s who is inside? Being the leader of your life is about being authentically you. It’s about letting go of the external rules [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/BetheLeaderofYourLife.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Declutter &#124; Awareness &#124; Commit + Remind to Manage Your Mindset</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/declutter-awareness-commit-manage-mindset/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2017 10:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11265</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DI]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/11265/declutter-awareness-commit-manage-mindset.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/DeclutterAwarenessCommitRemind.png"></itunes:image>
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	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/DeclutterAwarenessCommitRemind.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Small Hinges Can Move Big Doors [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/small_hinges/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 01 Dec 2017 10:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11249</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DI]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/11249/small_hinges.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/SmallHingesCanMoveBigDoors.png"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Small Hinges Can Move Big Doors [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/SmallHingesCanMoveBigDoors.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>The Antidote to SHAME [DEEP DIVE]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/antidote-shame-deep-dive/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 17 Nov 2017 10:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11239</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DI]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/11239/antidote-shame-deep-dive.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/TheAntidotetoShame.png"></itunes:image>
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		<title>The Antidote to SHAME [DEEP DIVE]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>true</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Welcome to How She Really Does It: the place where inspiration + possibility meet. I have two types of solo shows: MINISODES + DEEP DIVES. MINISODES where I talk to you about one thing on my mind at a bite-size level and are 10 minutes in length. DEEP DIVES take a topic to a deeper level + [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/TheAntidotetoShame.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>Yes</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Believe In Yourself [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/believe-in-yourself/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 03 Nov 2017 18:53:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11224</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[Instead of I will believe it when I see it, you must believe in yourself to achieve. In this deep dive episode, I discuss why you must believe in yourself and what that really looks like. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Surrounding yourself with people who believe in you Believing in Yourself Choosing [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[Instead of I will believe it when I see it, you must believe in yourself to achieve. In this deep dive episode, I discuss why you must believe in yourself and what that really looks like. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Surrounding yourself with peop]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[Instead of I will believe it when I see it, you must believe in yourself to achieve. In this deep dive episode, I discuss why you must believe in yourself and what that really looks like. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Surrounding yourself with people who believe in you Believing in Yourself Choosing [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/11224/believe-in-yourself.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[Instead of I will believe it when I see it, you must believe in yourself to achieve. In this deep dive episode, I discuss why you must believe in yourself and what that really looks like. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Surrounding yourself with people who believe in you Believing in Yourself Choosing [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/BelieveinYourself.png"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Believe In Yourself [Deep Dive]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
	<itunes:block>no</itunes:block>
	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[Instead of I will believe it when I see it, you must believe in yourself to achieve. In this deep dive episode, I discuss why you must believe in yourself and what that really looks like. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Surrounding yourself with people who believe in you Believing in Yourself Choosing [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/BelieveinYourself.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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<item>
	<title>Hair Rules: Must Always Be the Same??? [Deep Dive]</title>
	<link>https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast/hair-rules-must-always/</link>
	<pubDate>Fri, 27 Oct 2017 18:53:31 +0000</pubDate>
	<dc:creator><![CDATA[]]></dc:creator>
	<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howshereallydoesit.com/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=11215</guid>
	<description><![CDATA[What rules do you live your life by that are creating prison walls in your life? In this deep dive episode, I discuss how the we have programmed rules that limit our lives and we are not even aware of them until we step into the arena. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Must [&#8230;]]]></description>
	<itunes:subtitle><![CDATA[What rules do you live your life by that are creating prison walls in your life? In this deep dive episode, I discuss how the we have programmed rules that limit our lives and we are not even aware of them until we step into the arena. LISTEN HERE In thi]]></itunes:subtitle>
	<content:encoded><![CDATA[What rules do you live your life by that are creating prison walls in your life? In this deep dive episode, I discuss how the we have programmed rules that limit our lives and we are not even aware of them until we step into the arena. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Must [&#8230;]]]></content:encoded>
	<enclosure url="https://howshereallydoesit.com/podcast-download/11215/hair-rules-must-always.mp3" length="1" type="audio/mpeg"></enclosure>
	<itunes:summary><![CDATA[What rules do you live your life by that are creating prison walls in your life? In this deep dive episode, I discuss how the we have programmed rules that limit our lives and we are not even aware of them until we step into the arena. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Must [&#8230;]]]></itunes:summary>
	<itunes:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/HairRules.png"></itunes:image>
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		<title>Hair Rules: Must Always Be the Same??? [Deep Dive]</title>
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	<itunes:explicit>false</itunes:explicit>
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	<itunes:duration>0:00</itunes:duration>
	<itunes:author><![CDATA[]]></itunes:author>	<googleplay:description><![CDATA[What rules do you live your life by that are creating prison walls in your life? In this deep dive episode, I discuss how the we have programmed rules that limit our lives and we are not even aware of them until we step into the arena. LISTEN HERE In this show I discuss: Must [&#8230;]]]></googleplay:description>
	<googleplay:image href="https://howshereallydoesit.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/HairRules.png"></googleplay:image>
	<googleplay:explicit>No</googleplay:explicit>
	<googleplay:block>no</googleplay:block>
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